Manifest a NEW Relationship: How To Bring Love Into Your Life

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What's my best case scenario. What's my worst case scenario get really comfortable with what it is that you think relationships are and feel like in turn out to be, and then go to work, rewriting that story.

Up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to the Roxy talks, manifestation podcast, your raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic source for all things. Manifestation really. I'm Roxy Lee. And for the last decade I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction to help you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Visit Roxy talks.com for more info. Now let's get into it.

What is up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to another episode of Roxy talks. We're talking manifestation, we're talking, living your best life. We're talking, living in a life. You choose a life of your choosing is what's important here. Not just your best life, which. I mean, if we're choosing, we choose the best, hopefully.

Right. Um, but he even allowing ourselves to pick and want and believe and go towards what actually brings us joy and not just settle for something, because that's what we think we should get or what we used to always get or what we're used to. And. If I can leave any wisdom onto the listeners and all the generations to come it's that if you can pinpoint what it is that makes you happy or brings you joy or makes you feel content, and then do more things during the day that fall into that category while simultaneously.

Changing the way you think about it and allowing yourself to think that you can live off doing the thing you love, that you don't need anything else. You're not lacking anything. You have everything that you want. You feel joy every single day, and you're truly enjoying your life. If that's the notion that you approach your life with everything you want and everything that's required to help you live that life will come to you because it's, that's how earth is designed.

It's designed like that. So, yeah, again, if I could impart any wisdom on anybody listening, it's like take that idea, adopt the, the, the knowledge and the expectation that whatever path you choose to be on, you will. Supplied with the necessary requirements to survive and thrive there. Um, as long as your language reflects that and doing things more in your day, that make you feel like that will keep you emotionally in the place that you want to be.

So that you're not triggered to go back to your old ways. And this is just one of the many beautiful. Things that we do in the 360 method, which is my signature process, of course. And just as conscious manifestors here in the Roxy talks community, we're all about picking what we want because we can have it.

And yes, it's enough to just say all good things come, or, you know, I'm living my best life, anything like that is great. And whatever you consider to be good and great and best will come to you. But if it takes a little more encouragement or convincing in the in-between times, just play, pretend and act.

You would, if everything was going the way that you wanted it to, and you had everything aligned, everything in order, how would you act? How would you respond? What would you be thinking right now? What would you be thinking about X, Y, Z subject, and then apply those thoughts? Literally just think them and take up space in your day, thinking those and especially take up space in your day.

Thinking those thoughts that used to be taken up by thinking thoughts that we can use the word negative, but at least, you know, reflection. Original reality, the one that you're wanting to transcend from out of, into something else. Right? So today's topic comes from a mindset Monday. Again, that's our live chat.

Um, if you're not aware, we get together on Facebook and YouTube and we answer manifestation questions. And a lot of the time, the topics that we talk about on the podcast come from questions from mindset Monday, and that's mostly right. Literally talking to you in those moments, and I'm asking, what do you want me to talk about on the podcast?

And they tell me, and I do it. So that's what we're going to talk about today. And as much as I may feel like I've covered every topic that I can think of regarding manifestation, I don't think I have specifically talked about manifesting a relationship out of thin air in a formal video or podcast. So here we go.

Let's first talk about if you are kind of like getting back back into the dating world or you're. Just fresh going into something. Let's talk about expectations because expectations manifest and that's why. Sometimes it feels hard to get out of your own patterns. And, um, deep beliefs is because the expectation to be treated the same way or to go through the same type of experience or like for things to go the way that they normally go is really deeply ingrained in us.

And it's one of those. Reactions and like some subconscious things that we do that reaffirms our reality and causes the current moment to be us sticky and slit cyclical are the two words that popped up in my head. So, um, The way that we end up reaffirming our current reality and staying in situations, um, for far too long and manifesting the same situations over and over again is just the expectation that that's the way that it's going to go.

And along the way in our journey, you know, let's say that has to do with relationships. That's what we're talking about. Generally. You know, you pick up these ideas about what relationships are, what they mean, what love looks like, how it feels, who deserves it, who gets it? Um, you know, How it looks from the outside, how it looks from the inside.

We have all these expectations and ideas and beliefs going around that we're like picking up as we go along, you know, throughout our life and along the way while picking up those, or should I say, you know, observing or experiencing on the timeline as you observe, you collect the reaction creates expectation and fear of.

