Studio Fertility
If you have been struggling to get pregnant for any length of time, then this podcast is for you! Bella Hilton, Founder of the transformational Fertility Shift program, certified Advanced Life Coach, Master NLP Practitioner and Hypnofertilitist, and someone who has first hand experience of infertility and IVF, shares practical tips and strategies on how to navigate the mental and emotional rollercoaster of trying to conceive. Exploring the mind-body connection and mindset hacks that are proven to put you back in control of your life and fertility journey, Bella also loves sharing insights from her experiences of working with infertility clients from all around the world. All this, so you can live your best life now and get your mind from chaos to calm and your body from resistant to receptive.
Studio Fertility
The Comparison Trap In Fertility
Why does someone else’s pregnancy announcement make you want to cry… and then feel guilty for crying?
You're not alone and you’re definitely not broken.
In this honest, intimate episode, I shine a light on the comparison spiral that hits so many women during infertility, the kind no one talks about because it feels shameful, petty, or too much.
From Instagram baby bumps to WhatsApp announcements to chance supermarket run-ins, the emotional triggers can feel relentless, especially when you're navigating fertility struggles, grief, and hope all at once.
You’ll learn:
🔹 Why infertility comparison is a nervous system response, not a personal failure
🔹 How grief disguises itself as jealousy or irritation (and what to do about it)
🔹 Why protecting your peace doesn’t make you a bad friend — it makes you wise
🔹 How to stop spiralling and start anchoring into your own path
🔹 A powerful reframe that transforms comparison into clarity and compassion
I also share a raw story about my own journey, including what people didn’t see when I announced my pregnancy after 10 years of trying, and why no one’s story is ever as simple as it looks from the outside.
Whether you’ve found yourself hating a friend’s baby shower, rage-tapping out of another fertility forum, or quietly wondering “What’s wrong with me?” - this episode will help you breathe again.
💬 Reminder:
You are not a bad person for struggling with comparison.
You are a human being in pain, and you deserve space for that truth too.
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- Website: studiofertility.com
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