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 I wish I could show you how free you could feel by just saying, you know what? I'll be happy no matter what happens to. And then from that point forward, not letting the things that make you unhappy shift your language. Okay. I'm not talking about not feeling it. I'm not saying that you didn't get unhappy.

I'm saying you'll never get out of it if you, if you cannot get ahold of a language.

What is up? My fellow dreamers and Soul Searchers. Of the Roxy Talks manifestation podcast, your raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic source for all things manifestation related. I'm Roxy Lee, and for the last decade I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction to help you manifest a life beyond your wildest.

Visit Roxy talk.com for more info. Now let's get into it.

I enjoyed your last podcast because I'm a spiritual entrepreneur. What platform have you manifested the most ease and happiness. O.

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you know what I hear? What I literally saw in my head was like, none of the above, um,

you, there's no platform that's gonna spiritually fulfill you. You sharing what you came to earth to share with people and you. , helping them transcend through whatever it is that you are here to help people transcend through that is gonna give you the most ease and happiness. No platform is gonna do that for you.

In my experience, the platforms only give you fucking headaches. So , my advice is to, to just. Part of me says, just put it together and worry about it later. But that's also a reason why I had a lot of headache in my business, but also why I had a lot of ease just going into it. Cause I was just like, here it is.

Like I just put everything together. I followed, um, like, uh, online business. Like I bought a course and I followed it to a t of how to like create my business kind of thing. But you know, all of that stuff is just a road to me. Right. At the end of the day, what people are here for is to hear what I have to say about their specific situation.

So when I say it like that, it's, it's interesting because it's, it's coming. Things are coming up for me as a person, like my worth in value, you know, like, I'm just telling you like at Lean realtime, that's what I'm kind of thinking of is like as entrepreneurs and what you know, especially someone that's when you're trying to help people so much of, of what your own worth is wrapped up in, how others perceive you, and then what they do with the information that you present.

Like, I have a stake in your success. That's why I'm over here screaming at you guys every week, , you know, because I love you that much.  and I'm, I'm telling you the info every single day. Like, and I just want you to get it so bad. So it's like, whatever. But like me, nobody else, nobody else in the entire world.

And I'm telling you this with confidence right now. Nobody, you will never find anybody. And I was gonna say, except maybe my dad, but no. Cause my dad can't even do it the way I do it. Promise. , . He's gonna have a different approach. There's nobody in the entire world that's gonna give it to you the way that I give it to you.

I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's a hundred percent the thing you need. I'm not saying that you have to listen to me at all. I'm just saying if you want an opinion, there's only one Roxy that, that it's gonna flow through the way it flows through. Right. And so if that's what you're looking for, then I got it all day long, right?

Like I, I, it's never ending resource for me, right? Like it's, there's, it's, uh, there's no end to it. Just that in itself is my value to you and the world because of my own unique perspectives. What I've lived, what I've experienced, who I've coached, what I went to school for, what I, you know, everything that I've done and, and lived has given me a unique way of, and a unique lens to look at your situation.

And then the way that I deliver is different as well. So it's like there's, there's no, you could get something similar or close, or maybe we might not be on the same wavelength, but you're not gonna get it from anybody else. Like, you're gonna get it from me, period. And I'm not saying that, that, again, I'm not saying that's the good thing or the best thing, I'm just saying if that's what you want, you know where to come.

And so I challenge you to find that for yourself. And it's like, it's like, you know, if you build it, they will come kind of a thing. To answer your question in the 3d, YouTube is very easy. There's millions of people searching every single day. It's easy to find content and titles to, um, you know, inspire you on, like what people are searching for.

You're in the community right now. You like, I mean, if like if I was trying to start a YouTube channel about something, I would go to that part, someone that's doing that and look with the comments people are leaving and see what people want videos about. It's like literally that easy. And then go turn your camera on and talk for 15 minutes.

I mean, I'd say that YouTube is probably the most accessible, maybe TikTok now, but I don't, I'm, I'm 38. I'm, that ship has sailed for me. Like I put my content on there, but I'm not like a, you're not gonna see me like do some manifestation like this. Not my, not my sts. So anyways, um, find what works for you.

Again, YouTube has been easy. The other thing about YouTube is that it's the second largest, um, search engine in the world owned by the first. Largest search engine in the world. So, um, it's like a, uh, evergreen, perpetually existing library that you will always, uh, you know, be cataloged in and, and like, you know, you'll find, if you look at a lot of YouTubers, like their oldest stuff is, has the most views and still comes up all the time cuz of what, however YouTube does it, it just, that's what they do.

