1. The one question that decides your exit.

Most owners think selling is about finding a buyer. The evidence says otherwise. 

Host John Lay, founder of Three Circles Agency, puts the deal room and the research side by side on one question: are you selling a job, or an asset? He introduces the show’s central image, the risk pendulum that swings toward buyer or seller in every deal.

Then, he walks the five lenses a buyer uses:

1. Finance, 
2. Operations, 
3. Marketing, 
4. Team, 
5. Customer experience

Plus, why only about three in ten marketed businesses sell, why roughly half of all exits are forced, and why most who sell regret it within a year.

Sources:

• Akerlof (1970), QJE, the “lemons”/uncertainty problem. 
• DeTienne (2010), Journal of Business Venturing, exit as a process. 
• Hytti et al. (2025), Int’l Journal of Management and Enterprise Development, 1,200+ Finnish SMEs (planning, not exit route, kept firms adaptive). 
• EPI National State of Owner Readiness (~70% of marketed businesses don’t sell; ~50% of exits forced by the 5 Ds; ~76% regret within a year; ~60% no personal post-exit plan). 
• Valuation practice (key-person/owner-dependence discount ~20–50%; customer-concentration discount ~0.5–1 turn of EBITDA; quality-of-earnings haircut ~20%). 
• Silver-tsunami demographics (~half of owners 55+; ~12M+ businesses may change hands over the next decade).

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