Behind The Coaching: The Roxy Talks Story 🎤 ~ Mindset Monday Summer Series

This week on the podcast, not only am I answering your questions, I'm sharing my own story about how I got to the place I am today. And funnily enough, this was NOT the original plan! I was a singer, moving to LA to pursue music and after lots of twists and turns, talking to a psychic, and doing lots of research, a new path began to emerge. Tune in to hear the tale!

I also chat about obsessive thinking, letting go, manifesting your SP, and discuss free will and how we can all be manifesting together and still see different, personal results.

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Obsessive thinking about something does not mean it's not going to happen. Right. Because we obsessive, we think about things that happen in our lives all the time. It's it's the, do you inevitably know or expect. That it's going to happen or are you worried that it's not? I would say that would be the difference between the right kind of obsessing and the wrong kind of obsessing.

What is up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to the Roxy talks, manifestation pod. Your raw, unfiltered and unapologetic source for all things manifestation related. I'm Roxy Lee. And for the last decade, I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction to help you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Visit Roxy talks.com for more info. Now let's get into it.

How does letting go help the manifestation come faster? Okay.

If I asked you to go, if I asked, I don't know, as I, okay. Part of me is hearing little piggy to the market, but then they said, you, and I didn't want you to think I was calling you a little piggy, but I'm hearing, I was like two things were going on in my head at once. Uh, you know, if I asked a little piggy to go to market, or if I asked you to run to the store for me, um, if I wouldn't let you leave, how long would it take you to go to.

It would take you however long it takes to go to the store, grab a thing, come back. Plus however long it takes me to let go of you, let you out the door. That's why

I got SPD. Contact me within 10 minutes of heavily affirming. After five months of no contact, it was everything I wanted. And the next day he was complete opposite. And now no context. What do I do? Let me ask you a question. Did you do the same thing that you did the day you got the contact? Did you do the two days in a row and you got nothing or did you do it once?

And then think that was enough. And then you went back to your old self and then, and then you got old, old them back again. Tonya says I didn't affirm anything because I was with him. But I think because he started acting different ice spiral. Yep, exactly. That's exactly what I asked you. That's a perfect lesson.

Everyone listened, please. Tanya did some heavy. Affirming got the manifestation when she was in the manifestation, she did not, and this is not to call you out. This is just a breakdown down the steps. She did not continue the thinking process that got them there. She went back to her old ways and I mean, this with love.

It's just because I'm a coach and I know how it goes. And that's why he started acting different. Which then you react into with the spiral. Right. But, um, it's when you let the new chosen thoughts go and start, like going back to your old ways, they come through the same old way. So you have to maintain those thoughts that you were thinking about, um, him that made him come through that worked.

Um, but you have to, uh, maintain them. You can't.

How do you know the difference between detaching and affirming? How can I from without feeling attached to an outcome, think about how, when something, you know, is coming up, that you're not questioning, that's like not a manifestation, how you can think about it and think about it and think about it and think about it.

And it doesn't make it not happen. Do you get what I'm trying to say? Like. Like obsessive thinking about something does not mean it's not going to happen. Right. Because we obsessive we think about things that happen in our lives all the time. It's it's the, do you inevitably know or expect that it's going to happen or are you worried that it's not like, I would say that would be the difference between.

The right kind of obsessing and the wrong kind of obsessing. If that makes sense. I know that's not exactly your question, but like okay. To detach and continue affirming is to act, respond as if live like no ex you know, I say, I expect already. Whatever it is, you're manifesting or whatever it is that you want is happening in whatever is on unfolding right now is just like, just like how I know, like, if I was a little kid really excited about Christmas morning and it was Thanksgiving, I wouldn't be like, oh my God, Christmas is never coming because it's not Christmas yet.

I'd be like, bitch one month. You know what I mean? Like you, you, you, you count down the days in a different way. You it's, it's a different like type of obsession. Does that make sense? Like. Detaching you detached because you know, you don't have to try. There's no need to try to get something that's already yours.

