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מידד פריינטא וקרןאור פרנקו באים לחפור פנימה, לתוך עצמינו.
לדבר על הקשר בין בחירת בני זוג לדפוסי ריצוי, מניעים להתנהגויות, גבולות, הערכה עצמית, מיניות, מונוגמיה ואמונוגמיה, והאם זה האופי שלנו וככה אנחנו- או שאפשר להשתנות.
קרןאור פרנקו היא מטפלת זוגית ואישית, מומחית למערכות יחסים ותקשורת. מפתחת גישת 'מהות' הבוחנת מה הצורך הפנימי מאחורי התנהגויות, מזהה דפוסים חוזרים במערכות היחסים ומסייעת בשינוי אסטרטגיות בלתי מועילות על ידי הקשבה מתחת לסימפטומים, ומציאת הסיפור הפנימי שמניע הכל.
מידד פריינטא מביא גישה מערכתית הנדסית ואנלוגיות מעולמות המדע והטכנולוגיה, ובוחן מערכות אנושיות כמשימה מורכבת. הוא מביא עולם רגשי, יצירתי וחשוף, לצד ניסיון אישי עשיר ורקע כבלוגר יחסים. כתיבתו משלבת רגש ועומק רוחני, תוך התמודדות כנה עם נושאים כמו ריצוי, כאב וצמיחה אישית. בימים אילו הוא מסיים רומן ביכורים בשם "אני פאקינג ראוי" הנוגע בנושאים דומים
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אל עצמי פרק 13 - "הקובייה השלישית" – למה יוצא לנו אותו דבר, שוב ושוב
Use Left/Right to seek, Home/End to jump to start or end. Hold shift to jump forward or backward.
הפעם נגענו במושג של שינוי ממעלה ראשונה ושינוי ממעלה שנייה, שיחקנו בקוביות
והסברנו למה לפעמים מה שישנה את המצב הלא מיטבי הוא מה שלא היה לכם עד לרגע הזה - ולמה אם לא תחפשו את האלמנט האחר הזה, אתם עלולים לגלות מאוחר מדי שבחירות חדשות לכאורה שעשיתם, הן בעצם אותה בחירה שיצרה את המצב מלכתחילה, בדיוק כפי שכתב סידני ג'יי הריס: "ההיסטוריה חוזרת על עצמה, בתחפושת כה ערמומית שמעולם איננו מבחינים בדמיון עד שהנזק כבר נעשה."
אל עצמי, פרק 13
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SPEAKER_01Avalimve munot shonim Kesha'man.
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SPEAKER_01Okay.
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SPEAKER_00Shu botomakombe shelh the gamutomakom. Aval La Shelashha imani a hola sota lihve khayob ken ashelaya imani bucherve ohbenunitkei. Itholakulano, zaniomeratlicha. Betachimbuchorim bi stamp stamp bholofen as em Lokulanu Bukhrim la sotalihimzeme a geazimayev anachuma difim peshut lehavin sheto naimatulot as a pamnifrau bej vazina shhezelovet venifara de varabashu of fukhmize, manhumitgilgilim kiro to damilemidal in mida avalbese mi katelikate shhez odfus shel otod varze peshut mi giema z vita fuhashelo, azanhu lobe met mesha prinklum, rakmo tifimeta tizkul, zemashiru baino sim, can ve mashe ani baloma ze anachnu lobe zak kulano tzuchimeta domen o shone, elita minunva izunanchon lano, bimashe noak venaim lanu li vrhobo, letorcha ad gamasha ni natati anitzbati la keshon ofisheli shhibo, ayulanu sne tumim shabem it azanu hadlepasheni ba himemuno, tumihat boi skam numash ve yeshli ol dogma, le trum, shabonaknu loto devar, vanhulominasim le shalonti hadasheni she vdagab sipo miti uhma ammufwe. Legamra miti, me kapara laf it preyavis bolo t shheritiamov ehni loleinu tivonit kwa kameshreshana Lono Afadmuslan. Ken eh Busamansman shavani callet Khamesh Sreshana. Wow. Anyways, anitivonik loleinu, uh tivuni, bihlal. Avalani lomen a saleshana tovulomen a salishanorti. Hinel kathom shabo and at a mayri ki Avalze besedr lano.
SPEAKER_01A shaveno haim kiren or shel kameshoshanim, sh kaltitativ, I tamaski mash benazuk tela tivoni Oh the shelamazitova tire anik shetitativno as as kvarati de matsafhu given.
