You gotta forgive yourself, right now. That thing you want, that dream you have, your biggest manifestation - you deserve it! Stop feeling guilty for wanting what you want. Listen as we chat about dismantling the bullsh*t you heard growing up, why guilt is actually preventing you from receiving, and finally setting your own standards!
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So start breaking down this wall around what you're allowed to have By forgiving yourself. Forgiving yourself for what you've done, forgiving yourself for what you haven't done, for giving yourself for what you've said, for what you haven't said, for the rules you believe, for the thoughts you've lived by.
It's okay. You are just being a human trying to figure it all out.
What is up? My fellow dreamers and Soul searchers? Welcome to the Roxy Talks manifestation podcast, your raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic source for all things manifestation related. I'm Roxy Lee, and for the last decade I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction.
To help you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams, visit roxy talks.com for more info. Now, let's get into it.
So today we're gonna be talking about manifesting with guilt. This comes directly from our audience and someone is asking, How do I manifest when I have guilt for wanting what I want? They're having trouble getting rid of the guilt, and they feel like that is causing trouble in the manifestation process.
I e, it's standing in the way, and I would say that 100% the guilt, Yes. Is gonna stand in the way it's going to prevent you from receiving. Because ultimately what you're saying is, I am not deserving of receiving whatever this thing is. The issue though is that, Like there's no barometer for who or what is deserving enough.
Like there is no like, okay, you, you got to 51%. You're good to go. You deserve it. You can have it. That doesn't exist. You are the barometer for whether or not you are deserving and you are living your life based on. The set of rules that for one, you probably didn't make up on your own. You are literally walking around believing ideas that were practiced and lived out by your parents and the people around you and your childhood as you were in your super formative years.
In the age of zero to seven, you were like a sponge, soaking up all of the moods, behaviors, actions, words, habits of the people around you, and that told you what. Was, and your perspective of little old me in this big world that these people have told me about is your story, and it's how the world ends up treating you for the rest of your life really, until you start to do this work and start to dismantle all of this cluster of beliefs and bullshit, but really feeling guilty about what you.
Is a cluster of bullshit beliefs, to be honest, because I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that whatever it is that you want is not terrible. We're not harming people or children or ourselves. We're just wanting everyday stuff like love or career and success and joy and fulfillment in life. Like I doubt what you want is really that fucking bad.
And I also highly doubt that you're so terrible that you don't deserve to have the thing that your soul came to. To experience, and that's what you really wanna look at is like, do you think that your soul came from infinite love and perfection to guilt themselves out of the joyful and rich experience that planet Earth has to offer?
No fucking chance. Not a fucking chance. There's no way your soul came here to not get to do the things that it wanted to do because of some arbitrary rule that it set in motion years ago based on who cares what, who care. Why are you still defining yourself by old shit, by someone else's standards, by something in your past that you haven't forgiving yourself for?
Who cares? You can move forward. You can do something different. You can have something different. You can operate by a new set of standards. And so the first thing I would suggest is to start forgiving yourself. Start allowing yourself to want what you want. It's okay to want this. It's okay to want to experience joy, love, money, security, fulfillment, fill in the blank.
It doesn't matter. It's okay to want that. You came here for it. It's part of planet Earth's design. Therefore, you are a part of it and you get to access it. If you're here, then you can have any of. Hey, friend, did you know about my new monthly subscription Synergy? This is your all access pass to everything Roxy talks.
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So first, let's start forgiving ourselves for wanting what we want, Forgiving ourselves for telling ourselves we can't have it. I'm sorry. I forgive myself for thinking I can't have it. I forgive myself for my previous negative thoughts about blinking blank . I forgive myself for holding myself apart from this.
I forgive myself for whatever the hell I. Back then, or whenever it was yesterday, two days ago, two minutes ago, 20 years ago. I forgive myself for that thing and allow myself to receive. This is a new chapter. I appreciate being here on this planet, and I'm excited to see what comes next. So start breaking down this wall around what you're allowed to have by forgiving yourself.
Forgiving yourself for what you've done, for giving yourself for what you haven't done, for giving yourself for what you've said, for what you haven't. For the rules you believe, for the thoughts you've lived by. It's okay. You are just being a human trying to figure it all out. That's what we're all doing.
We're all trying to figure it out. That's what I'm doing. I don't know what the hell I'm doing every moment of every day. I'm like, Oh fuck. I guess we're doing this right. Like, I don't know. We're all on the literal leading edge of creation. We're all living in a now moment that has yet to be experienced.
So give yourself some credit, Cut yourself some slack and be kinder to. Start by nurturing the idea that you can have what you want. You can have it. You do deserve it. It is allowed. It's okay. Forgiving your. And letting down this wall again, that is blocking you from experiencing the good shit that your soul chose to come here for.
And as you begin to let go of this hold and this idea that what you have is, or what you want is not good enough, or you're not good enough for it, or that you shouldn't want it, or even sometimes I've seen people getting what they want and then feeling guilty cuz it, they want something else. That's okay.
You can always pick. It's always new. It's always fresh. It's always the next moment. So if you can drop the guilt and realize that it's part of the old program, it's part of the old story. It doesn't have to do anything with the next now moment and only you are in charge of that. Shake yourself clear. Pay attention to what you're doing.
I'm gonna shout out my 360 method here. That's my. Signature method. It's what I use in my life. It's what I teach my clients, and actually 360 is beginning another round. We're getting started literally right now, so you can jump on. It's an amazing eight week transformational program with direct coaching from me and incredible group support.
I'm so excited. This is our second round of 360. The first one was incredible, so I'm so excited to bring it back around. Head to 360 method.co right now to get all the. Sign up. There's still time to join, and believe me, you don't wanna miss this. This is life changing. My signature 360 Method is all about awareness and discipline.
It's all about rewiring your story, changing what is going on in there, and operating off of a new program so that you don't have to continue living off of these old ideas and notions that we're built in. The fifties and the forties and shit like this is grandma and grandpa's shit that they pass on to mom and dad.
It's that deep. And even beyond that, this is generational bullshit. So if you wanna break out of this cycle of guilting yourself into thinking that you are not good enough for what you want, and then allowing that feeling to talk you out of moving forward, manifesting. Firming visualizing, feeling secure, feeling confident, all of the above because that's what's happening when you have a program that says, Mm, I shouldn't though.
I should. I don't. I shouldn't get it. I should. I don't do. I really deserve it. Other people do, but not me. If that's going on, no matter what you do to try to. Affirm or manifest an ideal reality or get yourself into a new situation, that thing is going to sabotage you. So we want to learn to ignore it, to rewrite it, to redirect this thinking and change the outcome of what your thoughts are doing.
Again, 360 method.co is exactly what that program does. And when the idea comes up that you might not be good enough, worthy enough, ready, whatever. I want you to counter it and remind yourself, Actually, I am good enough. I am ready. I do deserve it. Thank you. It's on its way, and that's how you move the energy.
That's how you shift out of the lack and the mentality that's gonna keep you away from what you want. And welcome in everyth. That you desire now. If you are ready to dive into your own situation and get some help on what's going on in your world, manifest your ideal reality. Head to roxy talk.com. I have amazing programs and workshops you can get started on right away that will help you manifest anything in your ideal reality.
We've also got an amazing, supportive place for all of our manifests together, Community dot roxy talks.com, and check me out on Social media podcast. iTunes, Spotify, and more. I'm kind of all over the place. I'm here for you. I love you. I appreciate you. We're all raising our vibrations together. You have the power.
I believe in you.