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How To Process Sexualized Emotions (with Jonathan Hernandez)
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Welcome and Bilingual Format
1:02
Jonathan’s Background and Frameworks
2:50
Sexualized Emotions Explained
4:33
Childhood Loneliness and Porn Discovery
7:45
Dopamine, Regulation, and Compulsion
8:59
Naming Emotions to Rewire the Brain
11:14
Curiosity, Triggers, and Early Intercepts
12:31
Loneliness: Message and Need
15:20
You Can’t Choose Feelings, Only Actions
17:08
Daily Emotion Wheel Practice
18:34
Joy, Purity Culture, and Redirecting Beauty
21:05
Turning Attraction into Worship and Honor
23:01
Building a Culture of Connection
24:21
Resources, Links, and Closing Blessing
Husband Material
How To Process Sexualized Emotions (with Jonathan Hernandez)
Oct 06, 2025
Drew Boa
Why do we sexualize our emotions, and how can we process our emotions without sexualizing them? In this episode, Jonathan Hernandez answers these questions in English. Check out the Spanish version of this episode here.
Jonathan Hernandez is a newly Certified Husband Material Coach with over a year of experience as a Certified Connection Codes Coach. He completed three years at Bethel’s School of Supernatural Ministry and is passionate about helping couples build deeper connection and guiding men into healthy and fulfilling sexuality.
Connect with Jonathan here:
rueda.jonnythecoach.com/english
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