EP 106: OBSTACLES ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND - WHAT THEY MEAN + HOW TO NEUTRALIZE THEM FOR GOOD (REFLECTIONS 101)

Ever wondered why life seems so much harder for you than everyone around you? Or why "bad things happen to good people"? Today's episode is going to provide so much clarity around these questions and give you so much more power + control over your life, in ways you've never heard before.

We're diving into universal laws today - what they are, why they exist, and specifically, the law of soul / emotional balance. Just knowing this information is going to help you understand why obstacles pop up in your life, and precisely how they're massively benefiting you in reaching your goals with career, finances, relationships, health, spirituality, and all 8 areas of life.

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Hello, everybody. Welcome back to the Alignment Show podcast. I am so excited, per usual, to be here with you for another week, another episode, where I kind of want to explain like how I'm outlining these episodes. So partially, I'm channeling what you need each week, like what's gonna be the topic that's gonna get you the biggest life change and just like fill in your missing puzzle pieces right now, just based on collectively our community, our audience here. So that's part of it. The other part of it is I am building out these episodes so that you have no holes in your foundation when it comes to knowing all of the stuff that we talk about, you know, with neuroscience and the creator field and universal laws and energetics and just all of the things because you hear me say it over and over again, but if you do not have a bulletproof, like truly unshakable foundation, you're gonna be manifesting on top of that and eventually it's going to crumble. And I have been through that more than enough times for the both of us. I have ignored the foundations more than enough times than I can count. And now I'm at this place in my life, which I have been for I would say about six months now, where I'm actually paying attention to the foundations. And wouldn't you know when you learn everything there is to know at even the most quote unquote basic level, that is what creates a bulletproof foundation and a bulletproof creator field so that things start working in your favor, and not only that, but also you actually sustain what you are creating, which has always been the goal, right? Like it's cool to manifest some fun things, but uh what's even cooler is being able to hold on to those things, right? Right. Okay, so getting into today's episode, as you can tell from the title, we're gonna be talking about just why obstacles are your best freaking friends. Okay, obstacles are actually getting you the things that you want in life way quicker than if you didn't have obstacles. Okay, so we're gonna be talking about what they mean. We're gonna be talking about how to neutralize them for good, and really just illustrating today based on source truth and science, and specifically, we're gonna be diving into a universal law today. All of that just really getting you the knowledge to be empowered, right? To take full control of your life and your reality because you do have that ability. It's just that we don't tend to believe that until we have the right information to back it up. So that is gonna be what today's podcast episode is about. I just really want to cement into your brain, your being, your energy, that you have so much more control over your life than you even realize. Okay. So why is this important to understand? Well, on top of everything that I just explained, here's the deal: you came here on purpose, for a purpose, with a very specific plan. And that plan was designed by your soul. Your soul is not stupid, okay? It knows exactly what it is doing, and we're gonna be getting into some nuances of this today, but that is just the first thing that we really have to understand is that you're not out here winging it. Like every single lifetime has a purpose. You have a very specific path, you have things that you came here to create and to do, and like you're here to change the world, whether you believe that or not, whether you think that's cliche or not, that's what every single soul is here to do. And it is going to make everything else make sense when you can get your brain out of the way and realize, like, okay, my soul has a plan. I have a very specific soul pull that nobody else in the world can do. And that's what we're working with here. So without understanding the law that I'm going to be explaining today, you're just not going to ever feel fully satisfied because without this knowledge, your soul is being limited from reaching your potentials, whether it's in career or finances or health or relationships or your spiritual gifts or whatever. Okay, because all the soul cares about is growth. And it has picked out very specific ways for you to grow in this lifetime. And there are forces at play that ensure this growth happens because no lifetime is a waste. Your soul is gonna squeeze every single drop that it can out of every single lifetime, and we're just talking about this one right now, but we want you to reach your potential with everything you came here to do and everything you came here to create. So, knowing all of this, it's gonna keep you in your own lane. It's gonna course correct you back to your soul path much quicker than anything else in the world. Okay, I'm talking about the obstacles, and then implementing what