So that's what detaching is about is like not needing it, knowing it's already yours, it's already on its way. There's no like, like a little kid manifested. I don't know why this is the, this is analogy coming up, but I'm a little kid manifesting Christmas presents doesn't need to detach necessarily because if they know.

Right. I know I'm getting that present. I'm not worried about it. If they're worried, they might not get it up in the air. Who knows?

Why do you support us of the law of attraction community? Say that freewill exists again in a different . Um, and Dasia just asked is Bashar his real name and know his real name is Darryl Anka and he channels an entity called  and. The wave was sharp. Explains. This is another one where it's like, I don't know how, I don't know how this all works.

I don't know how I can manifest in my reality and get what I want. And you can manifest in your reality and get what you want. And we can both have everything, right? If that, if that's, if in order for that, to be the case there, one must be infinite or near infinite possibilities or. Outcomes for people to get to.

Right. Which is supported by the many worlds theory in the quantum physics ship. So if, and then also I referenced the specific video from the PBS spacetime channel called, uh, what was it called, do past, and future exists, something like that, but they really break down how like past and future are the same thing.

It's all an illusion. Um, probability, it's all just already created energy that you can potentially go to your, your energy, you can experience. And they talk about moving through these pieces of reality. These snapshots of reality. And how my current could be someone else's pass and all this it's just, it's, it's, it's an insane network of, I just heard the word screenshots of realities, like moments of reality.

If you took a screenshot of every fucking screenshot, screenshot, screenshot, screenshot screen, like every moment of reality for every person, every potentiality from the beginning of all time to anything that ever could be or will be. That's what our energy is moving through constantly. So, um, uh, what was the fudge and meaning question?

Oh yeah. So freewill. So Bashar talks about, you know, so basically if that's the case, then I am having my own individual experience going through all of those potential. At, you know, having the potential to go through whichever those pieces of reality I can send myself to with my thoughts or whatever. My, my understanding of what reality is, I'm going to experience my version.

Or my, uh, like a collage, my collage of snapshots of reality. That's my, like if I made a vision board of every single moment I experienced, that would be my life experience on planet earth. As this entity is Roxy. And so when I do that, I must be able to have access to any possible potentiality. So I have to be able to access you at every possible version of yourself.

Left right up, down here center at two o'clock, two, a 1 2 0 2, 2 0 3, 2 0 4 yesterday in Milwaukee, downstairs, upstairs, um, 19 62, 25, 84. Alaska. And it doesn't matter. I have to be able to get to wherever my thing, this thing says I can go because that's how this that's my free will. So in order for me to have free, will you can't have a part in that only I have it only, that's only me experiencing it and I'm going to these places.

Energetic set points or whatever checkpoints that are already in existence that already have you being XYZ. 1, 2, 3, J Y seven, yellow, blue purple up down six and nine all plus at the same time. And I get to, I'm just picking which one I get. Now the same happens when you are going through it. You're getting all of my potentiality that you could experience, but you're getting it in your version of.

So, I don't know how they all bump into each other. I don't know how it works again, listen to Bashar because he talks a lot about this, but, um, it's like everyone has their, the freewill power in their reality is the way that I understand it and the way I operate from, and it works for me and it works for my clients as well.

So.

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What sign did you get to redirect your career path temporarily? How did you know Roxy talks is my new path. I'm supposed to be doing this, still seeking my, um, I had an existential crisis. I, I, what happened was I, you know, I was a singer. I was, uh, I was working towards putting out my first album and. When it came to the release time, I felt like completely empty and completely numb.

I had no joy in it. I was just like, Hmm, I think I'm going to quit music. Like, that's how I felt at my, like, what should have been like the biggest night of my music career so far I've felt absolutely nothing. And I was like, yeah. Next. So like I was, I don't know, I just was over. I just felt like it was all of my passion that I haven't had my entire life for music was just gone.

