The Business & Pleasure of Flowers
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The Business & Pleasure of Flowers
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Episode 163: With a week until Valentine's Day, the last thing you need is to feel overwhelmed or learn something new that you're likely to forget.
So for this episode, we kept it lighthearted. We talk about what we've been up to in business and in life, answer some listener questions, and then Ellie asks Vonda & Lori 10 fun rapid-fire questions so you can get to know them better.
Consider this 35 minutes of mindless spa time for your mind. Enjoy!
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Okay. Question number two, thoughts on the No Greens trend in design.
Speaker 2Welcome
Speaker 3To the business and pleasure of Flowers. We're your hosts fond of Fever
Speaker 4And Lori Wilson . And we believe that business and fun are a perfect combination, kind like us. Wanda <laugh> .
Speaker 1Hello, Lori and vda .
Speaker 4Hello Vonda and Ellie <laugh> .
Speaker 3Hello, Ellie and Lori .
Speaker 4S your my goodness girls .
Speaker 1How's it going? What's up?
Speaker 4Well, I have learned I'm not eating enough protein <laugh> , so
Speaker 1Oh, I believe it . That's
Speaker 4Been my , that has nothing to do with flowers, but it has ,
Speaker 1It has to do with you and we care about you . Right ,
Speaker 4Right . That's good . And I'm, I'm learning , uh, as I age, my body changes. The chemistry in your body changes
Speaker 1And yeah , you have to keep up your bone density. Right?
Speaker 4Yes. It's funny how as you age you focus on like different things, you know ? And in my fifties now it's like, ooh , I need stronger bones. Mm-hmm. <affirmative>, that was like what I did when I was a kid. Right. You're like, oh, drink your milk. You have big and strong bones. Now I'm back to that <laugh> . Yeah. Yeah .
Speaker 3Oh my gosh, that's funny that you mentioned about your hip not breaking a hip because I was at the gym this morning and the lady, she's younger than me, she said, oh, I had a hip replacement a year ago. And I'm like, what? You know , so just never know. But she's a male carrier and so she said that's very common with a male
Speaker 4Carrier. So anyway .
Speaker 3Very interesting.
Speaker 1Very interesting. Well
Speaker 4Have that one . Have you had your hip, like, have they x-rayed it before? Cuz you've had hip pain for a long
Speaker 1Time . I gotta go. I gotta go. Well you guys are always the ones prepping and interviewing, so I figured I would flip the script and have you guys kind of come in blind to this episode. It's the week before Valentine's Day, so our listeners don't need anything heavy. They don't need to fill their brains with vital information that they have to retain. So I thought this would be kind of a lighthearted fun episode. Um, first I just wanna talk about, you know, what we've been up to. Let's just chit chat Chi . I know last week we really, early last week, we wrapped up our photo shoot for Mother's Day.
Speaker 4How did that go ladies?
Speaker 3Oh, I think it went really well. Yeah, I think it went really well. We had had some good , great shots. I think we did Mother's Day and a few for summer, so mm-hmm . <affirmative> . Um , it was a good shot. There was so many flowers though. It was, it was great. I mean, we ordered way more flowers than we really needed because we wanted to have some options to add to our bundles and to be able to, you know, make something that was a little different. And so Amy at Natural Floor down in Columbia had them send up a lot of different samples, so we had a lot to work with.
Speaker 1Yeah . It was super fun. And then, you know, I posted on Instagram and I got a lot of comments and feedback about it, but usually when we finish up a photo shoot we, you know, send, we take 'em to a nursing home or you call one of your friends and have them distribute to some people that would love to have them right. In some mm-hmm . <affirmative> shape or form. Um, but this time you did something a little bit different, so I wanted to share that with everybody who might have missed, missed it on Instagram. So what did you do? We had so many flowers left over .
Speaker 3We did, we had so many flowers and I have uh , neighbor girls who actually they're homeschooled and the mom is always looking for projects. So we did an art project. So they came over and put their little aprons on and had their clippers and we filled Vs of flowers, some from the dollar Tree. Some were teleflora containers that we had for samples, but we had beautiful containers and they just kept making designs and they're like, can we keep going? And it was so adorable and trying to teach them how about the proper height of the flowers and the color combinations. And so we talked about color, we talked about, you know, proportion and things like that. I mean, they were only nine and seven, but still, you know, it's interesting how they gra gravitate to knowing more. Um , this was the second session that I've had with the girls. I had one after our photo shoot Ellie, that we did in December. And what was so adorable is that they're like, we knew you were gonna ask us what this flower was and I know what it is . This is called dream trick. She said, you know, and things like that. So it was just really, that was her homework. They did their homework. The mom said, she said, mom, do you know where that sheet is that she gave us last time, that handout? Cause I need to study <laugh> . <laugh> . That's adorable. You're dancing the
Speaker 1Seeds ,
Speaker 3Right? That's right. Exactly. That's what I kept going back to is see your future, you know, start 'em , start 'em young . Love it . So after Ellie came out, which was good because we had all these bases of flowers, I don't know, we probably had 25 anyway. And so they went home and got their wagon and put all the flowers in the wagon and we're going around the neighborhood and taking them to people and, and knocking on the door and giving them the flowers . So , um, it was just so much fun. So much fun. But then Ellie, after they did that and distributed 'em and we still had other flowers left and I was leaving town, so I left them outside the garage door of our house cuz it was like 40 at night. And the neighbor lady, I sent her a text and I said, Hey Lori , why don't you come over and get any of these flowers that you want and take 'em to people? And so she sent me a text back the next morning and said, oh my gosh. She said it was so much fun. I took the flowers and took 'em to people who never get flowers. You know, there were a lot of shut-ins that she knew and obviously a whole different group than the children knew.
