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What you're too afraid to do what you're holding yourself back from. It's not about doing it. It's about saying shit. I'll do that too. And, and I'll still get my manifest or what, you know, it's like, it's about the power that comes from declaring and saying, I'm gonna get this. I don't care how, and nothing's gonna stop me or stand in the way.
And I don't even care if it's my own fears and doubts, nothing is going to stand in my. Period.
What is up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to the Roxy talks, manifestation podcast, your raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic source for all things. Manifestation related. I'm Roxy Lee. And for the last decade I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction to help you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.
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She says my homework affirmation worked out, which last week's homework was to manifest a business opportunity. So she says, I actually got back on an app to buy leads and specified my favorite type of project. But then I got a text from an old customer from old customers and they need that exact thing.
Okay. So what I wanna share with you is I had a client this week. Who's a repeat. And without sharing any details at all this person and their, and their specific person, uh, they have, they have them on a pedestal for certain reasons and reasons that they think are like, this person is like better than me or more important.
Not better than me, but kind of like more important, like there's like a, a definite like societal type pedestal. So, um, so. So they have all these ideas of why they can and can't be together or why they couldn't and couldn't, um, you know, interact or have a relationship outside of the confines of the current, uh, UN you know, knowledge and understanding that they have of each other.
So this person, um, the last time we spoke was just like, I don't know how we would ever, like, how do we ever, you know, do out, like, how do, how am I gonna. See them meet them, talk to 'em on the phone, text them, whatever. Like they just like, couldn't understand how they're gonna get outside of this, how we know each other thing, which has these rules and this pedestal thing.
Right. So without any details. So I was just like open the door. I don't, it doesn't matter how I'm just gonna blah, whatever, you know, I told her just the same kind of things that we're talking about. Just like be open. I, I wanna get to what happened. So anyways, So my client decided that they were going to make a list of all the reasons why they couldn't talk to them or they couldn't meet up with them or they couldn't have contact.
And then just like debunk them basically. And so one of the things specifically was like, Well, I could, I could friend and request them. Like I could send them a friend request on Facebook. Like I don't want to, which is like, that's not, the homework is to want to do it. It's not the homework to do it is just open the door.
Well, it's actually, actually there is a way I know there is a way that we could get in contact cuz I could. Friend request them. So that's all they wrote. I could friend request them. And then like a few weeks later they were like, um, I don't even wanna give away that they were like, let's say they were creating some sort of crafty and then someone they knew was also gonna be seeing this SP so they gave some of the craft aery to this person and said, Hey, give it to SP blah.
I don't, you know, just cuz they had someone in abundance and that person was gonna go see. So after that SP adds them on Instagram and. Whatever. Okay. So the point is client did not wanna reach out. That was not part of the deal. I didn't say reach out. I said, open the door, right? Like let's conceptualize that.
It's okay to communicate that we do have open communication. There are ways that we can communicate. There are ways that we can be together and never once did they intend or think or expect ever that this person would follow them on, on Instagram because. You know, that, um, was just never in who knew, like whatever.
So, um, anyways, the point is being okay with the options you have being okay with reaching out and doing things in a different way. Not saying you have to SHTA didn't even talk to new clients or really put any work into the app thing. She just declared what it was that she wanted. She got clear, but, and, and, and, you know, Shante, and if you don't mind me sharing a little bit, you, you and I have been working on like, like, I was like, bitch, do your own, like, do your own business.
Like, do what you wanna do. I was just trying to, you know, because you were kind of, if you don't mind confined to like what you had been doing, and I was like, you could do what, all kinds of stuff. So you're broadening your horizon and all you did was do this, open this app and declare what you wanted. And the universe came through, right.
Same with my other client. They did not want to reach out. They, they, they're still terrified of reaching. Actually the next session was like, okay, now this happened, what do we do? So, which is great. But. The point is, is that it was just about being okay with it, like being like, you know what fine I could, I could Instagram them or I could, I could Facebook them if I had to, if I really like, I mean, fine.
Okay, fine. I could do it. I could, I could, there's a way there is a way there is a way we could connect and just allowing the way, let the universe come right through and. At some point giving away those, that craft aery that they gave was what you would call, like, in my opinion, the inspired action that led to that, the person reaching out.