SPEAKER_00Whoaya za shik nagetha devarze voyemlit gareesh mimeni yemani lohdolmashuto kada shadu chtivonut, zilo vadlo, mamaaslo, zutivo teraduk mimeni me azipuramiti bemehazak. Sumerat er sho met' motivu on ni bemuter yuteritni mimimeni, um aval beeme kreshit garasnu, ayali z revesha city letra kim tivonin vasivantisha low ya vota' vitaltials. As vitatials a kamu. Summer z loma sho be metni heloti lyotermi revesha apafatata, aval anyagilha mever la la tivunutkenose. Mishania iti, lifnesha city tata lihsheli. The mesoshana z lifnesha city tata talicheli. Lobakha afhad lefishumreshima. Okay. Aniba kharti lefi indica lefi se ifekad. Who? Rotzimbi. Mukarli me. Who had chosen one?
SPEAKER_01Mukarim Zekol.
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SPEAKER_01Zemat animeniashbemet kolekhad mevitota masta ishishelo shavti keshevrav ve lachod kishelo lishole me tofkadesh de bart him ani kada shnuna mathika ve sa nithu shul le fakot kamoni had shanun sakran the adavarachon chamartisha metoamim the shuv khazar tilamilazo metoamim pnimik aspumashu e lefwe ger antegan shootcha shematilomisman vankrim lezaberanov shelle Sidney J. Harris, itonaya Amerikaisha amar, baik shere shel kolmasidi barnu, a istoria khozere telazma, khosek koarmumit, sheme olame enumakrinimba dimion, a chaneze kvarnas.
SPEAKER_00Shizebe nainoramit kasherle lifhorito todavar hafuch, velagid inelamadnumidze, avaltabucherito todovar halfuh. Ken, ki liko m tbe sheknet bachata totomatbe, imaphiraba ashelano, lomegiami toh ezeu shinui amiti azata buchereto devar Klumar atabbucher dereh utamini im Ani medeberet amon ale anoseshele shinui malarishonashilimi malashniata batuh mikira de Anio da the Zemediyam ezola matematika, physika lo de chelanashim fhamim, zeloma atrom sheli. Madain, both and clean the shaphimim, anni bemikra nit kalti memik and the mikela sbirmazoshanira. Okay, rifted the equity. There you go. As Ani betem nitkaltibaza derech derimuda tipulamishwartia zubik volozo khara, yesfoshani krashim shinuive hatmed, shelvichel bikloyo dat yeshlo shem no ramsubach, avalu ishma odmod kha khan, sh gamblila dat eh giveashem shelaniudatma erhunoteni ve shamu medshalakhmusim be met by cheshema kutyhsimfu med berlze, she anafnu beetem e osim etopiro chilanu, etna luchilanu, mitoh, ezehem e meniim elementim shekayamim banu, shemina limitama chazot, mim nan, lasot etu tampe ulot. Vletzovfadu gmazot e kvut elementi, kmo ste kubiyot, ve jimti stekel animat bial kabi yf shali rot yeshliadi, anakhim tzimba klinika shalih shav, zelbi shalore, veashliadi alashukhan, awe mashl kubiot kenemashmas bira zakah, le mishni tzali adi animarata kubiot vkaha, madgimaita devar. Az anaknu letzovhainian, yeshnun shte kubiot. Kolo khirocha nahunase, bekwuzata e elementi mael, itnulan wita outcome, shahu, misparin bench time lish temesre. Klum veshum de barasel, ve zelomeshene, imani a sef fula kubiyot, mani vare chotam, imani asovevota machuraga, vetende khalivaref ezrok ouaniafotam, or gidne khalis poro deser ve zrok lifnesh siamta, zelom shene, anikabel bench time tervelopochot mize. Nachon, nahon, yofem khav shayot. Meule, aval ani rozza lifho aferet, ve kol pamani bucheret akheret overzeozeli akheret, betokutzata mispare mazot na kon. Lama, ki elakubio chi ashli, vimani ruzza, la so chinui, a me ti anitzricha, ineklishalh shov michutla kufsa, lomar, mikut, mikutl kata kubiota ele vizeumel, la vi kubi ashli shit viza gan changer shelanu. Mehshab temashla. Na, mehshab, kutzata mispirim shelano, hilon mi shhtym a chtemisrin kwarzazazti, mi shalosh mi shalosh atwunosh. Nah. Kvarvetimashu shemechan la khalutin etahnuyon chisham. Nachh. Kenan yadin of khal frotam Aval Gam khabti, the gam can huraditi eze shootam sham, heveti et a game changer shili. Vikshanahuzim la sodprirashiti yebe mechuna, anishuelet, ha im asita shinui, she gomli kabetem li khoshane, baimashinuiano sefika, kadmashme toha vte meze arben shim eh be ti pulimzugiim mege imelaya la kats. Twa megimilaik vakhirvut maritahsim kwa yubit pulimzu gim shalovdu, ba im laik shamatav lo aleinu, veker teta plina, vanithait muderim cola de varzeva balagan shema su sham, yo fili.