we're gonna learn today is gonna make the obstacles make sense and ensure that you're not wasting time, energy, resources, effort, anything on things that aren't actually helping you grow and create. Okay, so I want to have a little section here. We'll see how little it is. We have a lot to get through today. We'll so we'll um we'll see how far we get. But I want to talk about universal laws in general. So, what the heck are these? These are spiritual, scientific, energetic laws of this universe. Okay, they cannot change, they're just like gravity. They exist whether you believe in them or not. They are working at all times, they do not turn off, and this is by deliberate design, by source, which we're gonna get into, okay? And you might be asking yourself, like, do I really need to know this? Like, don't people manifest without knowing this stuff? And I would say, yeah, absolutely, because we're manifesting, creating 24-7. But most people don't realize that they are responsible for everything that they create in their reality. Because we love to take credit for the cool shit that we manifest and create, and we love to not take responsibility for the quote unquote problems and challenges and obstacles that pop up in our reality because the ego wants to say, That's not mine. I didn't do that, and that is not how it works. So, knowing these universal laws, it's gonna help you intentionally create what you want instead of just having life happen to you. Again, we are getting you the control back into your hands. And honestly, like we should have learned these laws as kids, but we didn't. And the goal is obviously to start teaching this to people, teaching this to everyone, including kids, moving forward. So, if you want to neutralize and control the obstacles coming up in your life, then the answer is yes, you absolutely need to know this. You might also be wondering, why have I never heard of this before? Well, we could go down a whole dark force rabbit hole, but let's not do that today. That is a topic for another day. But the reasoning for why you haven't heard of this before is because not everyone has developed their intuition to the degree or like in a way to uncover things like this. They just haven't people just like don't think to explore concepts and like forces like this, right? Like nobody's out here thinking about like, I wonder if I could find a new universal law, right? Like people just life is just happening and they can't make sense of it and they just like settle for it, you know. And anybody can train their intuition, and you can train your intuition. You can go talk to Source about this. Okay, if you want to train your intuition, we've got a wait list for that. But just not most people aren't thinking this way, right? Most people think that life just happens. Also, for where science and technology is at this time and place, which is April 2026, science and technology just haven't caught up to concepts like this. However, if you listened to the intuition podcast episodes recently, um Princeton just did a study that basically proved, like actually, everything we know about intuition being true. Like they can show it now. Um so it's cool, you know, just knowing this information, we're we're ahead of our time. And eventually science and technology will catch up. Um, that's a oh my gosh, that's like we could do a whole podcast episode on technology of the world. But for now, that's why you haven't heard of this, these concepts, these universal laws. So learning this is going to help you basically gain control of the quote unquote uncontrollable. And I put that in quotes because if you, especially if you listened to last week's episode all about the creator field, then you already know everything in your reality is under your control. But we're taking a step further here as we learn this law today, that I will be getting into, don't worry. I know I'm I'm like pushing it off a little bit. We will get there. We need a little backstory first. When you learn this law, you're gonna have an understanding of when obstacles are coming up and why. Okay, so that's what you have to look forward to. But something that comes up a lot is, and I've asked myself this like so many times, right? It's the question of why is it that people who are most likely to succeed, like they work so hard, they're so talented, they're so skilled and smart and all the things, why do they struggle so much, right? Why do they not succeed? And then on the flip side, it's like the ones who are least likely to succeed have crazy success stories. It's like what's going on there? You know, there's gotta be more to the story that we can't see. And that would be correct. It's not just luck. Like it, it's there's not, I don't even, I would love to talk to source about luck, actually. Luck is not like what's happening there. Um, there are forces at play that we are unaware of, and they end up getting in our way. Now, you can actually prepare less for things in life, you can do less and still have successful outcomes once you understand this information. So I want to get into why these laws are here. I want to give you that backstory because again, we're building a bulletproof foundation. We want to know everything there is to know about this stuff so you can create cool stuff and then sustain it in your life, right? The career, the wealth, the relationships, your dream person, your dream body, like all of the things. So I'm gonna get into the backstory of why these laws exist and then a couple of personal