Made, Not Found

Real conversations for people who believe the best lives aren't found. They're built, one real conversation at a time.

Episodes

Don't Make Me Live It Twice

Here's the part that still doesn't make sense to us. One of us grew up with no real trauma in it at all — and grew up afraid of almost everything. The other one lived through the trauma and grew up fearless.So that's where this one start...

September 10, 2026 • 59:31

Is Sex Better in your 40's?

His entire sex education was two words: wrap it up.Hers was her mom begging her not to, and a stack of terrifying articles left out on the kitchen island.Twenty-five years later, over an anniversary dinner, one of us asked the oth...

September 10, 2026 • 49:26

Don't Fall out of Love at the Same Time

We just hit 19 years of marriage. 25 years together. And somewhere in the middle of celebrating that, we realized we'd never actually sat down and talked about how we got here.Not the version we tell at dinner parties. The real one.<...

September 10, 2026 • 59:51

Made, Not Found Trailer

This isn't a marriage podcast. It's not a business podcast. And it's definitely not self-help.Nineteen years ago, we had no idea what we were doing. We still don't. But somewhere along the way, we learned the one thing this whole show is...

September 02, 2026 • 1:03