So when you kind of start, you know, in the very beginning be, be really. How do I say this? Be really, uh, conscientious of what you put out in the beginning, because your beginning stuff is what's gonna like drive, like it's gonna make YouTube decide what you're allowed to continue making videos on or like if you don't, they're not gonna show your videos to people.

That's one thing I learned. Second, and don't take these on use affirmations to counterbalance that. My own limiting belief. Right. Okay. So you can do that. You don't have to take it on. You can see what.  I am experiencing, and I keep affirming and don't affirm it for yourself. Affirm the opposite, please for love God.

And, um, and then just, you know, be conscious of conscientious of what's on the beginning because that stuff in the beginning will always have like the most likes and I, it it just like, they categorize it. It's like, this is what you hear you're here for and then all your other stuff gets funneled underneath it.

Kinda so put, put really good stuff out. I'm not saying put really good stuff out, but I mean, how do I. Not saying you have to be at your best in the beginning. I don't want, I don't wanna say like, don't start until you have your best, I mean, Give it your all here, you know what I'm saying? Like meditate for hours before you make your content.

Like do like that kind of thing. Go on a walk and go do some something you really enjoy before you write your script or something like that. So where you know what you're putting out. It's like the highest aligned connection that you can get to today because in seven years someone's gonna be watching that.

And even though it might be like outdated it, like in some aspects, a lot of what's in there is not gonna be outdated. Right? So that's my advice.

What do I do to build confidence in myself? Do I have a morning daily routine? Well, I go after what I want to do. I believe in myself and in my abilities to be successful at what it is that I want. Um, like I know. Whatever it is that I choose to do, I will be successful at it. There's no question. Like I just know that I'm good at what I do.

I'm dedicated, when I work at stuff, I'm smart and I've got the fuck, I, I just know. And plus I'm a manifestor, so how the fuck could it not work out? You know? So I don't know. Like I believe in myself, but I also, like, I meditate all the time. I'm listening to affirmations. I'm. Working every day follow my passions.

I do as much as I can. I, you know, try to get outta my head and like go on walks and go to the beach and do things that aren't about grinding and building and being a business owner and things like that, you know, so, um, try, I try to find fulfillment in myself as a person and not as in myself as a business owner.

You know, it's, it's a daily practice, a daily process. Oh yeah, Lean's right. I do have a, um, confidence workshop, confident af I literally break down like, um, how to like become the person you want to become. Like that's what the whole thing is about. So, confidence Workshop at my website, 30% on today using Co Cyber Monday if you're interested.

If not, I've got videos on, you know, loving yourself and things like that. And it's just, it's a daily practice. And you know, part of it is part of what self-love and confidence is, is like you. It's not necessarily like blindly just like I'm so in love with myself. It's, it's more to me about not letting myself think thoughts that make me feel not confident.

Does that make sense? Like I don't insult myself. I don't look in the mirror and think shitty thoughts. If I look in the mirror and say something bad about like my face or my skin or my weight or whatever, I correct it immediately because, not because that's what my eyeballs see, but because I don't have time for that thought to give momentum and exist in my mind, I need my thoughts to be pure and supportive and nice and kind.

Cuz I don't have fucking time for the other bullshit I've already lived in. I know what it's like. I'm 38. I've been, I know what it's like to fucking talk down to myself. I've been there a lot, so I just don't let myself talk like that. And you know, people again are like, oh, you're so confident. I'm like, it's, well, yeah, I believe in myself, but I also, I don't talk shit to myself.

Like, I'm not sitting around like telling myself how worthless I am or how everything's hard or how nobody likes me and how all this dumb shit. Like why are you saying stuff like that to yourself? I'm not saying you are, but a lot of people, I know a lot of people do it. Cause I talk to you guys one on one in one on one sessions, so, Part of being confident is just not letting those things exist.

You know? It's like, it's almost like asking somebody who only eats salad, like how do they say so fit? It's like, well, yeah, I eat salads all day, but I also don't eat cakes all day. You know? Hey, friend, did you know about my new monthly subscription Synergy? This is your all access pass to everything Roxy talks.

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What's the story of me and my hubby? You thought I saw a video about manifesting him back at one point? Um, yeah. I mean, when we first started dating, cause like when we were, we started dating, we were 23, we're 38 now, so, well, he's not 38 yet. That little baby, he'll be 38 a couple weeks. Um, but, uh, Yes, I am a cougar.