stories, and then we'll regroup after that and get into some really good takeaways for you, okay? So, why the heck do these laws exist? Well, we gotta back it up even further. So, past lives and future lives exist, whether you believe in them or not. And I'm gonna explain why. There was an experiment where basically, like, scientists wondered, they asked the question, right, of whether the soul has any weight to it. Like, if you were to weigh the soul, how much would it weigh? So they did an experiment where they weighed someone who was like about to cross over, and from the time that they had a heartbeat to the time that it stopped, they lost 21 grams in weight. So the 21 grams, like the number is irrelevant really, but like the fact that the weight changed shows that there is an energetic body that inhabits the physical body. Because that's the only thing that changed between those two times, right? And we know that energy is not created or destroyed, it just changes forms, like we've been knowing this, right? Maybe you forgot it from physics or whatever the heck, but this is significant because the spirit self, and there's a few different things you can call this, okay? We're gonna call it the spirit self, the light body, the energetic body, the soul. Okay, those are all gonna be the same thing interchangeable here. I'm just gonna call it the spirit self to keep things simple. Knowing this about energy, that it's not created or destroyed, it just changes forms, this is significant because the spirit self cannot cease to exist. It can change form, but it cannot cease to exist, right? So if there's if you've got this idea of like there's no past lives or no future lives, that's fine. But this idea that we are something before and after we're in this physical body, right? It holds up with this law. It's a hundred percent accurate. Okay, so I I think that's so interesting. Like that is mind-blowing. Like, why do are we not talking about this? I mean, obviously you and me are, but it's like, why is the world not talking about this? It's crazy. Um, so that's really cool. Little scientific backup there. Um, but going back into our talk about lifetimes, so there is a plan for every physical lifetime. Like there are multiple contracts called soul contracts, right? That you've probably heard of in place for you to connect with other beings. And typically we call these people soul family. You'll know who your soul family is. But these are planned moments of interactions with like very specific beings to unlock your consciousness, to open up new ideas so your soul can grow through those experiences, those ideas, and then mastering those ideas. And that growth wouldn't happen if you didn't interact with a soul family member, and you wouldn't interact with a soul family member if there wasn't a soul contract in place, and there wouldn't be a soul contract in place if they didn't care about you. Okay, so that's just kind of like a brief, brief, brief overview of soul family stuff, but it's really cool when you can like zoom out and see all of this. So there's planned growth for us. Also, when the soul designed the physical body, it had an entire design process of choosing every single feature of our physical bodies, like eyelashes, hair color, eye color, fingernails, like all of it. Okay, every single cell is chosen, it has a very specific place, and all of you might be wondering, like, okay, well, how does the soul decide on like, you know, eye color or whatever the heck is going on for every single cell? That depends on what the soul wants to achieve in a lifetime. I'm not gonna get into that today, but it is interesting to know what the heck the soul is up to because that's what we're talking about today. Okay, this is gonna play into the law. Now, when the soul leaves the physical body, it regains the entire soul memory of like all the physical lifetimes that it's lived, and it sees everything that it has mastered through physical human lives. Now, the thing with the soul is that it needs assurances, and these universal laws are here to guarantee that growth happens. It's the universal laws are those assurances, okay? It's kind of like bumpers at a bowling alley to make sure that we are staying on a specific path. So, what the human wants in this life, it's kind of irrelevant, although your human wants are going to stem from it, it depends. You'd have to use intuition to check. Like, if like I used to really want a very specific house, and that was just a human want. It was like an ego thing, but it was coming from a soul desire of feeling like I made it, like I'm successful and like I make an impact on the world, and so I made a lot of money, and so then I could buy this house. Okay, that's we could talk about that another day. But basically, the soul is whatever the soul desires, like that is what is determining your life and your path. Whatever the soul wants to accomplish, that's gotta be guaranteed, and these forces exist, these universal laws are in place to make sure that you're getting this growth in this lifetime, and this whole system is perfectly designed by source. It's like actually insane how perfectly it is crafted once you have the full information, the full picture here. So that is why these universal laws exist. And I am gonna share a couple of stories here. Okay, and I want to see what you gather from the stories. Afterward, I will fully explain this law that we're talking about today. I just want you to like observe the contrast and see, again, like what you get from these. So