The Planner's Edit with Desirée Adams: A Podcast for Wedding Planners and Pros (FKA Ask the Planner)
With over 300k downloads and 150+ episodes as the host of Ask the Planner, Desirée Adams now brings you The Planner’s Edit—the essential podcast for wedding planners and event pros looking to elevate and scale their businesses. Each week, join Desirée and guest experts for candid conversations, actionable strategies, and behind-the-scenes insights into marketing, systems, client experience, and the realities of building a successful and profitable event business. Whether you’re a seasoned planner or just starting, you’ll find honest advice and inspiration to help you grow, elevate, and create lasting impact in the wedding industry.
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The Planner's Edit with Desirée Adams: A Podcast for Wedding Planners and Pros (FKA Ask the Planner)
180 | The Art of Writing Meaningful Wedding Vows and Speeches - Do’s and Dont’s from a Professional Speechwriter with Brian Franklin
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Today's episode is all about one of the most personal—and sometimes nerve-wracking—parts of a wedding: the vows and speeches. Writing your own vows can feel overwhelming, and giving a toast in front of a room full of people? Well, let’s just say it’s not everyone’s idea of fun. But don’t worry! Our guest today is here to help you let go of the anxiety and embrace the magic of speaking from the heart.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
- [00:00]: The Importance of Vows and Speeches
- [02:59]: Transitioning from Politics to Weddings
- [05:56]: Common Mistakes in Writing Vows
- [08:49]: The Art of Conciseness in Vows
- [12:03]: The Emotional Impact of Personal Vows
- [15:11]: Guidelines for Reception Speeches
- [17:59]: Delivery Techniques for Effective Speeches
- [20:49]: Practicing for Success
- [24:02]: Incorporating Humor in Speeches
- [27:19]: The Importance of Variety in Speeches
- [28:46]: AI's Role in Speech Writing
- [33:52]: Wedding Speech Disasters and Lessons Learned
- [37:39]: Trends in the Wedding Industry
- [41:00]: Unique Processes for Speech Writing
- [44:13]: The Need for Practice and Preparation
- [47:30]: Fun Wedding Preferences and Personal Touches
Links Mentioned in the Episode
- Find the Full Shownotes Here
- Connect with Brian on Instagram
- Learn more about Vows and Speeches
- Grab Our Day of Master Organizer
- Grab Our Wedding Budget Bundle
- Grab our Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist
- Book a 90-minute Clarity Call to get wedding planning help specific to your unique situation
- Visit the ASK THE PLANNER Wedding Planning Templates Shop