My husband three, three is younger than me. Um, he, uh, we, when we were like 23, we dated for like a year off on, and then we broke up for like two years and I was in a rebound relationship. And then, um, we started dating again. And when we came back together, it was cool for a minute and then the old stuff started to come back through just like it does with everybody.

And I was in a, stuck in a space of like, um, I just really wanted him to commit. And he wouldn't. Why won't he commit? Why won't commit? Why won't he just, why won't he just, and I was just over and over and over in my head, why won't he just commit? And then one day I was just like, you know what? Like I don't need this guy to commit to me.

Like I don't need him to do anything. I realized like I had been holding him hostage almost, and I literally was kinda like, I'm so sorry dude, I release you. And I just realized like, You know who I am. Like I could go out and get any, I can get any man. I don't need. Like, I just was like feeling myself for like the first time in a long time.

And I just realized like I didn't need him to make me happy. And trying to force him to do it wasn't making either of us happy. So I was just like, I'm cool with it, you know, like, you're not like, I'll be happy. Okay. I love you enough to let, to like not force you in a relationship with me and I'm cool.

I'm cool. And it was like that made him come through and he was, he changed within hours. It was crazy. It was crazy. But I didn't know about manifesting yet. Now I know, I know. What I did was I fully let go and I was just like done. I released him. Um, I was literally like, cool, I don't need you. But that's, I think that's a Scorpio thing too.

Like, well, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Until we're completely done. And then you just can cut things off with like, seemingly no feelings because you've been cutting your, you've been mourning the feelings up until that point. This is so fucking Stu. I'm just explaining why I do the dumb thing.

I hold on to things for way too fucking long, and then by the time I'm ready, I'm just like, get fuck outta here. And I'm like, done. Uh, I still do that, so I need to work on that. Um, but anyways, that's, that's what happened to me. And so with my, with my husband, I just was like, oh, I can't, I'm not gonna make this man.

Try that. I'm force this man love me anymore. And that's what made him love me. Ironically, . And that was like, that was like 13 years ago. That was a long time ago. And we've been great ever since. So he's been the same person ever since then. It was like I rewrote the story somehow without knowing it, without realizing it, and manifested a different version essentially, is what happened.

But, um, he's excellent. I have the best husband in the world and I affirm that every single day. And that's also what I continue to have it. And I don't just affirm that so that I can have it. I affirm that because that's the truth, and I just say it naturally. Like I really just say that. Dina says I should probably release my s p two.

I happen to know a lot more about Dina's situation just because, you know, she's part of my team. So we're a lot closer than I get to be with other people. So, um, Dina, this is one thing I'll say for you, Dina, you, your fear is that if you release him, you think releasing means. Sending away forever. That's your problem, in my opinion, with the letting go thing, is that you don't understand that what letting go actually is letting go is not saying, even though for me, that's what it was.

That's what it was for me. That was my letting go was saying, okay, let me back up. Let me back up.

Letting go is not saying I don't love you. I wouldn't love to be with. But I don't need you to perform any XYZ thing in order for me to be happy and fulfilled, and that is the realization that I had. That is why my relationship is what it is now, is because I know he is not the key to my happiness. In fact, , I have to find it my fucking self every goddamn day, so I know it's not him.

Cause I am happily married and we don't fight and we do get along and we have a great life and we have everything, everything that we need. We have no, I have no fucking problem in my life yet. I'm fucking doing what I'm dealing with all my stuff. So I know personally that like a, a perfect, completely suited to you partner that loves you and appreciates you and wants to be in your life and supports you in everything you do.

Lets you live in a fucking pink house. My house is. From tip to tails bitch, like my ceiling is pink. My floorboards are pink, not my floor. The baseboards are pink. Everything is pink at my house, and he fucking loves it. He picks out other pink shit. He's, you should see my Christmas tree. He decorated, he embraces it fully.

He still is not the key to my happiness. I have a partner completely, perfectly matched to me that I get along with that I love to be around. He is not the key to my happiness and he cannot make me happy. I have to be happy in order to be happy with him. So I, I just want everyone to understand your SP will never make you.

you will allow yourself to feel happiness when you're around them. Probably sometimes, not all the time. Cause there's a lot of times you're around them and you don't feel happiness, so they're not the key to it and they never will be. You have to understand that letting go of your person is not about saying, I, okay, we don't have fine, I guess we won't be together.

You are trading in your lack for abundance and have and love and fulfillment. And that's what I want you to see is like when. Decided that I didn't need him. I felt on top of the world, I felt I felt better. That I had felt in so long because I was just miserable all day long cuz he wouldn't do the thing I wanted to do, which was just gimme the title.

