How To Allow Your Manifestations & Stop BLOCKING Them!

You have the power to attract the things you desire whether it's romance, self-esteem, money, an incredible career, etc. BUT, you MUST be a willing participant in accepting these experiences.

In this episode, I'm discussing how to get into that good feeling place that aligns you with the life of your dreams by remembering everything is always working out FOR you in the best possible ways.

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Accepting what's coming to you is about allowing yourself to know trust and believe that good things can continue happening for you.

What is my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to the Roxy talks, manifestation podcast, your raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic source for all things manifestation. I'm Roxy Lee. And for the last decade I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction to help you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Visit Roxy talks.com for more info. Now let's get into it.

What is up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to another episode of the Roxy talks podcast, where we discuss all things related to getting hold of your life, living the best version of your life, being the best version of you being your most authentic you. And. Going down that road, what that means being authentically you is doing things thing or things that you, as a soul, as a being, as an energetic entity, came to earth to do.

This thing, this purpose, this drive, this passion, this thing that you connect with, the thing that defines you, or the thing that you wish you could do, the thing you've always wanted to do that thing is where true happiness, peace, love, fulfillment satisfaction lives. And if you're not putting yourself in the space of.

Your ultimate happiness or, or satisfaction, then you're not there, right. Because who else is going to put you there? You got to do yourself. We got to do all these things ourselves. And, and that's why I, you know, preach 360 method because it's a way to ensure that you are doing your best throughout the day.

And at all times possible, too. Keep yourself on that path, or keep yourself going in that direction of the thing that you do want, or the thing that does give you that passion and allowing yourself to be there, allowing yourself to experience good day after good day after good day after good day and not fearing or worrying when it's going to end or when the other shoe is going to drop.

And the question today, this episode is all about. How do we allow in the things that we're manifesting? And this question came from mindset Monday as often, the podcast topics do, which of course is our weekly live chat over on YouTube and Facebook. So if you want to join the manifestation Q1. Come join us at noonish PST on YouTube for Facebook and the Facebook group or on my pages, we go live and we answer questions.

And today the question was, how do you allow? And, uh, you know, it's like, that's a big part of the puzzle, you know? Ask believer receive from the S from the secret. That's one third of the whole puzzle is the receiving part. And if you don't know how to receive, then how are you going to accept your manifestation?

You're just going to keep trying and trying and trying and trying and thinking it's not working when in reality, you somewhere along the way are saying no to it. And that's the real issue is that if you can't accept your reality or you can't say yes to it or not allow yourself to have it. Where are you saying?

No. You know, w where does that occur in your day, in your mind, in your vocabulary? Because that thing, or those things that you do too. You know, I, my vision, the visual I get in my head is like something, you know, sending it, you're getting a package in the mail. You're supposed to sign for it. And you're like, no, I didn't order that.

And you're sending it back. But in reality, it's the thing that you ordered. So where in your day, where in your thought process, where in your belief system, are you sending away and saying no to and denying the abundance and the goodness and the satisfaction and the peace and the joy of having what you actually do?

That's what we're asked about. That's what we're talking about. How do you do, why isn't that? How do we accept the things that we want, which is a great question. And maybe something that I hadn't really thought of, um, from that perspective. So thank you to the mindset Monday listeners, or excuse me, uh, joiners crew fam.

We do get, talk about some crazy stuff and, and get, uh, get a little wild on mindset Monday, right? I appreciate every one of you, anyone who's listening right now think, and appreciate you and love you and hope feel the same about yourself. And if you don't just say that you do, because that's the first step, that's what opens the door and we're talking about receiving.

So part of receiving is allowing yourself to have. And allowing yourself to have means you have to stop saying that you can't have, or that you don't have, or that you don't deserve, or you aren't good enough or that it's hard to have, or that other people have in you don't and all those other iterations of, I don't have it, period, you know, or again, like it's, it's worth based.

I'm not good enough. A fear base. Am I ever going to get it? What if I get it? I don't like it. Um, you know, doubt based. I don't think I can. I don't know if I can manifest. I don't know if I can actually do it. It's hard. All these circumstances are in the way. That's how you deny. What you're manifesting is by those things.

I just said it's when you doubt it's when you fear, it's when you worry, it's when you are insecure about it. Okay. Because the mind is a mirror, the 3d reality is a reflection. And so. If you want your reflection to change, you must change what is put in front of the mirror. The mirror can't do anything but reflect.