And so, and it was really weird and I had, I had never in my entire life. Had any plan of being anything else about a singer? I had no backup. I mean, I was doing modeling, but the only reason I did that was just because I was wanting to grow an audience that I could put my music out to. So it wasn't like I ever had any, there was no backup plan.

I did have a degree in behavioral science, but I never planned on using it. Um, and I never had used it actually up until that point. And I just, I didn't know what the hell I was going to do. I had no clue. I like, it was like the first time I had no. Sense of identity? Not that I didn't know who I was as a person, but like, I didn't know who I was to the world anymore.

And it was like, it was hard for awhile and I just like really felt very lost. So, um, I started watching YouTube videos and I saw I was watching Elliot L uh, Elliot halls. I was watching him and, and I, I like, I really didn't even know about the world of, of, uh, Like motivation on YouTube. I just, that was like the first thing I came across was him.

And if you know anything about his content and you'll realize like, it's so different than nothing bad about him, it's just very mass, like super masculine type. He literally lived, do you have a Dick in your pants? That's the kind of shit that he would say. So it's obviously not like what I necessarily.

Be listening to, but I also like respond to like that kind of like, uh, um, encouragement, I guess you could say. So I, um, started listening to Elliot halls and I recognize, I was like, you know, I want to do that. Like I w I could tell that I wanted to be like that. I wanted to, I wanna, I want to motivate people like that.

I want to tell people that they can fuck and blah, blah, blah, blah. But then it would be like, bitch, you don't even know. You don't even know what you're doing. You don't even know who you are, who are you going to motivate? And what are you going to motivate them to. Did you and like, that's, that's how I felt.

It was like, I would, I would be like, oh, I want to do that. Yeah. Right. What do you, who's gonna listen to you. What are you gonna motivate them? What do you even have to say? Like what, what are you talking about? You don't even know what you're doing with your life. So, so that was like the cycle that I was in.

And then I talked to a psychic, who's still my psychic today. Actually to this day, I talked to her on, on Wednesday this week. I'm really excited. But, um, I th that was the first time I ever talked to her. This was in, um, 2018. And, um, She told me, she's like, I see four paths in front of you. Um, she's like, you could literally, she's like you could do nothing and your husband would support you.

She's like you probably guys probably wouldn't have a lot of money, but he would, he would literally work and let you stay at home and do absolutely nothing if that's what you wanted. Um, she's like you could, um, Continue on with your music. She's like, I do sing. See that as like a passion in your life.

She's like there, she's like, I see you writing. And she's been telling me this for years. She always sees me writing. She's like, are you writing a book? What are you writing? I always see you writing always see you writing it. Always see like lots of notebooks are you writing? She asked me that every time she always sees me writing and then she goes, and then there was something having to do with talking to people and communicating and let potentially traveling.

And this was like, Two years before the pandemic cell. Um, I don't think that was like on anyone's radar at that time. But so, um, and I obviously had planned on traveling when I was doing, was with Roxy talks in the beginning, we were going to be doing traveling and stuff, and then 2020 came and changed the plan of where we were going.

But she's like, you can do any of these four paths. Um, and, um, and you're going to. You know, fine are successful at them. And she's like, and as far as like the three paths, not the one of me doing absolutely nothing, the three paths she's like, I do see you doing all three of those things. And I think you're going to continue doing all three of them and any one of those paths that you go down is going to be successful.

So it's just about picking the one that you're the most passionate about right now and then going down it, um, and just, um, you know, doing that and knowing that you don't have to do it forever. You're going to do all of the, all of those things, writing music and, um, this communicating, helping people think, and she's like, you're going to do all three.

You're going to do all of them. So, so it's just about picking one and then going down the road of it. And so after I got off that phone call, I was like, I had the confidence to, like, I was like, I could be a music coach, you know, I'm like, I have been chasing music for 15 years and doing all that stuff.

Like I could help someone else do it. And so that was. That first thing was like, maybe I'll be a music coach that that's what changed everything. So that phone, that leading up to it, and then maybe I can be a music coach. And then of course from that moment forward was how do I get music clients? And then that sent me down the road, the rabbit hole of internet marketing.