SPEAKER_01Anafunda belakel no se shel tahzu kamunad vekama za khashu.
SPEAKER_00Mazekhashu. Aval emal kulti pulimzu gim shalo ofdu, ve azbegim live anitha iftorla mgamedzev, gameta matsavha skeptishe emsevemun. Bidiuk mul meta plimveti pulim ve anikhlaloma aminbachhashab biglal advarin shakirema sulli, la shum siku yaktifterimze. Ezek kifli. V anigzare chelze hi. Shadvari ħachani kenikulalavtihlem, ksemba imelai, ima skepti utazotwedaima sluvotva portufa, adishva mrufakaze, ve omrimli nisinu akool, ensiko yanahu kvaryodim Lotimlo. Kiadhayom lo asitem et hadavar shu shone shanio datalov.
SPEAKER_01Shitenakhemeta sikui vitlal, la gia ni tutzaot, akinwat mimashazatem malem shu.
SPEAKER_00Kanireki ufdahi seloegatem, ken, gavinit kaltem lola kahtem, avaladavare kad shanimit merit lomar shanio datoto topo, huani, oti loyala kim. Lom shanimani todia, ken o loyo tertuvama threm zelomashani balagid, aval anni, kubiakir, khadeshak. The parbishanemashu Shati Phrumakarta. Sumatatem loyfulin Lovila Gilia Sinu ako Lotem Loki Otti, Lohihnasem ke kubiya, shhi game changer itla mishwa azu. Vizadavoshani bayito, asboto hibet, gambhira shelma chodtihsi machiro. Chatembuchhrim, lichhura mashu kadash, se clushia, mabe mechinitem, imrak shinitem meta offenchbohatem matzbiim vet ersheni haltimeta reshimazo, kapara lechem loshinitem staklupni mayotel.
SPEAKER_01Tishanusham akher atem takhzeu legalotmu uhharmi dai, sha sitemetaphiralo nechonaki utaphira betem asikum betemash ya nahushualim kalgemutah shabisafahelet the aime vetemeta kubiyash lishitemadine msakim in mshte kubiyot pam metatim li hot mispaim shonimsteim atenis.
SPEAKER_00Can lamalo tzali shloshim vishesh I mata' miha lamalo tali shloshim visheshwa kta kubiota ilna chwat sta kelp nima, tapesot kubia orkut saloida ulaize out there zerota game changer, severe shazemash ve a gavim sakemita shela, ha'im anakuthimeta dome tashone, kin zota dum actually, kin, kulanu etagam vegam, kenim oftihaleshambakeshono fikishha, gavin zirak ahuz efad, yesha mashu, ki eni safek shimat girethabem komorchen low attack, veze kem veta metalze ki msakrene tuthan nafan. Ve eni sefan keta binadam sheloi loyakholista pekbe, mishi shipachot, midavarkaze, nafon. The ine matsanu gameta shone, shahuze, sha ta ruteba keshoshha. Az zegamve gambe min adim mishtanim, kaman chutim largish babai, shemakom sha salihanaim, hamukal, nafan, anyaom me odmi zaito, kipa meiti, mit ahevet vemit makeret la shone, hamin adase, hishtana veoman yoter kamofha, yoter bait vemukar vezenaimze, ve gamtegeroti, veashanashin shotzemita etgamsham vezegam no chonlem. Ashuvkumokolchuba kanire, ken gam vegam, vezemishhtane.
SPEAKER_01Vezeshuv, khosela nekudashata omets bishvilishol aim you telkoivli or you tell tovli.
SPEAKER_00Vyot amitsim la not kenut amitimlishol Iman khulza the horve con call is the kill as a okay. Malemalemale, I'll tinahashma yet shot malemale. Can as one shikh I will Bapama ba.
SPEAKER_01Bapama ba.
SPEAKER_00Bye bye