Speaker 4Yeah , sure.
Speaker 3We just made people so happy with flowers. Yeah ,
Speaker 4I love it. I love it. I love it. Plus the other part of that is you didn't waste.
Speaker 1That's what I always am conscious of with. Yes . Like you just have so much and they're so pretty, you know, they last so long and our photo shoot gets done in, you know, a short amount of time. So
Speaker 4It was great. Yeah . Vda , my hydrangeas that we got when we were in San Marcos are , two of them are still alive. No weird spots on them. It's unbelievable.
Speaker 3That was January 14th.
Speaker 4Yes. Isn't that crazy?
Speaker 3That is crazy.
Speaker 4Yeah .
Speaker 3The flowers ,
Speaker 4If I knew, I can't remember where I got 'em, who I got 'em from or I would give them a shoutout, but I, I can't believe they're still so pretty.
Speaker 3That's awesome. That's amazing.
Speaker 1Um, yeah. And then I was talking to Tyler about, you know, the post photo shoot , what we did and, and he was like, can can local flower shop , can they be a substitute teacher for an art class one day and bring in leftover flowers that way? Or like, you know, I'm curious what our listeners are also doing for, for collaborating or hosting little events with kids or if they're doing anything for that. I think there is something there in some capacity to kind of foster your community. Cuz then those people when they get to high school, they could start working for you. Right.
Speaker 4But yes .
Speaker 3Mm-hmm. <affirmative>
Speaker 4Well in our high schools here have floristry as a class not right across the hall from the welding class <laugh>. So
Speaker 3I knew Texas. Texas really promotes
Speaker 4Yeah . For
Speaker 3A culture because they do that in their high schools, which is great. Right. I think a lot of times florist will go, like you we've mentioned before to a nursing home. Um, I'm gonna do a shout out to Tim Ferrell at Ferrell Flores because they took a lot of things to the hospitals and to the first responders, you know, and gave to those who were helping in the community and got us all through the , the tough times with Covid . So I think there's things like that that are being done, but I love the idea of promoting it with the youth in some type of an art project.
Speaker 4Yeah. Mm-hmm. <affirmative>. And I don't even think it has to be like, you wouldn't wanna have to jump through all the hoops to become a legit substitute, but you can be a guest in the classroom.
Speaker 1Okay . Yeah. Yeah. That's
Speaker 4What I was thinking. Yeah. You just come and it's like, middle school I think would be really perfect to , to be the guest in the art class. Mm-hmm. <affirmative> . Mm-hmm <affirmative> . So
Speaker 3I've done that with the grandchildren before with Lay and Campbell and had and really done the color wheel with different color of flowers. And that's fascinating for them because then you can put it together, you know, the different , uh, color combinations and show them what it's, and then that really helps them associate color and color theory.
Speaker 4Love
Speaker 1It. Um, so yeah. Lori , how have you been? What have you been up to? Just working away pre Valentine's Day.
Speaker 4It's clicking El Ellie , I've been clicking, I'm my little hand off here.
Speaker 1So much so that your shoulder hurts
Speaker 4Shoulder . So also that last night at my workout class, I could not do my side plank <laugh>.
Speaker 3Wow.
Speaker 4I felt like an old person. I didn't dream it would, it was like literally gonna give out. I could do the other side and it's my right side, which is usually your dom . At least me. It's my dominant side. And I went and I just started shaking and then I of course started laughing cause I'm like , holy crap <laugh> , I have a work injury <laugh> , but my heart goes out to you Ellie, because
Speaker 1Oh no. What's so crazy is that you mentioned that in Slack you said you talked about your shoulder pain and your right shoulder. And of course I have all kinds of arm, elbow and wrist pain in my left. But the next morning, Lori , I woke up. I must have slept wrong . I woke up and my right shoulder, it still is painful. I had to take ibuprofen yesterday. My right shoulder has a, has a Cutty . It's cause I
Speaker 4Told you Marin , we absorb the other person's pain. It's
Speaker 1Just , I couldn't believe it's the way
Speaker 4It's <laugh> .