Here we are. So I studied that for years. And then I started putting out my once I felt comfortable. I realized I wanted to w I had been. Okay. So I'll tell you even more than, I guess, When I started trying to figure out how to get clients. Then I started studying about internet marketing, which took me again, down the rabbit hole of studying and learning and watching webinars and all kinds of stuff, funnels and all that stuff.

And then. By the time I felt ready to coach people and like ready to start a business. Like I have learned enough of the business side of it. Um, I realized that whether I'm coaching someone for music, career love, self-esteem confidence, that's the same thing, whatever, you know what I'm saying? Uh, it doesn't matter what it is in coaching about if they don't understand.

The very base that their words are creating in their language is creating that they're manifesting all the time. Then it doesn't matter what we're talking about. So that's how I realized that this was what I was supposed to be talking about was manifestation. And then I started making YouTube videos.

SP won't reply when I asked to hang out affirmations. Okay. Um, they always reply. They love hanging out with you. They have such a good time when they're with you when you're not with them. Um, that's all they can think about. They can't wait to see you again. They can't wait to hang out with you again.

They always invite you. They always ask you to hang out. Um, they're very, uh, reciprocate. They reciprocate, but they're also proactive. Like, um, they always. They always return the favor. When you ask them out, they always respond, but they also go out of their way to invite you and include you. Um, they make you feel important.

They make you feel, um, prioritized. You do the same to them. You have such a great connection. You love, um, being around each other. There's such a great vibe when you're with each other, it feels like you could just talk and be with each other for hours, stuff like that. Does that help?

It's really easy. If you think about it, just like thinking about what you want and then just list those things out and then make sentences out of those. They are this, this is what we do. This is how they treat me. This is how we feel about each other.

So Roxy has such an amazing weekend with SP he said he missed me. And he, we went to a concert for his b-day. Yes, the best night we've had in a while. Any tips for keeping momentum going okay. All right. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay, Vanessa. So we know. Yeah. Okay. The cat, we know that when the going gets good, that's when the worry starts to come in.

Right. So yeah. I know I'm telling her. Yeah.

So, okay. So we know that like, there's the story about what he's doing when he's not with you and how long and how come and what he's willing to do, whatever to be with you. Um, that has got to go, right? Cause obviously he misses you. He, you went, he spent his birthday with you. You guys went to a concert.

Um, right. So obviously. Your top priority on his list. So, so if that's the case, then now, no matter what happens, no matter how you, how much you talked to him, how much you see him, what he says, what he doesn't. He misses the F out of you. He, he loves to be around you and he puts you at top priority. He prioritizes you, and he puts you in the top slot.

So, so you have to be considered. Making all of your decisions basically about life really? Cause this is like completely intertwined into your whole world from the perspective that he misses you all the time when you're not together and you're his top priority. And he does, he puts you in that number one spot period.

I was going to say when he can, no, not when he can just period, he puts you are in his number one spot. And so when you're seeing 3d. Fill in the blank. Cause it doesn't matter.

The story remains. He misses. So you so much, when you're not together, he can't stop thinking about it. You are his number one top priority. And so whatever he's doing is about spending as much time with you as you can, you know, like, think about like what, think about the thing that's in your number one priority spot.

That's the thing that you dedicate your most attention. And focus too, if you're his number one priority spot. Cool. Then like if we're not in the physical same space together, that sucks for him. So I imagine he's doing whatever he can to make, to remedy that, that issue in his life, by bridging the gap between you, by coming through and, you know, being the partner that you need him to be yada yada, yada.

But the point is.

No matter what happens, the what when's he gonna next? Are we gonna, what if he doesn't? How can I keep this going? All of those thoughts are not that poor man can not something came about right now. I didn't know. He's just like prioritizing the shit out of me right now or whatever, you know, like you remember this story just.

