During this series entitled, "Love Update: My Family Edition," you will get to hear how one of my family member's ideology about love has evolved and changed. The idea for the series comes from lesson four found in the book, "Loving Bravely” by Dr. Alexandra Solomon.
Dr. Solomon pretty much provides the reader with a lesson on gaining a new perspective (or what she calls "collecting fresh data") in order to better understand one's "love template" by interviewing a parent/guardian.
Please note, I do not conduct these interviews using the guidelines that she outlines in the lesson. I decided to ask my female relatives some of the questions that she provides, while also incorporating some questions that I revamped from her list.
If you would like to ask yourself some of the questions that I posed during the interview, here is the list:
-What have you learned about dating?*
-When was the first time you truly felt loved?
-How has your definition of love changed since that time?
-What have you learned about handling differences and managing conflict in relationship?*
-What do you feel are the essential ingredients in a healthy intimate relationship?*
-What does love feel like to you?
-What do you wish for your future children, nieces, nephews, and/or grand-babies when it comes to love?
*Questions directly listed on page 46 of the book "Loving Bravely."
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