So at the end of the day, I just want everyone to, um, think about what you're too afraid to do, what you're holding yourself back from. Like, I talk to some people here who I love very dearly in the community who swear they will do anything for their manifestation. Yet there's a bunch of things that they won't actually do.
So I won't, I want you to look at those things that you refuse to do. Maybe this will be our homework for this week. What are the things that you're too afraid to do? What are the things you don't wanna act on or that you're too scared or you're limited from, maybe you feel like you don't have enough money.
You're not blank enough. You can't da, da, da yet, and make a list of those things that are in the way of why you can't. And then debunk them just like my client did is just like, look at 'em and say, well, eh, it could be because at the end of the day, those, those hard and fast rules that you're holding yourself to are just limiting beliefs that you think are actual reality, but it's just rules that you are using to keep yourself away from what you want.
Okay. So.
Um, mama four Wilsons. I think about that all the time. She said we're like that meatloaf song I'll do anything, but I won't do that. I think that all the time I'll do anything for love, but I won't do that. And it's just like, well then what, why are you here? You know, like, and it's not about doing it. It's about saying shit, fuck, I'll do that shit too.
And, and I'll still get my manifest or what, you know, it's like, it's about the power that comes from declaring and saying, I'm gonna get this. I don't care how, and nothing's gonna stop me or stand in the way. And I don't even care if it's my own fears and doubts, nothing is going to stand in my way period.
Of the universal laws. There's one called law of action. This resonates with what you're saying. It's like any action sets in on course, even if it, um, ends up coming from another direction. Exactly. Yeah. It's like, yeah. You know, like when people, I talked about that recently, like people wondering about the, um, you know, should I take action?
Meaning like, do I take these. It seems like, I guess I'm assuming people mean, do I take these grand gestures or do I, like, I don't know. I just, like, I just feel like if you just start thinking as yourself and then moving in alignment with that, like, okay.
Figuring out what exactly it is that you want. And then even declaring I'm in alignment with that. And that's earlier, remember when I said, um, why am I, why is this structure coming out right now? Why am I te wanting to teach like this? It's because I've been, I've been affirming specifically, not just what I want, but that I am in alignment with it, that I am aligned to it.
And then I'm calling it into my existence. And so I've been adding that stuff to. Regular affirmations. Just, I don't know. Well, to be honest, I know why, cuz I've been, uh, I'm rereading Amanda. Francis's rich Afaf book. This is like my fourth time reading it, but it's just such a good book, such a good, like, it just has such good like principles.
So, um, so I'm just kind of like working to be, oh yeah. You know, also because I'm in 360 right now, right. We've started 360 and I'm doing it with everybody. So I'm being very mindful and um, It's easy for even me to get lazy and stuff, because I'm a human being. And once things become more, second nature to you, it's easy to kind of, um, slack, you know, on, on going above and beyond at it.
And I think that that's, um, that's some, a way to get you kind of like stuck a little bit is like thinking that you already know how to do it, or you're already doing it and you're not really. Doing the most to not be your old self, like you don't always have to be like that, but when you're really trying to make a change and you're really trying to shift and transform and get somewhere in your life or get to a new place in life, it like takes a little bit of gas.
You know, it's like when you're gonna go on a trip, you fill up your tank. You wanna a full tank before you leave. You're not like leaving your house at a quarter. It's just like a recipe for disaster, or like you're leaving your house and like you're first going, going to the gas station and then getting on the freeway or whatever.
But like, you know, it's, it's just make sure you're gassing up your tank. If you're about to go on a little journey. If you're trying to change something, evolve in some way, again, transcend something gas or tank and then make sure you're gassing yourself every day. And you're being deliberate about what you're, what you're creating and not just like obsessing over your manifestation, but.
Really embodying it and paying attention to like, what does it go into a meditation? What does it feel like to be aligned with that? I'm calling this in, what does that feel like? What's it gonna feel like when I have it, what does it feel like to have that and notice what that feels like in your body?
Notice, what kind of thoughts and inspirations it inspires, and then go with those and then continue affirming that you are aligned to it. That's what, like I said, that's what I've been doing lately. Um, and, um, you know, It's been working, but yeah, any action is just like, it's a aligned action. It's just being, being, being it and thinking from it and not necessarily trying to seek out specific actions, but just, you know, operating from that space.