I just heard in my head, just like, as a joke, this is not anything personal to anybody or myself, especially, but like I just heard in my head, it's not the mirror's fault. You're fat, right? It's not the mirrors faults ugly. Like I don't mean that anybody out there is ugly, you're fat because you're beautiful and amazing and you are fit and your body is wonderful and it works in the most amazing ways.

But whatever you see in the mirror that you don't like, whatever you've seen, the reality that you're living in, that you don't like, unfortunately. It's not the reality's fault. The mirror can only reflect it. Can't do anything else, but be a mirror. So you are the source of the reflection because you are being are what is being reflected.

And so why I'm bringing all this up is because if what's on your mind is being reflected and turned into your 3d reality, then you have to be sure that. Saying that you're worthy saying that you're good enough affirming that it is happening and things do happen for you. Expecting things to come through is how you accept them.

You expect them to come through and not expect them to not come through, to fall through. Let's say that. Okay. So accepting what's coming to you is about allowing yourself to know trust and believe that good things can continue. Happening for you again, not believing that the other shoe has to drop or at least not constantly entertaining the fear, worry, doubt, expectant to see of that shoe to drop, you know, the bracing for the shoe to drop is what makes the shoe drop.

Right? That is the drop. Okay. So remember Amir, if you're bracing for something. In the mirror reflected back to you. That's not ease and allowance and openness. It's the opposite. It's closed off. You're closed off to what you want, but you're not closed off to your fear and worries and doubts, right?

Because you're allowing your fears, worries and doubts to flow. This is why we're not accepting whatever it is that you do. If you fear, if you worry, if you doubt, if you're insecure, it doesn't really matter. Whatever you do that. Turns away your manifestation. You must understand that, that thing, that fear, that we're, that doubt you're tuning into it.

Tapping into it. You're turning that in. I just had heard Esther Hicks tuned in tapped in, turned on in my head. You're tuned in tapped, in turned on to worries, doubts, fears, insecurities, and that's why you get more of them and don't get what you want. Okay. So excepting, what you want means you have to turn off the flow of fears, worries, doubts, insecurities, or whatever.

Again, whatever it is that you do, your personal brain of self-sabotage, that valve must be turned off. And then the, yeah, you can have it. Yes. Good things come every day is great. Every day I'm looking forward to it. Cause more good things are coming. That valve must be open in order for you to get what's on in, in that pipe.

Right? So like I see a faucet hot and cold faucet, whether you think your, your good reality is hot or cold, it doesn't really matter. Let's say that, you know, you're you want hot. But you have cold turned on. If you've got the cold faucet turned in most places, let's say they're alert, they're rigged up, right?

The cold water is not going to turn hot for as long as you have. Only the cold nozzle valve turned right is as long as the cold side of the faucet is, is open. You're only getting cold water. You're not going to get the hot water until you turn on the. Valve right open turn the nozzle. You know what I'm saying?

We know how sinks work, turn the hot one. And that's how you get hot water. And if you want that water even hotter, you close off the cold valve, completely 100% to get the most scolding, pure hot form of that water out of that valve that you can, if you want your water, the absolute hottest than you turn hot all the way on cold all the way off.

If you want lukewarm, you'd do a little bit of both. Can we say hot and cold behavior back and forth only getting some and not getting all like you're lukewarm. It's what you're getting lukewarm results. If you're given lukewarm

turns to the faucets, right? If you're going, if you're going half cold, half hot, you will get lukewarm results. If you're going all cold, you're going to get cold. Make sure that when you are trying to bring something into your world, you keep the right valve open. You can't ask for one thing that comes through one valve or one pipe and expect it to come through another.

It just is not going to do that. And maybe that's my limiting belief, but that's as much. About manifestation is, is I can't like that's as deep as I can get to. It's like, it's, it's doing what you say it's doing. I said that for years now. So just say what you want it to do otherwise. It's doing what you say it's doing.

So what are you saying? It's doing, hopefully you're saying it's doing what you want it to actually do. Otherwise say it's doing what you want it to do. You know what I'm saying? Do you get it? You get it. You gotta get it. I think you get it. If you need me to help point out in your life where you're doing this to yourself, that's what one-on-one coaching is for.

So I can help you with that. I can pinpoint those areas when you're self-sabotaging I can help you figure out what your self sabotage is, how you do it when you're doing it, what you're saying and how you can stop yourself and redirect it. But that's ultimately the gist here. Okay. So. I can help you do it.