This is you have evidence. It is working. Don't change it just because period, right? Yep. I know. Yep. I know. I know.

Does that make sense? And I'm super excited for you. Um, and, and. Yeah. Okay. And I know this is like, obviously cliche and like, okay, how do I do that? But like, try to avoid putting pressure on now. What now I got to keep this going now I got go. I know you don't now you gotta just continue enjoying the hell out of your amazing life that your manifest.

How can I keep this going? Keep the momentum going. Yeah. My tips for keeping momentum going are, have a you day and celebrate yourself and what you've been able to accomplish and, and, you know, keeping the exciting future that you're manifesting in the forefront of your.

At what point do you advise people to move on to different person versus manifesting them into their best version? Um, to be real honest with you, the what's, what I heard in my head is when you get to this point where you're asking, like, I have a saying, I didn't make it up. It comes from the fucking song.

Um,

Oh, the glamorous life. If you, that line that says, if you have to ask you can't afford and lingerie, I always say that to people, if you have to. Not exactly, but my, my version of that is if you have to ask you already know. So that's my perspective is like, if you're asking this, you already know the answer to it and it's clearly you're you're sounds like you're.

You're probably tired of trying to morph someone into something that's not working, you know? And it's like, it's not that it's not possible. It's just that, like, we have baggage and history and past that we have to like rework and like, forget as we're, um, or, you know, worked through or manifest in spite of whatever.

Have you want to look at it while you're trying to make these changes with the people in your world and not get triggered by them in the meantime, you know? So that. Like halt the manifestation from working out. So, you know, my opinion is that when you are asking, should I move on? You know, you should,

I don't always do homework. What's homework, homework, homework. Okay. Homework is going to be,

do you guys like the group manifestation? You got to try to manifest the same thing. What about like a new business opportunity? Even if you're manifesting an SP a new business opportunity is exciting, right? Couldn't it be? Cause that could be anything that could be in your career. That could be like something at your job that could be more money.

That could be a new colleague. That could be a new opportunity. So I'll say some affirmations and then you guys have some new ones in the chat or excuse me, you type some of yours in the chat as well. I have amazing opportunities coming to me every single day. I am reaching a new audience. I am reaching new people.

Um, the right people are seeing my work. I'm getting noticed by the right people. I'm getting noticed by a new audience. I'm getting noticed by people that matter new business opportunities come to me every day. I love my business. I love the opportunities that are coming to me daily. I like that. I work with people.

I admire, we work with people. We had writer, everyone wants to work with me. My business always comes through my business, supports me. I'm always finding new ways, upgrade or Uplevel. I always have great business ideas. I make money in fun, exciting ways. I love to empower clients to use their power I'm so well-respected by everyone.

I am my full power right now. Doors open for me easily. I have so many clients I need to expand. I have so many clients I have to expand. I love it. I can handle big accounts of money. I have so much fun whilst I'm working with my ventures. I love whilst it sounds so proper. So many people admire my. Work is so exciting.

I'm always working with people who love my work. SP is inspired by my new business success. There you go. I have the perfect client. It's my favorite kind of work. I have so many clients I have to hire help. I, one of the greatest artists to ever live, I need to hire an accountant because of all my income streams.

I have so many income streams I have to, I have to hire an accountant. I can't even handle it all because so much money is coming through. Maintaining success is easy for me. Everyone does what I tell them to do. I haven't been in tremendous amounts of money, doing exactly what I love and I'm becoming a millionaire being me.

Yeah. Um, management always comes up with new ways to comments at me and give me bonuses. I get paid to travel and eat good food. I am so excited to wake up every morning to work. Yeah, these are great head to Roxy talks.com backslash forum. If you want to, um, check in on the homework and like leave notes and leave your, your experience with it and interact with everybody about the homework on the forum there, the homework, all the homework assignments.

If you ever want to check back and see what they are. I love you all. I appreciate you. Because you ourselves, we're all raising our vibrations together. You have the power I believe in you and I'll see you next week. Bye .