A further occurrence. And just that one little one time can spark a lifetime of a cycle. As I'm talking about this, I'm like, this is a heavy subject to kind of unpack. Um, PS, if you want to dive deep into this, I have got a really thorough workshop, manifesting a specific person workshop it's on my website, Roxy talks.com.

I go deep into this and help you get to your patterns and everything that's within. Causing you to manifest the situations that you have in your love life, as you grow it, relationships, you see people, whether there was your parents or the people around you, people in your family, kids in school, kids, you had crushes on stuff you see on TV, the neighbors, someone you saw down the street, either way, like you're building this idea and this expectation of what love and relationships look like.

And as you have these expectations, The manifestation is going to come through and validate the expectation. And you're going to say, oh, look, see there. It is just like I said, it was just like, I was worried. It would be just like, I thought it would be. And you continue the cycle again. And in that moment, creating another experience for yourself to say, yeah, see, there it goes again.

That's that thing that I said that, and this is how we get stuck in things. So, so having said. If you are wiping the slate, clean on relationships, then I want you to wipe the slate clean. And that's why I said all that stuff. That's why I'm talking about all these things. You've picked up over life because you've picked up all these ideas over life and they don't mean anything.

They're all Jack , but it's just a bunch of bullshit. So. Literally visualize, oh, chalkboard erase, erase, erase, erase it, all, erase the notions, see a page being cleared of all words on it or whatever you want to do to dissolve this notion. But please understand that like anything that you've seen or experienced in relationships in your past or your current or whatever things that you fear things you don't want to experience things you do want to experience.

And haven't been able to yada, yada, yada, all that stuff. I want you to erase all that. Because all of that, just like those are ingredients in your relationship, stew and all of those things. If they're in there, if they're going to make your stew tastes like shit, and we need to purify the ingredients, purify the, some of the ingredients, purify the whole stew as a whole wholesale as a whole stool stew, not stool stew purify the whole stew, all the ingredients.

I'm just saying, if you put a bunch of random junk in your recipe, it's going to taste like random junk, and that's the same thing that goes for your relationship. We need to purify the ideas surrounding relationships so that you can have a nice brand new delicious stew to, to feast upon and not eat some random junk tasting trash.

Okay. And I mean, that would love. We all got to clean our, our junks out. Okay. So, so visualize the slate, being clean about, about relationships. And it would be a good idea to meditate on this question or journal this question, you know, what are my true feelings about relationships? What are my expectations?

What do I fear? What am I excited about? What am I worried about? What am I insecure about? What do I ultimately think is going to happen? What's my best case scenario. What's my worst case scenario. Get really comfortable. What it is that you think relationships are and feel like in turn out to be, and then go to work, rewriting that story.

The main thing that you're looking for when you're finding a partner is. The connection. It is the way you feel when you're with the person, it's the way they make you feel about yourself. It's the way that they inspire you to be better and want to achieve greater things in your life. And with them, it's about trusting and feeling comfortable enough to let down your walls and be yourself and have real honest, open communication with somebody who has real open, honest communication with you.

It's more than the physical, obviously that's important, but. Really hammering in the idea that you are so excited to make that connection and find that connection with somebody and experience what that connection is like, what it feels like to work as a team and expect somebody to show up for you for life practice, feeling like that about yourself and practice using affirmations that describe.

All people in those ways so that you can set the stage for this new person when they come along, or maybe it's somebody that's already in your life that you never expected, but as your language shifts around people and relationships and specific person and nonsense. Persons, you will see shifts in your 3d world and actually on today's mindset, Monday episode, if you want to check it out on YouTube, there was somebody who asked a question about, um, their affirming for their SP their manifesting, an SP and all of a sudden they're having like friends drop out of their life.

And my question to them was, are these. Good friends are these shitty friends because my initial instinctual reaction was thinking, well, if you're manifesting for deep connection, honesty, clarity, con you know, openness, the best relationship, having a great time, loving being around them, wanting to be around them as much as possible and spending that much time.

And, you know, being there for life committed, all that stuff, then everybody in your life is going to be reflecting that. And then those who don't. Aren't going to be in your life anymore because you're affirming that the people in your life do that. So they're either going to conform or they're going to do, I guess, kick the kick fucking rocks.