the first story is gonna be from before I learned this law, specifically in my career and financial areas of life. And uh, we kind of gotta go back a little bit in time here, give you a little backstory if you are fresh and you don't know my whole business story. So basically, I started entrepreneurship when uh this was in like 2018. I was in my final chapter basically of law school. I started taking clients, fitness clients, the summer of 2018. I graduated law school in December of 2018, and then I moved to San Diego in March of 2019. And during that whole time, that little interim, I'm like building my fitness business, my fitness coaching business. I'm getting clients, I move, I get more clients. Um, it worked out because intuition, I just like knew was gonna work out, even though it didn't make sense on paper, et cetera, et cetera. You guys can hear those, that full story in other episodes. But what ended up happening was I merged my business with my roommate slash best friend slash soul sister. We merged our fitness coaching companies into what became known as Alignment Athletics. And that was in March 2020. We all remember what was happening in March 2020, but it worked out in our favor because the online fitness coaching industry, like it was already on the up, but it really blew up quick in like a good way uh during COVID times because obviously people were unable to go to the gym and like have their personal trainers, and so we were programming so many at-home workouts. You know the vibes, you know the vibes, kind of a weird time to think back on, but it was really great for our business. And so over the next few years, so 2020 to like 2023, we were really scaling our team, like our staff. So we were hiring assistant coaches, we were hiring dietitians, we were hiring virtual assistants, sales team members, like really doing the thing and like hitting these big revenue months. And it was awesome. Like when we were growing really fast. Like 2021 was like our biggest year. We were signing clients left and right, filling up coaches' rosters within a month, and we just I remember like us talking about oh my gosh, if we keep growing at this rate, we're gonna need to hire a new coach every single month. And then, dude, we're gonna have a seven-figure business. Like, this is crazy. Like, we're doing the thing, and it was like so fun. It it didn't feel like super difficult. I'm sure we had like daily things, like worries, but in hindsight, it's like, dude, that it was it was like too easy, like truly. Like, we would just throw a coaching application link on our Instagram stories, and we would get 20 applications, and then we would do all the sales calls before we had a team, and even when we had a team, then we're booking them in with our salespeople. Like, do all the sales calls, super high close rate, like we were getting great leads, people signing up left and right, and like we had such a great community, I will say. Like the Zoom calls were amazing, especially during quarantine. It really brought everyone together. Like the girls were bonding and making friendships, and like a lot of people found their besties in our community, and you know, we gotta just like help people the way that we wanted to help people, and it just everything was so good, like truly so good, until it wasn't. That's how the story always goes, right? So, I the timeline is just a little fuzzy. I don't Remember, like, exactly, like this happened, and then this happened, but it was very much like a roller coaster situation. Um, so what was happening? This happened repeatedly. Like, I can remember three separate times where uh, so Lexi was my business partner, best friend, soul sister, roommate. Okay. There were like multiple times where Lexi and I did not get paid as the founders. In fact, there was a time when Lexi and I had to put $10,000 of our own personal money back into the business account to make payroll. And we were not getting paid on that payroll, obviously. So we were paying money to run a multi-six figure business, paying big money. Like obviously, you pay overhead and like whatever you pay your team, et cetera. But we were paying way more than we should have been to run and sustain a multi-six-figure business. And it's just wild. There was this contrast of like, how are we hitting these big revenue months? But here we are, founders working so hard, not getting paid. And your logical brain might say, like, well, you should have managed your money better. Okay. But knowing what we know about energy and creator fields and how the world works, what do we know? Everything starts in the energetic. So even if we had managed the money better, we still would have been a match to have financial problems in the business. Okay, so let's just get the brain out of the way there. So throughout this time, it was such a roller coaster. Like I'm talking high highs and low lows. Like we would have our backs against the wall. Truly, no idea like where the next client was gonna come from, how much money we were gonna make the next month, how payroll was gonna go, were we even gonna be able to get paid? We would be in that place, like truly fight or flight, back against the wall. We're gonna see what we're made of here. And then we would just whip shit around in 30 days and recover, and we would hit a higher month than usual. And it was like we kept proving to ourselves what we were capable of in that dynamic of like going from a low low to a high high, which is like the fun side. And then the pattern just kept