Not By Chance Podcast
It’s hard to define what a successful and happy family is, much less how to achieve one. Dr. Tim Thayne, a thought-leader in teen treatment and parent coaching, shares inspiring best practices gleaned from decades of his own and other expert’s work related to intentional family living. Whether your family is in the midst of a major struggle or you are looking for fresh ideas to help you prioritize and enhance your home life, this podcast is for you.
Episodes
86 episodes
Shifting Paradigms: How Treatment Programs are Further Empowering Teens
Ready for a revolution in teen treatment? Join Dr. Tim Thayne and Trina Packard as they unpack the seismic shifts reshaping adolescent care. From behavioral boot camps to family-centered healing, discover how treatment programs are evolving to ...
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54:15
The Secret to Lasting Change: One Teen’s Move from Rebellious to Responsible
Ever wondered how a troubled teen transforms into a beacon of hope for others? Join Dr. Tim Thayne on the "Not By Chance" podcast as he sits down with Ciara Fanlow, a former troubled teen turned mentor. Together, they explore Ciara's journey th...
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51:21
From Powerless to Powerful: Influencing Change In Your Family
Ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle of powerlessness when it comes to parenting challenging teens? This episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast is your guide to transforming that feeling into a sense of empowerment. Join Dr. Tim Thayne and hi...
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36:09
When Safety Comes First—What Comes Next? How Great Programs Shift from Supervision to Self-Leadership
Ever wondered how wilderness therapy can transform a teen's life? Join Tim Thayne and guest Danny as they explore the intricate balance of safety and growth in teen treatment programs. This episode dives into the heart of wilderness therapy, wh...
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54:12
From Long-term to Short-term: One Founders Take on the Future of Adolescent Treatment
Ever wondered how to navigate the maze of adolescent mental health treatment? Join Tim Thayne and Tony Moshier in this enlightening episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, where they unravel the complexities of residential treatment programs. W...
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44:11
Show Up at the Door of Discharge: One Mother’s Experience
In this episode of the "Not By Chance" podcast, Dr. Tim Thayne welcomes Kristin Oliver, a mother from Wisconsin, to share her heartfelt journey through her daughter's long-term residential treatment for mental health and behavioral challenges. ...
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36:58
Ownership: The Missing Ingredient in Transition Planning
Ever feel like traditional transition plans for teens are more of a burden than a benefit? In this episode, Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne introduce a groundbreaking shift in approach that promises to change the game. Imagine a world where t...
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Season 5
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31:45
The Silver Lining of Sending Them To Treatment
Ever feel like the transition of bringing your teen home from treatment is a daunting task? In this episode of "Not By Chance," Dr. Tim Thayne and Roxanne Thayne transform this challenge into an opportunity for growth and positive change. They ...
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44:04
Season 5 Premiere: Trustyy - The Game-Changer in Adolescent Aftercare
Welcome to the fifth season of the "Not By Chance" podcast, where we embark on a journey of innovation and support for families navigating adolescent treatment. Join Dr. Tim Thayne and his wife Roxanne as they unveil Trustyy, a groundbreaking a...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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42:26
Mastering Negotiation and Intentionality with Gen Z
Ever feel like you're walking a tightrope when it comes to parenting teens? Get ready to transform that precarious walk into a confident stride as Dr. Tim Thane and I explore the art of intentional parenting. Discover how to turn your home in...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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29:32
Brainstorm, Categorize, Trust: The New Teen Requests Approval Method
Ever wish granting your teenager's requests wasn't such a minefield? We're here to guide you through an innovative approach that starts with your teen, enabling them to brainstorm their wishes, categorize their timeframes, and understand their ...
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15:43
10 Years of Not By Chance, the Book: More Important Today Than A Decade Ago
In this episode Tim and Roxanne celebrate 10 years of the influential book “Not By Chance.” They discuss the initial struggles of publishing the book and why they did it in the first place. Ever wondered how a book could redefine a...