Right. And so they confirm, yes, that's exactly what was happening. And I'm like, good. You're doing great. That's evidence right there. Like you're getting some serious movement in your 3d reality showing you that what you're doing is working. So. Expect for things to be shaken, shaken, shaken up. Once you start doing any kind of work, that's like different for shaking your core beliefs and like different than what you're used to expect, that things might appear Rocky.

And if they do that's okay, just hold on for the ride and keep affirming through it because you will get through it. And sometimes, you know, if you drop water in a bucket, a pebble in a bucket, it's going to create some ripples. So when you're. Starting something new. You're wiping the slate clean. You are rewriting your idea, your definition of love.

And you're also describing people in general, in your life. Just great and great to be around. And you expect to meet more people like that. You love meeting people because they're people that you do meet. And the people that you do have in your life are so great that, you know, the universe is abundant and you just welcome more because damn, can I be even more abundant?

Thank you. That's amazing. I have so many amazing people in my life and now you're giving me more. Wow. Thank you universe. And flashback to last week's episode, talking about gratitude, check that out. If you didn't listen, catch it, whatever gratitude podcast last week, Roxy talks.com. The next thing that you're wouldn't want to do is then kind of start intending and affirming around the possibility of something new.

I'm excited to see, you know, and I know that. I've got a relationship unfolding. My soulmate person is on their trajectory to me and I'm on mine to theirs. We're so excited to be in each other's lives. We're so happy to be in each other's lives. We, we were just so excited to meet each other and you can talk about this person.

Your pen pals, you know, like you guys, because you are connected and you've already manifested them because we're talking about them, right. So they're already in existence and they are already in existence because they're not, you know, a newborn baby. Cause that'd be weird. So clearly your SPS is already in existence.

They're already in your reality somewhere and they're already on their way to you because you're already doing this work. So. Imagine and treat it like your pen pals that are meeting in person for the first time. You know, so much about this person. You love the connection you have. You can't wait to be in each other's presence, but until you do, you still have that deep connection.

That sustains it. Right? Like, of course they want to see you when, of course I miss you though. Oh, I got, I can't wait to just like, have you in the flesh, but like until then I still have you and I still like, love you dearly and have this relationship. And you know what I'm saying? Like the, the, the idea of them being there is not in question.

It's more so just like get over here, you know, and, and you can treat it like that to make it feel more real, just like you would, if you had somebody that you can't wait to see, that's like across the world and oh my God, we're gonna be doing. Oh, my God. I'm counting down the days. I love you. I can't wait to see you in the meantime.

I need to get myself ready to get my house ready to get my life. Ready? Get my body ready. If that's your thing. No judges get my career ready. And, and also let me say, not that you have to in order to get them, but just that I got stuff that I want to have inline now and ready and solidified so that I can put the tension and focus.

That my relationship deserves and, you know, give myself all the things that satisfy me so that I can be satisfied with, or without this person in my physical presence, which of course sends the message to the universe that you do have them in your life. And it all just kind of repeats on itself. So you're creating the spirit and the story in the expectation, like I was saying, Someone is coming into your life.

You're making space for them. They may not be in your physical presence, just like, you know, your spouse, maybe at work eight hours a day when you're married to them in the happiest you've ever been, you're going to have to be able to not be in their physical presence and be okay, and still have the relationship.

There will come a time when you won't be next to each other and it doesn't make your relationship any less real or any less powerful or any less in love. And in all those other things, You can't let it mean anything now because you want to emulate having the relationship now and people who are in happy, healthy, stable, whole relationships.

Don't wonder. Whether or not the relationship's going to continue to work out. They know it is. They're not worried about it. It's not a question. And just, it's just a matter of fact. So you do that with your mind. Again, you're making yourself think these thoughts instead of thinking the ones that you may have thought before, and you're creating the perfect storm for somebody amazing to just pop into your life and you'd ease seamlessly into a great relationship.

And also of course, Taking care of yourself, doing the work, doing your self care, doing the things that make you happy, learning how to be. Okay. Like I said, meditating everyday, taking care of your health, eating good thinking. Good, getting good sleep, affirming, good spending your time with people that are nice to you and care for you.

You're affirming good around your career and money. And you're just overall being the, you, you deserve to be. That's how you bring somebody. You be completely 100% content because you know that even if I can't see with my eyeballs right in this very moment, it's still mine. I still have it. I'm not lacking anything.

And thank you for giving me all the amazing things that I have. And I can just hang out with these things. In the meantime, while I'm waiting for the other thing to be visible in front of my eyeballs, if you're manifesting a new relationship, if you want to, you know, If you have a physical type that you want, if you have things that you want them to be interested in, you can make yourself a list.