repeating where we would go from a high high down to a low low. It's like, oh, cool, we're not getting paid again. And then, like, I mean, we did have to sort out logistically, I'm not getting into the details, um, but just like logistically how we were paying our team, etc. And we had such a great mentor at the time. She was like, You guys are just too nice. Like, you're you're quite literally overpaying your people, which is not the worst problem to have. Like, we felt good about that, but also we needed to be getting paid as the owners. So we learned a lot of lessons. That's obviously a story for another day. But while all of this was happening, I just remember thinking these thoughts of like, dude, we work so hard, like we care so much. We're doing all the social media things, like on our personal pages and also the alignment page, and we're batching content, and we're going live, and we're filming videos and hosting these Zoom calls, and we're doing all the back-end systems, automations, we're delegating stuff to team members. Like, how could we be working this hard and not getting paid? It was crazy. Like, even now, just thinking about it, it's like, damn, that I'm still sad about it, you know? Uh, but we spin master everything in our lives, aka we see the perfection. So that's been achieved. But those are the thoughts I was having. And I I mean, other thoughts were just like, oh, we just want to help people. Like, why are we not growing in a way where we can get paid decent money? Because again, we were growing like quick. And then it was almost like social media changed a lot at this point. And not that we can blame it on social media, right? Everything comes back to the creator field, but in hindsight, it's like, okay, this is in the physical side. Like, what happened was social media changed a lot. Our lead generation started to really slow down. Consumers, buyers, like they started consuming and buying things differently, and we didn't like adapt with that, just in terms of like marketing and again, social media content and whatever, just like a lot of things changed, lead generation slowed down, and so then we were having trouble um keeping like everyone's rosters full, and like obviously we needed to still be coaching clients to make money because we weren't at a level where we could make money not coaching clients. It all, I mean, you can set up a business however you want, but rosters started dwindling, and then it's like, okay, well, we're not only responsible for ourselves, but we also have these team members, and like that just added to the stress. It was just piling on and piling on and piling on, and and we could feel it from like the team members, and and that's totally fair, right? Like, if you're working for a company, you're like, hello, I need to get paid. Um, so, anyways, there's like so much more that went into that. But those were the thoughts, and it was just like, how is the business this successful with revenue? But we just keep ending up in this hole. And then, like, I was the one who was in charge of finances because hello, it's me. And so I'm over here like spiraling even more because I'm like, oh my gosh, like I have eyes on these numbers like every day, and I feel like somehow it's even more my fault because I'm the one in charge of finances. Like, I'm spiraling, right? So then I'm worrying about like what's gonna end up happening, what things are gonna crash and burn, what are we gonna do? Like, it was it was not a good time, not a good time. So I'm gonna pause there. I know it's like a cliffhanger. What ended up happening? Well, I've told those stories in other episodes, you can go find them. Um, but I want to pause there because I want to ask you now, why do you think, after knowing those thoughts that I was having, why do you think I kept experiencing this pattern with finances inside a multi-six figure company? What do we think? Okay. I am going to leave that there. So that's the before. Okay. Now I'm gonna share a story same area of life, career, and finances. Okay. So we're staying on the same path here. This is after I learned the concept that we are uncovering right now. And maybe you've already gotten it. And if you haven't gotten it, this will help. Okay. So in the last, okay, about six months ago, I was nosediving into the worst trenches of my life. I feel like it was really a horrible time. I was not doing well, and I think I probably recapped this in episode 98, where I return and just like recapped 2025 for you. So if you haven't listened to that episode, you can go get the full T there. But I was not in a good place. Okay. Mentally, financially, career-wise, really not in a good place for like any area of life, and there are eight areas of life. And even physically, dude, like I that was the last time I hurt my back so bad, I just I couldn't even walk. And it was, it was like a whole reflection city, I was the chief resident of. And so at this point, I'm like, okay, I really gotta get it together and I gotta do something different. Like, I really gotta lock in. So once I started understanding this concept, and don't worry, I'm gonna get into the story here in a second, but once I started understanding the concept that we're diving into today, my business and my finances actually started changing the way that I wanted them to after a very difficult 2025. Okay. So to give you some insight, I have increased my monthly revenue in the last three months consecutively, like month over month. I had my best quarter in the last year. I just