I've got amazing courses that can help me do it. That tons of work, what are they called? Videos. That's what they're called videos and podcasts. You probably know that can help you with that. I've got free content on my website. We have a great community forum book club blog, more to come music to help you get in the mind frame of allowing and accepting.

Reminding yourself as much as possible that you deserve to have it, remind yourself you deserve to have it. Then you allow yourself to have it because then that gets reflected in the mirror that we were talking. Yeah. Saying that you deserve to have it or saying that you're excited about what's to come or, you know, saying like let the fucking shoe drop.

Cause every shoe that drops is designer and I'm great. Like they're all Lou batons, little drop, please drop more drop as many shoes as you possibly can on me. Cause life is great and abundant and good things keep happening. That's how you. What if the other shoe drops, drop them all bitch, I'm ready. I'm excited.

Cause life is bringing me amazing things. I will take another pair. Thank you. Drop to please a left and a right one. Thank you. You know what I mean? Like you just turn everything around to be in the power position. So catch yourself doing the thing that you do that limits you or, or, you know, you know, again says, no, it turns it away at the door and, and say, yes, Yes.

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. I am worth it. Yes, yes, yes. I can have it. Yes. But things can continue to come. No, I don't have to believe that doubt. No, I don't have to go down that road. No, I don't have to listen to those fears. No, I don't have to let that spiral happen. No, I don't have to give into my anxieties.

I can feel them in my body. That's totally normal and fine, but my thoughts are on a different train. They're on a different plane. They're on a different level of existence. Okay. We're. Evolved beyond that point. We're so far beyond letting our thoughts go along with our feelings that it's, it's like, it's, it's almost elementary to talk about it at this point.

And I mean that, like, let's, let's, we'll manifest in this, or we're saying it because it's true and it's happening. It's unfolding right now. We're so good at keeping our thoughts on, in check and allowing the body to process emotions and have them and, and feel them and be them and witness them and care for ourselves.

Um, In spite of them, that's the whole goal. So find yourself cutting yourself off. When do you send away the package? And then every time you catch yourself sending away the package, you actually just kidding. I do want to sign that is my package. Just kidding. I'm sorry. I was confused. That is my package.

I'll sign for it. Thank you universe. Okay. Air quotes good or bad because everything great is happening, right? If you label it as great, if you keep saying it's great, then great gets reflected back in the mirror. But if you revert back to the knee, gets reflected back in the mirror. Okay. If you turn on the hot faucet and you keep the faucet going on hot and you never turn off hot, when does the temperature Liz?

Is this the universe? It's infinite. So we have, the universe is hot water tank. That should never goes out. Okay. So you could turn on the hot faucet and just leave it on. You like, what if you never w what if you never turned the cold faucet on again? What if. I don't know how it is in different countries, but in the United States, hots on the left generally and colds on the right.

And I just saw somebody with like their right hand tied behind their back. And they're just, I'm only turning on the hot, I'm only turning on the hot, I'm not going to allow myself to even touch that cold nozzle. What if that was you energetically? Mentally? What if you just turned on the hot and you just allow the hot, the heat though.

Yeah, I haven't. This has happened and woo blue, blue, blue, boom. I'm excited that the fire, right? What if you let that. On all the time, 24 7. And you never even reached for the cold nozzle again, what would your life be like? Okay. That's what we're talking about here. So do as much as you can to leave the cold novel.

Off don't touch it. I almost said the opposite, but I caught myself. I caught myself and that's exactly, that's all you got to do. It's like I do catch yourself. You gently guide yourself back to the hot nozzle. That's all we do. And so you notice yourself, what, how do you person listening? Beautiful Roxy, toxic community member out there.

How do you personally. Reach for the cold nozzle. What is it that you do that turns the cold nozzle on? I want you to ask yourself that you can meditate on it. You can journal it, just pop the question in there and see what comes up. Visualize yourself turning on the cold nozzle and say, okay, well, what did that, what does that feel like?

What does that sound like? What are the thoughts I'm thinking, what am I doing when I do that? And then visualize yourself, turning that shit off and turning on the hot and then just hands down and watch that hot water flow. Just watch it flow. Watch that hot water flow. And if you feel that urge the resistance to turn it off or to turn the cold or wonder about the cold focus back on the hot, maybe visualize yourself, turning it on even more.

What if, what if the hot water nozzle. And what, if you could just keep turning it. I'm just, these are thoughts that are just coming to me right now. Honestly, like this is opening up my mind to, and actually I have to give a shout out. This, this episode was not intended to be a book review on the big leap by gay Hendricks, but I am.