I've talked to so many people who have made themselves a list, um, and had the person pop up. Like a lot of my one-on-one coaching clients have told me that story, that they were just exactly like the person I wrote on a list. And. If that's what you want. Cool. Write it out because it's possible. I know, I know specifically people have done it.

Um, or if that doesn't not a big deal to you, you just want to meet somebody who gets so long with you and, you know, shares the same feelings and connections and you're physically attracted to or whatever. And literally these are your parameters. I'm just naming some stuff off so that you can feel like you have, you know, properly submitted your request to the universe, but you know, all, you really have to do.

Invite in and welcoming love and keep the thoughts of, you know, fear, worry loud, laugh, fear, worry, lack, doubt, insecurity, make your list. If you want to have just, uh, you know, a general concept of it, if you want, it's up to you again, this is your reality, but the most important thing is that questioning is not, is off the table.

We're not allowing ourselves to question. And if you start. Shut it down with it. You know what? I'm not really worried. I'm actually really excited to see you when it comes about and distract yourself. Um, if you're doubting again, say something of assurance. If you're feeling insecure, say the opposite, say something nice to yourself, treat yourself better, go do something fun.

Go laugh at a video or something. Listen to your favorite song. Call your favorite person. Do something to make yourself feel better. Talk to somebody who reminds you, who the F you are, right. Remind yourself with for right now. Okay. Thank you. And. Just do your best to keep your thoughts away from lacked out.

What are, what are they going to get here? What is it going to, you know, just try to stay away from when is it and how come it's not here yet. And I need it. And it's not those kinds of things, but more so like, you know, ex effecting the unexpected in an excited way. I know some of the things, is it going to be around this quarter?

It could be, it doesn't really matter. I'm finding the way, but I'm just excited and, and you're, you're following the rabbits, you know, like you're saying yes to opportunities and you never know where things are going to lead. You never know who you're going to meet through somebody else. So say yes to the opportunities, open yourself up, be excited, do things that are fun for you.

Reach out more, you know, like there's always ways to. Open yourself up and blossom more so that you can attract a honeybee. You know what I'm saying? But it's all internal, right? It's like, it's the nectar that attracts the bee. Right. You know what I'm saying? So we'll make that shit sweet. Make it super, super sweet.

So they have no choice. And then also affirm that they are totally attracted to you and amazing high caliber. Eligible, super-duper single, ready to mingle with you and only you, people are coming your way. And wow. I just keep meeting all these amazing people. I get my pick of the litter. I'm the cream of the crop.

They recognize that they're coming after me. I'm having the best time meeting and choosing and selecting. And everybody's having a great time. No one's feelings are hurt. Everyone feels amazing. And we're just excited to see where things lead. Keep it light. Don't make it heavy again, erase all the notions about relationships that you may have had before.

And just create new ones and then just stay on top of it. Just stay on top of it. When you start doing the old notion, do the new notion 360 method. That's what I do. That's how I do it myself. If you want to start that process, check out my 30 days of alignment. There's a free version on my website. Roxy talks.com.

I have the, the three-sixty method official program is coming very soon. I'm very excited. I've been working on it all year. Cannot wait to put it out and have you experienced it, guide you through it. It's coming very soon. It's going to be. A transformational life changing game changing upleveling program.

So please keep your eyes peeled. Sign up for my email list. Keep listening to the podcast. Check me on YouTube. Follow me on Instagram. Come to the website. Roxy talks. We've got all kinds of fun stuff there. We've got a forum, we've got a book club, we got blogs, we got free content. We got videos. We got affirmations.

We've got all kinds of stuff. You can connect with people just like you, who are into manifesting and want to choose their life and are choosing to pick relationships out of thin air and just separate into them. Seamlessly, flawlessly, harmoniously, easily. I love it. Covergirl.

If you would like me to help you hide yourself into this loving relationship, you can sign up for one-on-one coaching at my website, Roxie talks.com. Otherwise again, check out the manifesting specific person workshop there. Oh yeah, there's a free, there's a free masterclass called five secrets. You need to know to expertly manifest a specific person, but you can also manifest a non-specific person using what we just talked about.

And if you want to watch my free master. Head to my website, Roxy talks.com. Sign up there. We're all raising our vibrations together. You have the power I believe in you. See you next week. .