And from that place, like how would I explain what that means? Like, how do you, what does it mean to operate from that space? Like that's such a vague term. So, or like to manifest from that place. What I mean by that is like, like when you, if you were to like dress up as somebody else or like dress up in a costume or you're in a play or you're on stage, or you're putting on your, your makeup and your thing, it's like, you, you know, like you're putting on your bad bitch look or whatever, however it is, or you're putting on a tux or something like, there's something that about the way you embody yourself.
In a different way, like, than you would just in any other normal times. So it's kind of like that, but without the physical, nothing, no change in your physical, anything appearance or whatever. I mean, you obviously, you could like to help, like if you wanted to, like, you're trying to attract someone or you're trying to feel better about yourself looking better.
Of course. But I mean, like, Being Superman without needing the, the Cape is what I'm trying to say. Hey, Fran, Roxy here, just popping through to remind you that if you want some personal attention from me to help you with your situation and figure out what's going on in your world, you can sign up for one on one coaching.
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Says, when did you feel? Okay. I know enough to teach people now. I find myself struggling with things I want to do, but I feel like what makes me think I know enough yet? Yeah. I felt that too, for sure. Um, you know, honestly it was Ralph smart. I can't, I can only credit that. I mean, well then if I was Ralph, I'd be like, you did that.
Not me, which is what I say to you guys all the time. But, um, you know, I, uh, I started, I was going through a really low time. I was waitressing and I really wanted to, I've told you guys this before, where I wanted to like inf I wanted to do this influence. I didn't mean it like that. I wanted to like help people with manifesting and helping their themselves and understanding why they were making, doing the things in their life that were happening.
So, um, but I felt like that too. Like who the fuck am I? So, um, I had a moment where I got really triggered and I was like really angry. And this is before I learned to like, deal with my, my rage. Like, I've talked to you guys about, like, when I created 30 days of alignment, this was like a year before, 30 days of alignment.
So my rage was pop in off. So, um, something triggered me and I was like, I am not gonna let this thing ruin the day or ruin my shit, ruin my weekend or whatever. And I turned on, I just was looking for positive videos and I like found a positive video by Ralph smart. And I'd never seen him before. Um, and I watched him for like, I'm not even joking from morning until night, seven days straight.
Like it was. All that all the entire time I was awake for the next week was Ralph smart, just on all day long. It's just playing his videos all day long. And within four days I was vegan. And within a week I had started my YouTube channel so like, he really motivated the fuck outta me to like, just get my, just, he was like, if you, if he always said, like, if you have a YouTube video in your heart, turn the fucking camera on, turn this video off and turn the camera on and record that fucking thing.
And you don't have to post it, but just start somewhere. And so I did. And, um, here we are, that was like in, I think that was in 2018. June of 2018. Yeah. Cause that's when I went vegan. Yeah. June of 2018. Oh, it's been four years, so yeah. Um, so. My advice to you is just to if like, okay, the analogy would be to turn the camera on.
If you wanna make a YouTube video to teach people, what did I know enough to teach people? Um, this is the other thing. Okay. Also Malak, I always told me people will literal, literally pay you to Google stuff for them. Okay. And that little thing always rattled in my mind around, in my mind. And then I heard somewhere else.
That all you need to know to coach somebody is more than the person you're coaching. So, but I mean, I didn't start coaching till I was doing, uh, manifestation videos for, I guess, a year and a half. So, um, but after a year and a half of making those videos and then, then I, and then, uh, In that timeframe. I started applying fucking, really applying it.
That's when my 30 days of alignment, then 360 started coming. Then I quit my job. Then I fucking launched my channel. Then the business is booming. Right. So that was my timeline. Um, it was Rocky. It was not smooth. It was hard, but I did it. Um, and it was just kind of like along the way of doing it. But if I hadn't started making.
Old videos on my old channel. They're not even the ones from this channel, like my old channel. If I hadn't started making those, I wouldn't have gotten to the point where I am now. I wouldn't, I wouldn't know about manifesting what I did if I hadn't started making those videos, talking about the most basic understanding that I had at the time when I had only read the fucking secret.
Okay. So that's why I was telling the person earlier that was asking about learning. That's what I did. I just learned. I. Researched it and figured that shit out, you know? So, I mean, you can learn anything. That's how everybody that's doing. Anything had to learn how to do it. First doctors don't just come out of the womb, fucking slice and be scalpel S scalpel.
