Not By Chance Podcast

Show Up at the Door of Discharge: One Mother’s Experience

Dr. Tim Thayne

In this episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, Dr. Tim Thayne welcomes Kristin Oliver, a mother from Wisconsin, to share her heartfelt journey through her daughter's long-term residential treatment for mental health and behavioral challenges. Kristin opens up about the struggles her daughter faced, including bullying, self-harm, and substance use, which led to the difficult decision to seek residential care. She recounts the transformative experience at Turning Winds in Montana, where the focus on building trust and relationships played a pivotal role in her daughter's recovery.

The conversation delves into the complexities of transition planning, highlighting the unexpected challenges with insurance coverage and the emotional toll it took. Kristin emphasizes the importance of early planning and having a robust support system for both the child and the parents. As the discussion unfolds, she shares practical strategies for maintaining progress post-treatment, such as using choice-based language and fostering open communication.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into the power of letting go of control and embracing a supportive family environment. Kristin's story is a testament to resilience and the profound impact of intentional parenting. Join us for an episode filled with empathy, expert advice, and a roadmap for navigating the challenging yet rewarding path of supporting a child through treatment and beyond.