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🦢 becoming a Lover: the Devotional work of Partnership

• grace allerdice • Episode 207

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Intimate relationships are a magnifying glass and a mirror for how we meet life itself, but most relationship advice focuses on behavior control rather than the deeper spiritual transformation that devotional partnership requires. 

Listen in, as I break down the most common patterns I see blocking authentic intimacy and why becoming a lover is the big spiritual work.

"With enough devotion, ANY THING and ANY MOMENT and ANY CHAPTER of your relationship can become a sacred site." — grace allerdice

we discuss —

  • The perfect partner fantasy and how comparing your relationship to an imaginary ideal perpetuates unworthiness and punishment cycles
  • Why commitment alone doesn't make relationships rewarding and why time alone doesn't heal them
  • The independence and self love trap that blocks true intimacy
  • How projecting cultural narratives onto your partner recreates toxic dynamics
  • Your partner can read your energy, I promise
  • Being vs. doing: the energetic work that transforms relationships from the inside out
  • Why radical acceptance is ground zero

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