You know what I mean? Like they learned how to do that shit. So just if you wanna do something, figure it out. Then my advice to you would be, are you making videos? On the content you wanna eventually teach on. Are you expanding your knowledge? Are you applying it to your life in a new way? Like again, 30 days of alignment, 360, I made those things up from the teachings of other people, obviously, and, and my, through my filter.
So I'm learning, learning, learning, learning, experiencing, experiencing, experiencing. That's how my
stuff came about. So. I mean, that's what everybody is, right. That's literally what creation is. So, so start there and if you wanna start making a list of things that you would feel comfortable talking to people about. Um, or a list of things that you would like to feel comfortable talking to people about, then you can start there.
So make that list. What would I like to talk to people about? What do you feel like passionate about? What are you fired up about? Cause you can learn anything. So who cares if you already know it? What like ignites you? What do you wanna talk to people about? Look that down and then now, you know, what's to study, you know, and like, and then.
If you wanted to learn like the basics of it or so whatever, then you can start studying the basics. I'm gonna learn the basics of blah, blah, blah, and just kind of pay attention to that content for the next three weeks to a month or whatever. I dunno. I'm just making stuff up. Um, but. I think the biggest as I'm talking about this, the biggest is the biggest thing about this.
And again, comes back to, which is why I knew this was exactly what we needed to talk about today is about the taking action part. It doesn't matter if you know enough, it's the fact that you keep thinking you're not shit and you can't. That's why
the homework is make a list. Of all of the things that you could do to take action. I don't want you to do it. I don't want you to like stress yourself out about it. This is literally just a brainstorming session. Like if, if it was, I don't wanna, I don't wanna say anything violence. I'm not gonna say that.
If, if it was like, I'll give you a billion dollars right now. If you take action. Okay, fine. I guess I could add this person on Facebook. Like remember like my client did. Okay. I just want you to make the list of things that you like that are actually physically and, you know, intellectually or spiritually or whatever, like what are actually doable.
You don't have to want to do them. This is not about what do I want to do. This is breaking through. I don't, we don't care what you wanna do because that's not the homework. We already know what you want to do. And this is why this is the homework is cuz you're fucking having a hard time, not doing that and not doing something else.
Right. So, so it's not about what you want to do. Which you can put in there, but like, it's not just that. Okay. What could you do? What action could you take to move your manifestation along? You're going to then go into your life with the expect, the expectancy that things are working out. There's new avenues being created.
That any number of things could happen. You're breaking through the idea that you can't do these things. Okay. The reason I'm not asking you to do them is because people get fucking triggered and we're trying to work through the triggers. This is an exercise to open the door for inspired action. Okay.
Because inspired action. Has two parts to it. There's the action. And then the inspiration part, if you're just doing the action without the inspiration part, you're not doing inspired action. That's not what we're talking about here. You're just acting, which is meaning you're probably trying to manipulate your 3d, make something happen because you're feeling lack full that's not, is that a word you're feeling lack about your situation?
Right. So you're grasping at straws trying to do something to make something happen and. Not the energy that brings great things through the energy that brings great things through is opening the door and saying, there you go, universe, bring it on. So part of what we're gonna do to break through this resistance is making a list of things that you could do that are outside at maybe outside of your comfort zone.
Just. To get 'em outta your head, get 'em on paper. And just to say, you know what? Okay. There actually are more avenues to my manifestation than I'm acting like all the time. I'm acting like it's so hard. I don't wanna, I don't wanna do this thing ma man, I don't wanna okay. Make a list of all the things that you could possibly do so that you can stop saying I can't because of minimum.
No, you just proved that you could and maybe. Maybe after you see this list, you look at some something's on there. That's like, you know what, that thing's not so bad. Maybe this week I could intend and affirm or script or meditate on aligning with or visualize, aligning with. Being confident enough to do that action, that didn't seem that bad.
Roxy talks.com/forum/homework. We're working on getting the inspiration. We're gonna work on just, I mean, again, even just being align, I'm aligned to my ideal reality. I'm aligned to X, Y, and Z. I am in alignment with it. I'm calling it into my reality. I've called it into my reality and just making sure that you're affirming and, um, and, uh, Staying on top of the story, because you're always manifesting.
Uh, I appreciate you. And, um, yeah, so bye .