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Season 4
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Episode 16
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40:19
Developing Leadership: Navigating the Challenges of a Parental Hierarchy
What if there were a way to lead your family with intention, navigating the complex dynamics of the parent-child relationship, and ultimately building a resilient bond with your teenagers? As a single parent or a member of a two-parent family, ...
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Season 4
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Episode 15
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31:37
From Eggshells to Empowerment: The Journey Towards Proactive Parenting
Imagine holding all the keys to unlock the full potential in your children. The truth is, you do! We're here to guide you on harnessing your inherent power as a parent, an indispensable force that shapes your family's success journey and happin...
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Season 4
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Episode 14
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27:57
Steering the Ship: The Transformative Power of Intentional Parenting
Navigating the ever-evolving landscape of parenting can feel like braving stormy seas without a compass. Promising to be that guiding light, today's podcast explores the concept of intentional parenting, and how it can be the anchor amidst the ...
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Season 4
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Episode 13
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27:47
Unraveling Parenthood: Breaking the Chains of Destructive Cycles
Do you ever feel trapped in the cycle of "good cop, bad cop" with your partner when it comes to parenting? Have you wondered how the echoes of your own upbringing have shaped the way you parent? Tag along with us as we navigate these intricate ...
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Season 4
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Episode 12
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31:20
The Healthy Results of the Controversial Authoritative Parenting
The trends around parenting swing like a pendulum from authoritarian to permissive. Instinctively we know either extremes isn't ideal, but we may not know the literature around it. Studies show that authoritative parenting produces the healthie...
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Season 4
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Episode 11
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25:54
Hillary Weeks: "Keep Going" Musics Ability To Heal
Hilary Weeks, a top 10 Christian Billboard singer, connects with her audience by unlocking and expressing the feelings of the heart through music. Her song "Keep Going" addresses depression and has helped thousands of people individually. This ...
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Season 4
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Episode 10
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32:41
Eric Turner: Leadership From Marine To COO
Eric Turner shares stories from his life that lead him to work at Trustyy. Coming from a family that often lived paycheck to paycheck, he joined the Marines right after high school. He got to visit home after boot camp. September 11th, 2001, he...
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Season 4
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Episode 9
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47:32
Michele Benyo: Good Grief Parenting, How To Help Your Child Deal With Loss
Michel Benyo is a grief coach. She specializes in helping Children deal with loss in their life. Having children of her own and losing one put her through a heart wrenching journey. While grieving, she learned how to help her daughter with her ...
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Season 4
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Episode 8
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39:15
Sherry Fernandez: Love Your Kids Hard
Sherry Fernandez was a hippy turned business woman. With insane drive and
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Season 4
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Episode 8
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40:57
Dianne Kosto: How Neurofeedback Saved Her Sons Life
Dianne Kosto is a mother and CEO of Symmetry Neuro-Pathway Training. Dianne had a son who was kicked out of military school and almost kicked out of a treatment program for teen boys. She fears what could've happened if she hadn't found Neurofe...
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Season 4
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Episode 7
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38:31
Pt. 5 How To Be Your Teens Number One Influencer: Story, with Roxanne Thayne
Dr. Thayne interviews his wife, Roxanne, on the power of storytelling. You must be as entertaining and compelling as your competitor (social media) to influence your teen. Become a master storyteller to encourage your teen to take action, adopt...
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Season 4
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Episode 6
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32:13
Pt. 4 How to Be Your Teen's Number One Influencer: Fear
Dr. Thayne speaks about the role of fear when we are trying to be our teen's number one influencer. Fear is natural and can be healthy in doses, but when it isn't handled right, it can spiral out of control and have a domino effect on th...
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Season 4
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Episode 5
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24:01
Pt. 3 How To Be Your Teens Number One Influencer: LISTEN
Listening is one of the most influential things you could do. We might think that listening is too passive to possibly have an influence. Most of the time, however, no one cares to be swayed by someone they feel doesn't understand t...
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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22:59