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KEW Episode 99: The Uniqueness Imperative

May 27, 2022 chris burcher Season 3 Episode 99
KEW Episode 99: The Uniqueness Imperative
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The Neurodivergent Professor
KEW Episode 99: The Uniqueness Imperative
May 27, 2022 Season 3 Episode 99
chris burcher

I kind of can't believe the title of Episode 99, but this is the culmination of the previous KEW Episodes and Interviews. Hopefully this body of work, thus far, has given me a bit of credibility. Coupled with my PhD in Ecology and Evolutionary Biology, and over a decade in multiple modalities of therapy, counseling, and coaching, I think I have some room to 'weigh in' on some of the big questions.

One of the emergent themes from the Are vs Should Problem investigation, which includes a 50-Episode arc and interviews with 13 unique individuals (links to all here) is the Uniqueness Imperative.

I honestly believe we are supposed to REALIZE our uniqueness. Instead, we are taught to depress our individuality and conform to societal norms, laws, and culture. Don Miguel Ruiz calls this a 'dream' of 'domestication' where we are essentially trained to conform to our local rules. Our families, churches, schools, and villages encourage us to 'be like them' in an effort to teach us how to live.

While this indoctrination is well-intentioned, it has devastating effects on our identities. 

And all around you are examples of this devastation. Hunger. War. Anxiety. Suicide. People are struggling.

And, don't get me wrong, I am not looking for some utopian existence, I believe there will always be a baseline amount of struggle and suffering - in a very Buddhist sense - but this is extreme. 

Hopefully we can agree that these examples suggest we are doing something wrong. And this is the problem I aim to address. 

And one of the solutions, is to ask the question: "Rather than suppress our individuality and conform to societal norms, what if we encouraged each other to develop our quirks and realize our uniqueness". How would this look in the world? What would be different? Would things look better or worse?

This Episode is the end of the first part of the KEW experience. In Episode 100, I will introduce the other half of this experiment, and in Episode 101 begin the next phase.

From Episode 101 on, I will be writing a book in real time focusing on the Uniqueness Imperative and the material from Episode 100. I hope you will join me. Please subscribe to my blog here, to the podcast and/or the YouTube channel to make sure you don't miss out. 

And, as always, I encourage you to comment so that we have a true discourse rather than just me talking.

Episode 99 will automatically populate your podcast app or your YouTube feed if you subscribe.

If you are enjoying this content, please tell your friends.

Show Notes

I kind of can't believe the title of Episode 99, but this is the culmination of the previous KEW Episodes and Interviews. Hopefully this body of work, thus far, has given me a bit of credibility. Coupled with my PhD in Ecology and Evolutionary Biology, and over a decade in multiple modalities of therapy, counseling, and coaching, I think I have some room to 'weigh in' on some of the big questions.

One of the emergent themes from the Are vs Should Problem investigation, which includes a 50-Episode arc and interviews with 13 unique individuals (links to all here) is the Uniqueness Imperative.

I honestly believe we are supposed to REALIZE our uniqueness. Instead, we are taught to depress our individuality and conform to societal norms, laws, and culture. Don Miguel Ruiz calls this a 'dream' of 'domestication' where we are essentially trained to conform to our local rules. Our families, churches, schools, and villages encourage us to 'be like them' in an effort to teach us how to live.

While this indoctrination is well-intentioned, it has devastating effects on our identities. 

And all around you are examples of this devastation. Hunger. War. Anxiety. Suicide. People are struggling.

And, don't get me wrong, I am not looking for some utopian existence, I believe there will always be a baseline amount of struggle and suffering - in a very Buddhist sense - but this is extreme. 

Hopefully we can agree that these examples suggest we are doing something wrong. And this is the problem I aim to address. 

And one of the solutions, is to ask the question: "Rather than suppress our individuality and conform to societal norms, what if we encouraged each other to develop our quirks and realize our uniqueness". How would this look in the world? What would be different? Would things look better or worse?

This Episode is the end of the first part of the KEW experience. In Episode 100, I will introduce the other half of this experiment, and in Episode 101 begin the next phase.

From Episode 101 on, I will be writing a book in real time focusing on the Uniqueness Imperative and the material from Episode 100. I hope you will join me. Please subscribe to my blog here, to the podcast and/or the YouTube channel to make sure you don't miss out. 

And, as always, I encourage you to comment so that we have a true discourse rather than just me talking.

Episode 99 will automatically populate your podcast app or your YouTube feed if you subscribe.

If you are enjoying this content, please tell your friends.