Double Your Donations using my Gift Method™️

There's a five-figure sum hiding in your donor database right now — not from donors you haven't met, but from ones who already said yes once.

In this episode, Stephanie Jiroch breaks down the GIFT Method — her four-step framework for calculating exactly how much revenue is recoverable from your existing donor file. Backed by sector data on donor retention and lifetime value, this episode makes the case that second gifts, not new acquisition, are the highest-leverage growth lever most organizations are ignoring.

Whether you're a fundraiser tired of the acquisition treadmill or a nonprofit leader watching grant dollars shrink, this episode hands you the math and a free calculator to run it yourself.

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Quick question. If I told you there's a five or even six-figure sum sitting inside your database right now, not a grant that you haven't applied for yet, not a major donor you haven't met yet, just money attached to people who already said yes to you once. Would you get excited? Well, if you're like most of us working in the nonprofit space, you would probably be ecstatic. What this isn't is another acquisition tactic. It's a strategy that's been sitting in a spreadsheet you already have access to. Welcome back to Built for Meaning. I'm Stephanie Girache, and today I'm handing you a framework I built because I got tired of watching good organizations die on the hamster wheel of acquisition while money leaked from their existing CRM. It's called the gift method. My way of calculating in very plain, unglamorous math, exactly how much revenue is hiding in the donors you already have. Here's the environment we're raising money in right now. According to the 2024 year-end fundraising effectiveness project report, say that five times fast, a joint project of the Association of Fundraising Professionals Foundation and Giving Tuesday, built from data across more than 12,000 organizations. It says that overall donor retention landed at about 42.9%. And first-time donor retention was 19.4%. Four out of every five first-time donors do not make it to a second gift, not because they stopped caring, because almost nobody asked them to stay in a way that made staying feel like the obvious next choice. At the exact same time, the other side of the balance sheet is getting shakier. Federal dollars and multi-year grants, the money a lot of us have learned, leaned on to smooth out the gaps, are drying up or getting less predictable by the year. So the instinct kicks in raise more, get more donors, but there's a never-ending hamster wheel, and it's an expensive one to stay on. Retaining an existing donor costs a fraction of what it costs to acquire a new one. Acquisition is dollar for dollar the most expensive money you will ever raise, which means the fastest, cheapest, most controllable growth lever you have isn't out there. It's already in your database. That's what gift is built to find. It's four letters, four moves you can make today to uncover that hidden money. It's get your number, identify the leak, find the six figures, and take three moves today. So let's dive into each one of these. So G is get your number. This is really your second gift retention rate. Your second gift retention rate is simple to define and almost nobody has actually calculated for their own file. So of the donors who gave you a first gift last year, what percentage gave you a second gift this year? And that's what we're answering. That figure, so the one I mentioned earlier, 19.4% sector-wide, is your benchmark, not your fate. And the same report found something worth sitting with. Donors who've already given more than once retain at about 69%, nearly three and a half times higher. So the entire game is getting a donor across that first to second gift line because once they're across it, they behave like a completely different population. I is for identify the leak. This is really attrition and lifetime value here. Think of your donor file less like a funnel you keep pouring new names into and more like a bucket with holes in the bottom. You can keep adding water at the top, or you can find the holes, and finding the holes is cheaper, and it's the only fix that really lasts. This is where lifetime value comes in, the total amount a donor gives you across the whole span of their relationship with your organization, not just this year's gift. And the research on this is about as dramatic as fundraising data gets. Fundraising researchers, Adrian Sargent and Elaine J, in their landmark study on donor loyalty, found that increasing retention by just 10% points can increase the lifetime value of your existing donor database by up to 200%. Now, that's not 200% more donors. That's 200% more value from the same people because you kept more of them in the relationship longer. That's your league, quantified. Every point of attrition isn't just this year's missing gift, it's every future gift that donor would have made compounding away from you. So F is find the six figures. Now, this also might be five figures. We do the math that makes this real, and this is one of the most important and often overlooked parts. Let's say your organization had 500 donors lapsed last year, meaning they gave the year before and didn't give again. Your average gift is about $150. So rough math, 500 times 150 is $75,000. Okay, that's not hypothetical. That's real money that walked out your door quietly. Now flip it. If a modest retention improvement recovers even 15% of those lapsed donors, so let's say 75 people, at that same average gift, you've just recovered about $11,000 this year alone. And because retained donors tend to increase their giving over time rather than hold flat, that number compounds in year two and year three. This is where a five or six-figure recovery over a few years stops sounding like a stretch and starts sounding like actual math. This is exactly the calculation the gift framework is built to run, not on my hypothetical numbers, but on your actual numbers. Your actual lapsed count, your actual average gifts, your actual attrition rate turned into an actual dollar figure and a clear picture of what's recoverable. T is take three moves today. Frameworks are only useful if they end in something you can do now. Once you have your number, here are just a few things you can do to turn that first gift into a second and a third and maybe even a lifelong relationship. So here are my kind of top three ideas of what you could do right away. The first is share your numbers with your team so everyone can get on board with the plan. You can't expect these numbers to be moving in the right direction unless everyone knows that this is the plan to move ahead. The second is to segment your lapsed list by recency. So donors who lapsed 12 to 18 months ago are your easiest recovery. They're still warm and they still remember why they gave. I want you to start there and not with your five-year lapsed list. And finally, send one reactivation touch point this week that is not an ask and not a, you know, you probably haven't heard from us in a while email. Think of it as more of a reinvitation, a specific update on what their first gift made possible, and a direct warm ask to come back in and get involved. Treat it like you're inviting a friend back to the table because that really, in essence, is what it is. Everything I just walked you through the retention math, the lifetime value math, the lost versus recovered revenue math, I built into a free workshop and workbook. So you're not doing this on the back of a napkin. It's called double your donations without doubling your acquisition efforts. And it comes with the calculator I use myself. You plug in your real numbers and it hands you your actual second gift retention rate, your actual attrition rate, and the actual dollar amount currently hidden in your database. The link for all of that is in the show notes. Because here's what this is really about. It's not just a bigger number on a spreadsheet. It's the ability to stop treating every $25 donor like a rounding error and every $25,000 donor like your only strategy. And treat them both like they matter because they do. It's building a retention engine that runs in the background instead of a team that burns out chasing acquisition every single quarter. And it's finally being able to say that growth doesn't have to mean chasing new names to replace the grant dollars that used to carry you. So, gift G-I-F-T. Get your number, identify the leak, find the figures, and take three moves today. Second gifts aren't a nice-to-have metric buried in your CRM. They're your next growth strategy, and you already have everything you need to run it. This has been Built for Meaning. I'm Stephanie Jiroche. Until next time, keep building movements that last and keep asking in a way that's worthy of the people who already said yes. Hey fellow meaning maker, thanks for listening today. If you like what you heard, click subscribe and join me each week as I tackle topics related to donor retention, meaning making, and giving psychology. And don't forget to check the show notes to connect with me on social media, subscribe to the newsletter, and more. Until next time.