had my best month in the last year. I had my best launch I have had since literally 2019 as a solo business owner. I have gotten more applications to work together than I ever have in this business because I started catching my thoughts and rewiring them in my brain quicker than I ever have before. I put more intention into it, I put more emotion into it, I locked in, okay, specifically into my subconscious reprogramming. Because why? What do I always say about the subconscious? If you've been here for more than just today, you're gonna already know. The subconscious is responsible for 95% of our reality. So why in the heck would you not be working on your subconscious programs, right? And I had a whole slew of other things, other factors that were going on. Um, but that's what the podcast is for. You're gonna learn something here, you're gonna learn something there, you're gonna learn something everywhere. But what we're talking about today really, really, really, really was like the big core chunk that shifted things for me. And I know I keep alluding to it. Don't worry, we're almost there. I just want you to try and uncover it first because when we learn things for ourselves, we actually retain it way better than somebody just giving it to us. Okay. So I want to talk about the thoughts that I've been having in the last six months or so, definitely in the last few months, um, to give you the contrast from the story that I just told before this. So the thoughts that I'm having now are things along the lines of I'm I'm building differently this time. I am building the source route. I am creating a bulletproof foundation. Okay, I know that what I have to say is not only important, but that the whole world needs it. Like, whoa. Like this stuff can become so normal to us who are like in this world, but it's not normal. Like this, the stuff that we talk about is like the world's best of the best tools. And most of the world has no idea about this, you know? So it's like, we gotta get this out there. Like you and me both, okay? I know that the more I sleep on my potential and I let fear win, like I don't do something because I'm scared, then the less satisfied I'm gonna feel, the less people I'm gonna help, the less people even want to learn from me, they're not even gonna find me because my creator field's not gonna be in the place that it needs to be for people to find me and get this information that changes their life. You know, I'm celebrating every single win with the people I am helping. I am celebrating myself for every milestone. I'm not discounting it, I'm not immediately looking to the next goal, I'm not thinking I should be more ahead. Like, that's where my headspace is at now. A much more beautiful place than it was in the first story, right? So, why do you think after knowing those thoughts that I've been having, I've been able to completely turn my career and finances around in such a short amount of time. How would you put it into your own words? And I guarantee you, whatever you're coming up with is spot on, even if it's gonna be different words than what I'm about to share with you. Okay. So what are we talking about? Oh my gosh, finally, Melissa is giving us the answer however many minutes into this freaking episode. I promise you, this is better for your learning. Okay, so I am talking about the universal law of emotional balance. This can also be called the law of inner balance, the law of soul balance. Okay, law of soul balance, emotional balance, inner balance. Got it, got it, got it. Okay, cool. The reason that the emotional part of this is important is because that's what we're talking about, right? We are emotional beings. Emotions are they they show who we are at the core, right? They play a massive role in how we're operating, aka how we're programming our creator field, aka how we are manifesting, right? So emotions play a massive role in everything that we manifest. And the big emotion that we are gonna want to anchor to forever, you're never gonna want to forget this, and you won't, because after this episode, you're gonna be like, holy nuts, I need to pay attention to this, is unconditional love. Unconditional love is going to be so, so, so important. So, what exactly is unconditional love? Well, this is seeing all the good, seeing all the bad, everything in between, and still finding the perfection in all of it. This is how Source sees everything. It is how Source loves the murderer as much as Source loves the volunteer or the priest or the police officer or the terrorist organization. Like Source sees everything and still finds the perfection. That is unconditional love, and that is how we are meant to live when we are in full emotional balance. Now, as soon as we are imbalanced and we fall out of this place of unconscious unconditional love, now we're out of balance, and guess what? We have a whole cascade of problems happening. Okay, the first thing, memories start to connect in the body. Maybe you're worried about something, so then you play out a memory that proved why you should have been worried about something. Oh, okay, so now the memories are firing, and now those are triggering thoughts from your conscious mind and your subconscious mind. Oh my gosh, now those thoughts are triggering emotions. So we've got the memories, we've got the thoughts, we've got the emotions, and all of it starts to just flow together and create this negative feedback loop, right? Of, oh, okay, I'm I'm imbalanced because I'm worried that something's gonna go wrong. Then