I didn't want a second more of his time. I just wanted him to acknowledge that we were boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever, you know? Like that's all I wanted. And so that's what it made me even more mad. Cause I'm like, I don't want anything else from you. I just want you to acknowledge what it is and.

And so it was like we were together every day. We're fucking next door neighbors. We were always, it was like I had the relationship, but I was wanting more from it, and I wasn't accepting what it was, and I had my own issues with it. And so when I was able to again say like, okay, I don't need, he's not gonna be the key to it.

Anybody could give it to me because I am the fucking shit and I can. Have it wherever I go. That's what it was. It was like, I will be happy and fulfilled wherever I go because I'm happy and fulfilled. So wherever I go, happiness and commitment or fulfillment goes there, you know? And if I'm committed to my happiness, then guess what goes there as well.

Commitment, which is what most of you're looking for, right? Commitment. If you, you person's not committing to you, it's cuz you're not committed to your new story. A hundred percent. And I don't, I don't need to fucking talk to anybody to. If your person's not committed to you, you are not committed to the right story.

I know it without even a second talking to you because the world's a mirror and I'm smart enough to know how mirrors work. So, so

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I wish I could show you, like, I wish I could show you how free you could feel by just saying, you know what, I'll be happy no matter what happens. And then, and then from that point forward, not letting the things that make you unhappy shift your language. Okay. I'm not talking about not feeling it. I'm not saying that you didn't get unhappy.

I'm saying stop saying it all the time. Stop affirming that you're unhappy because then you just get unhappy tomorrow. And it, you never get out of it. You'll never get out of it if you, if you cannot get ahold of a language, the language is always out. The, like, it's, oh man, you know, it's like your language takes the first step, your second foot is gonna go where your first step goes.

It always, right, like if you think about it like this, like if the, if the right foot is leading, then the right foot needs to go in the right direction, otherwise you're not going in the right direction. If the f if the. The leading front is going backwards. When do you ever progress? How could you possibly progress?

If you will not stop yourself from saying, this isn't working for me. Like, it's one thing to acknowledge it's not working for you, but then you need to use your language to shift to energy. This isn't working for me. Okay, cool. Well, I'm glad that actually, you know what? I'm ready for something new. Now it is working for me.

Now I'm in control. It is working for me. Actually, things are working out for me. You take that, it's not working for me. You get to acknowledge it for a split second and not six fucking days. A split second of acknowledgement, and then you reaffirm your chosen reality instead of going and letting your the three, like your 3D is so fucking stupid.

Like stop believing in it, you know, man.

All right. Homework, homework, homework. Last week was hyperawareness. I know that not everybody did it, um, which is fine. I wanna do hyper discipline this week. So if you didn't do hyperawareness last week, if you didn't do homework with us last week, what I want you to do is do, here's two things. Last week's homework was 24 hours of hyperawareness.

I want you just to pay attention to what you're saying all day long about your situation. What are you saying? What are you reacting to? What is triggering you and what are you doing in response to those triggers? Just because the first step to changing everything is to know what you're doing that keeps you away from your manifestations, right?

So if you didn't do that last week, I want you to do from this moment forward. 24 hours straight of hyperawareness, set an alarm on your phone and you're gonna just be observing your thoughts. No judgments. Don't try to fucking chase 'em away. Just like sit with them and look at 'em like, huh, that's interesting.

Okay, I've been thinking about this shit for 20 minutes. That's crazy. Like, I just want you to look at like what you're doing with your thoughts for 24 hours straight. Okay? So the next homework is 24 hours of discipline, but not judgment, not beating yourself up if you're, if you're thinking the thoughts that you're not supposed.

Just switching them. Just switch your thoughts, just switch your thoughts. If you're feeling negative or you're hurting or you're sad, I just want you to sit with sadness and say it's okay to be sad. Don't think about all the things that the sadness equates to, or what the sadness means, or even necessarily what the sadness represents.

Just. Be okay with it. Okay. I'm sad right now and that's totally fine. I'm gonna love myself even harm French, braid my hair and make some popcorn and watch Babysitters Club. I don't know. You know what I mean? Like you just, like, if you're sad, cool. Be sad, but like, don't make it a problem and don't let that be, um, a ticket for you to just run off with your thoughts.

That's not what we do. That's not how aware and disciplined thinkers act. Okay? They see their sadness and. Raise themselves some support. You know what I'm, I don't play poker. I hope I did that right. I see your sadness and I raise you support. That's what I'm trying to say. I love you. I appreciate you. Be good to yourselves.

I'll see you next week. Bye.