I am reading this book and it is definitely changing my perspective, but I just kept thinking I'm like, I can't go through this whole thing and not give credit because like, like this has helped me come to these conclusions and help me open up this box in my mind. So check this book out. It is incredible.

I haven't been able to put it down since I bought, since I got it. And I've been texting everybody. I know to read it. I shared it on mindset Monday, the big leap, gay Hendricks. Great book. Great, great, great, great book. Everybody needs it. I promise you. You need it. Okay. Anyhow, um, back to, to accepting. All right.

So we know that accepting is the opposite of denying. Okay. So if accepting seems abstract than understand what, what, what does denying look like for you personally? And that's how we'll kind of reverse engineer it. What does denying look like? What's the opposite of that? Do that? There you go, problem solved it.

We're done. And a podcast. So do that for yourself. Ask yourself what you do. You turn the cold on and then turn that hot on it and just leave it on. And start doing the things that are in opposition to turning on the cold, the cold water for you personally. Cause we're all different. We all have our different, um, you know, perceived shortcomings and we all have our different, um, self-sabotage modes and methods.

Some of us aren't. You know, some of us have guilt. Some of us have shame. Some of us have blame. Some of us have worth some of us that have all of the above. Some of us have some, some of that stuff. It's just, it's all different. And it kind of plays out in different ways and it shows up in the way that you.

Respond to situations. It shows up in the way that you respond to good things coming into your life. And it shows up in the way that you think about yourself, your fears, worries, doubts, insecurities, those things. That's where it exists when you turn it away. Okay. So find it located back at and tag it.

Know what it is that you say and do so that you can catch yourself doing it. Here comes the 360 method. Of course you can catch yourself doing it and you can divert yourself too. Hot water on, except yes, you can have a, you are worth it. You are good enough, good days. Do less. Everything can come in abundance.

You can have it all, whatever it is that you need to say to yourself, that is the opposite of, of denying. That's your acceptance. That's your own personal brand of acceptance. I just made that up. Great, cool. Trademark. It let's go. All right. So, um, again, if you want my help finding the stuff for you and getting you on the path so you can manifest exactly what it is that you want in life.

Head to my website, Roxy talks about comfort one-on-one coaching. I also have amazing workshops that you can start right away. Um, I know for one-on-one coaching, I have like one space left in September. And by the time this comes out, I probably won't. Nope. I'm in August. I have one space left in August. By the time this comes out, I probably won't have any spaces left in August.

Uh, if you want to get started right away on your progress and your story and your situation, I've got great workshops. We have this specific person workshop. We have a confidence workshop. We've got the 30 days of alignment. Yeah. Which is what I use too. Start my practice and turn myself into the manifesting machine than I am.

And also those are on the website right now. Roxy talks.com. I do have my official 360 method program coming very soon. Stay tuned for that. I'm so excited to release it. I'm so excited for you to experience it. I also have a bunch of free content on YouTube and on my website, there's all kinds of ways to connect a Facebook group, forum, blog, chat, all kinds of stuff.

Instagram, follow me there too, as well. So yeah, uh, I, you know, we'll help you and guide you as much as I can and share as much knowledge as I can with you and explain things in a way that I hope, um, resonates with you and. Talking words. Don't do the trick again. I've got lots of music as well. If you don't know, I am a musician and soon you'll be seeing a lot more music from me because, because of this book, the big leap, I am officially focusing more on my music because I have to, because that's where my personal joy is located.

There will be more music coming, meditations, affirmations, and actual manifestation music. That is cool and like fun to listen to, or at least not something that you wouldn't want your friends over here, you listening to. So music is coming. Check me on Instagram, find me on the socials, join my email list, all those things and keep living your best life.

Allowing yourself to live your best life by not denying yourself of your best life and the way you do that as the same way you, um, make yourself feel bad that you always have. And I say that with love because, you know, we all kind of do it. And so as long as we can get ahold of it and stop doing it, then we can stop living out the affects of it, of that kind of talk of ourselves, you know?

And it's, it's just the talk manifesting. Once you stop the. It stops manifesting in your 3d. You stopped believing it because you're not really listening to it anymore. Now you're listening to things that are saying, you can have it and you do have it, and you are amazing and you are worth it. And good things do last.

And after a while, you start believing that you see it in your 3d reality, you hear it in your head. You say it over and over. You affirm it. You agree, you celebrate when you see it. And it soon becomes the norm. So you can do this. You have the power, I believe in you. I say that every time. I love you.

You're amazing. Thank you so much for joining me. I will see you next week.