a memory gets triggered where something went wrong. Then you start having thoughts of when things went wrong. Then you get more fear triggered because now you have all this proof that something went wrong. And then it just brings up more memories, which bring up more thoughts, which bring up more emotion, and it's just this negative feedback loop, right? Well, what's the problem there? It's going to start radiating through your creator field. It is going to organize matter in your life in a way that you do not want, right? And by the way, your creator field can reach anywhere, everywhere, everything that's going to interact with you. Like time and space, not a problem. Not real. Okay. However, if we stay in this place of unconditional love, then our memories, our thoughts, our emotions, they're going to form this broadcast in the creator field of everything is perfect because you're seeing the perfection in everything and you're embodying it. Okay, with your brain, your body, thoughts, emotions, memories. Everything is aligning to seeing the perfection, right? So when you've got a script in your creator field that everything is perfect, your creator field is going to organize all matter to be perfect for you. How cool, right? Now, the thing with the creator field is that it's it will automatically course correct any imbalance through obstacles. And when I say any imbalance, obviously what's top of mind is like, oh, you know, if I'm really sad or if I'm really fearful or I'm really worried. Yeah, you're gonna get course corrected. But also on the positive side, if you are super elated, like overly excited about something and you're emotionally rooted to that, you're gonna get course corrected with that too. This isn't meant to put you in like a totally like, I'm just neutral, I live a monotone life, I don't get excited about anything. It's not that. You just don't want to swing the pendulum too far, either way, because again, you will get course corrected. Like what sucks is when you get really excited about something and then it gets taken from you. You know, like that's not cool. So this is a hack to understanding why that happens and making sure it doesn't happen again. So you're either gonna get course corrected when you're imbalanced, or you can get ahead of this by having this unconditional love toward everything in life. So then you are in balance, you're seeing the perfection, you're in this unconditional love state. So then your creator field only creates more love and perfection. It's a positive feedback loop. It's an upward spiral. You're you're creating more of what you want, right? Now, we talked about the fear-based place earlier. If you're worried about something, I want to play this out a little bit more. So if you fall into a fear-based place, this is when the brain, the emotions, the memories, right, they start causing problems. So we talked about this getting programmed into your creator field. What's really happening is it's getting programmed into the light body, okay, which is part of the creator field. And the longer that you hold on to those fear-based thoughts, your creator field is going to play them out in a situation in your life. The problem is when you ignore the situation or you don't fully shift it. You might try to extract a lesson from it and you might get lucky and like get part of the lesson. But unless you have this full information, you're not gonna fully shift what's going on. And these situations that are playing out based on your fearful thoughts and your worries and your doubts, they're just going to get louder and they're gonna get bigger, and you're gonna have worse and worse and worse situations because of this law of emotional balance. Source designed this to ensure that we're constantly growing when we are out of balance. I know. It's like, did we really have to do this? Yes, we did. Your soul needs it. Okay, all of our souls need it. Because when we fall out of love with our lives, we can guarantee that obstacles are in the works. Like the greater the emotion, like the bigger the fear or whatever the negative emotion is, that is proportional to the obstacle that we will manifest. And it's all taking place in the light body, like instantly, right? Like you have these thoughts and they take off, things are being organized in your light body, creator field is going to work, pulling in and arranging people, places, and things to make the obstacle happen. So, my question for you biggest question of the whole episode, okay? If you zoned out, come back. What happens when you are in obstacles? Like, what do we think? What do you get from challenges? Growth, right? It's growth. For example, if you have had someone lie to you or cheat on you, you start to pay attention more to prevent it from happening in your next relationship. You start to take different physical actions, you find more ways to ensure that it doesn't happen again. These physical actions, you would not have taken these new physical actions without the negative obstacle. Okay, so we can consider these higher frequency choices because you went through this crazy big obstacle that freaking sucked. So now you're changing your behavior because you're at a higher frequency because of that obstacle. Okay, so now we're being led to higher levels of empowerment. Instead of just letting life happen to us, we're pulling lessons from these obstacles. We're changing the way we think, we're changing the way we act, right? We're changing the creator field. And we want to get back to this