3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast
3-21 No Kiddin’ began with one woman’s journey away from a bet—and has grown into an ongoing conversation about addiction, sobriety, recovery, self-care, wellness, and what it really takes to build a better life.
Creator and host Bobbie Malatesta began sharing her experience with gambling addiction and gambling recovery after placing her last bet on March 21, 2016. As her own journey evolved—including becoming alcohol-free—the podcast evolved with her.
Today, Bobbie explores problem gambling, alcohol addiction, substance use, behavioral addictions, sober living, mental and emotional wellness, personal growth, and alternative recovery modalities. Guests include people sharing their own lived experiences in recovery as well as professionals, experts, advocates, and practitioners offering different tools and perspectives for healing and healthier living.
There is no one-size-fits-all path to recovery. That's kind of the point.
Through honest conversations, personal stories, education, humor, mistakes, lessons learned, and a willingness to explore different approaches, 3-21 No Kiddin’ is about finding what works for you—whether you're in recovery, sober-curious, supporting someone you love, or simply trying to become a healthier, happier human.
What started as a podcast and personal mission has continued to ripple outward. 3-21 No Kiddin’ is now also a Recovery Playground and sober social club in Naugatuck, Connecticut, creating an alcohol-free, gambling-free adult space for connection, functional and non-alcoholic beverages, events, education, and community.
Subscribe and follow along as Bobbie continues learning, recovering, experimenting, growing—and talking openly about all of it.
Learn more: 321nokiddin.com
Instagram: @321nokiddinsoberclub
Special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld of Blue October for permission to use “I Hope You’re Happy” as part of the 3-21 No Kiddin’ podcast.
3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast
My Hero's Journey...
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“Day 17 of the #Fearless30Challenge: My Tale of Resilience…
Today, I’m going to fearlessly share my entire journey with you…
Once upon a time, I embarked on a remarkable journey, a journey that shaped me into the person I am today.
It all started when I faced my greatest challenge, ADDICTION. Through the years, I knew it was destroying me. I knew I had to summon my courage and confront it head-on.
Throughout my journey, I encountered numerous obstacles and setbacks, like stealing money from ex husband, getting in trouble at work for being too drunk at events, and dealing with many deaths and losses through the years.
Each relapse tested my fortitude and ability to overcome. There were moments when I doubted my abilities, but I refused to let fear hold me back.
With every urge conquered, I discovered newfound strength within me.
In rehab, I learned to embrace vulnerability, step outside my comfort zone, and harness my inner power.
Along the way, I met extraordinary mentors, allies, and guides who provided guidance and support when I needed it most.
Through my journey, I transformed from drunken gambaholic to Bobbie the Awesome, changing my ADDICTUDE to GRATITUDE!
It was a profound metamorphosis that unleashed my true potential and awakened my purpose, 3-21 NO KIDDIN- RECOVERY PLAYGROUNDS.
Now, I stand here, fearlessly sharing my journey, because I want you to see that the bleakest times can turn into the precursors to the brightest times in your life.
Remember, within you lies the power to conquer anything that comes your way. Embrace your journey, for it will lead you to extraordinary places.
#Fearless30Challenge
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**A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld & UPDOWN for granting us permission to use his music on the show!