place of full empowerment and this place of unconditional love and seeing the perfection in everything. And if you have been through this exact example of someone lying to you or cheating on you, and you are still emotionally charged about it, there's still something to extract there because you want to get to the point where you see the perfection in it. And as I just talked about, all you got to do is look at it and see, oh, okay, what did I learn? And and realize that you would not have learned that anywhere else. Okay, this is where the whole like no regrets thing comes from. Because everything that's happened has made you who you are today. It sounds cliche, but it's true. It's true. Like your soul would not have grown this much and gotten you to where you are today without all of the freaking obstacles, dude. Okay. So, takeaways for this week. Let's zoom, let's zoom out here. Just play with this, okay? Pay attention to when you feel emotionally heavy, when you can tell that you are out of balance, and start to watch for obstacles and just clock them and see if you can tie them back to that emotional heaviness. Like, can you see how those are correlated, how they're connected or related? And this is why emotional mastery is so important. Because if you had the ability to balance out your emotions every time, no matter how big they were getting, then you can remove all of the obstacles that would be created from those emotional imbalances. You guys hear me talk about all the time. Like every reflection, every problem comes from an emotional root cause. What's the emotional root cause? An emotional imbalance. Okay, and obviously there are specifics based on the emotions you're feeling, then what they will create, but we don't need to know that right now. Okay, so just know if you had the ability to balance your emotions, you can remove all the obstacles. Like we always want to get back to a loving place in the world. That is quite literally the point, right? So the other thing I'll add is this is like barely scratching the surface of what there is to know about this law. And I know maybe it seems like, oh, this is really basic, it's really foundational, but let's make this clear. Owning the basics, not just like kind of knowing them, but like rooting to them, knowing everything there is to know and embodying the basics are what allow the pros in this world to be pros. Okay, it's like sports. I told this somewhere else in another podcast, but every single year when we would start a volleyball season, we didn't get a touch of volleyball for the first week because we had to do footwork all week. We had to do drills, shuffling drills all week. We like the whole thing. We had to work on formations, like didn't even get a touch of volleyball for the first week because our coaches wanted us to master the basics, and that is what made us really good by the time we got to even practice with the volleyballs. Okay, it's the same thing here. If you want to be the best of the best, if you want to be elite, and I know that you do, because you're a high-frequency soul and you just love growth and you love knowing everything there is to know, then you got to master the basics. Okay, we want to establish that bulletproof foundation, like I explained at the beginning. Okay, so I value you actually sustaining your progress and being the best. You're not building on a shaky foundation, not on my watch, because like I mentioned earlier, I did that enough for the both of us, and I would not wish that on anyone. Okay. Now, even if you're on a more advanced level level, revisit the basics. This is gonna help your mastery. Okay, the universe is always educating us through obstacles and just learning this information and starting to practice it as you get better and better at this, you can drop your obstacles by like at least 70%. And that is a much easier life than just letting life happen to you, right? And I know you want the easy life. You have to earn the right to have the easy life, but you're well on your way, okay? Your ego is gonna want to say all this stuff isn't true. Like, oh, you can't control things, you can't, you can't drop your obstacles by 70%. Okay, thank you, ego. You can go sit down because that is the truth. Like, you you have nothing to lose by trying this out, okay? It's giving you more freedom, it's empowering you, it's not limiting you. Like, just just give it a shot this week, okay? And if you want to go advanced, like we've got programs for that. You can reach out through Instagram, website, I'll link everything below. But for now, just play with this, okay? Because this is gonna change a lot for you. Just the perception of obstacles. Oh my gosh, if the whole world could get on board with that, it would be such a more harmonious place. But we're on our way, right? We're out here changing the world. Not just me, you too. I'm talking about all of us, okay? So, with that, thank you so much for joining me for today's episode. If you found it helpful, please leave a rating and review. That would be very much appreciated. I am trying to get some more new reviews for the podcast because obviously I took a hiatus and I'm like, okay, let's get some feedback on the new episodes. And then obviously, if you found this helpful and you know someone that you think would also find it helpful, please share it with them. That would be great. We gotta spread the word, y'all. We gotta raise the frequency of the planet. So that is what I have for you, and I will catch you in next week's episode.