Speaker 3You both need to make sure you take coq 10 . I'm gonna tell you . It's for your joints. Coq . Is
Speaker 4That the joint pain? Yeah. I will say getting up, walking around swinging your arms. Who was it that told us about swinging arms? Katie . Katie .
Speaker 3Wasn't it Katie ?
Speaker 4Like it helped and I don't normally, I'm , I'm not normally clicking as much as I am right now because we're working on emails Right. For our
Speaker 1Tons of marketing, email marketing for
Speaker 4Our members. Right. And a lot of them are customized, which is great, but it just takes a lot of time. Even more clicks. So I find I'm much more aware of sitting posture. Mm-hmm . <affirmative> , <affirmative> when I do it makes a difference. Standing. I dunno . Anyway, it's all, it's okay. It's okay. I'll get through it. <laugh>,
Speaker 1You need to send me the ergonomic mouse. So you want me to get I know .
Speaker 4Find one . I haven't had time but what's so funny is when I put that in Slack, everybody, all the web techs were like, yep . <laugh> . It's a thing.
Speaker 1Yeah. Yeah. They're clicking constantly too.
Speaker 3Yeah. Especially this time of year. Whew . Even more so just like you Laurie and Ellie .
Speaker 4Yeah, exactly. It's it's, it's a weird, it's, you know, they didn't have this type of ailment, internet <laugh> , think about it, you know, it was nothing different. So anyway. What have you been up to? Ellie?
Speaker 1Um, what have I been up to a lot? Well, we're post photo shoot now. So it's a lot of, I went through and named everything , um, working on edits. I'm gonna send them away today to be , uh, the final clipping and I'll get them back. And I got a lot of stuff, Laurie ,
Speaker 4Couple
Speaker 1Things I can't, can't mention here, but there's a lot up our sleeves. Yeah. Um , and then of course next month we have a, another photo shoot which all three of us will be at.
Speaker 4I'm excited about that one though cause huge
Speaker 1Sympathy. Sympathy photo shoot. And we'll see our friends Julie and we'll see Tim Farrell . So Audrey,
Speaker 4Isn't Audrey coming up ? Audrey
Speaker 1Will be there. Yep .
Speaker 3And our friends at the bill born and Des Moines, Iowa,
Speaker 1Trish that
Speaker 3Will be there . They always, yeah . Great
Speaker 4To be Are we shooting in the wholesale house in like in our normal spot? Yes . Okay .
Speaker 1They'll bring the casket sprays into the building
Speaker 4Casket
Speaker 3Spray . Oh no, we're bringing the casket into the ,
Speaker 1I'm sorry .
Speaker 4The casket. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1The caskets always bring the caskets.
Speaker 4Nothing will compare to when one of you, I think it was you Ellie , that sent me the video of the, her showing up at Wanda's house. Yeah.
Speaker 1<laugh> . Yeah .
Speaker 4I laughed so hard cuz all I could think about is if your neighbors are outside. Right , right now . <laugh> .
Speaker 3I did get a lot of calls from the neighbor.
Speaker 4Did you ?
Speaker 3What is that person
Speaker 4Bringing? The cats get on in <laugh> ?
Speaker 3Yeah .
Speaker 4Oh , the things we do for our members.
Speaker 1Oh man. Yep . That's right. Okay, so moving along there are , uh, we got some listener questions. I posted something on Instagram, kind of just random thoughts, random musings . I , I picked out three for us to answer. Okay. So the first question, what do you guys think about Valentine's Day? Do you love it or do you hate it? Lori ?
Speaker 4I used to to love it. <laugh>. <laugh> . Actually I gotta <laugh> . I gotta be honest again. You know, I taught school so Valentine's Day, if it landed on a school day, especially under fifth grade and under was a big party, it was always chaos. You were dealing with parents. So I didn't love it cuz the kids were always in a certain frame of mind that was hard to control mm-hmm. <affirmative>. Um, but I never thought anything about it until I started working in this industry. Um, I like it. My husband and I always celebrate it. Uh, you know what I'm, I already know what I'm getting this year. Um, a new, oh, tires .
Speaker 3I wish
Speaker 4A new set of tires because you know , nothing says I love you like tires <laugh> . So anyway, I think
Speaker 3Heart that are gonna go maybe ,
Speaker 4Maybe I could dig a sharpie and draw a little heart on each tire. So anyway, I don't know . And it was my idea. I was like,
Speaker 1I feel like you don't need, you just got your car, you don't
Speaker 4Need. I know one would think Wow. So I told Mark , it's like maybe we shoot a little email to the, the Volvo people and go, this is weird.
Speaker 1Yeah. Well
Speaker 3You had this had new breaks too. Breaks and tires now.
Speaker 4Yeah. Crazy . So anyway , uh, I like it. I stress out for our members.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 4I really do. Like right now, you know, are they making sure all the flowers get there, get to them
Speaker 1Right .
Speaker 4Heartbreak, this set panic. I can't imagine.
Speaker 1And Audrey has a lot of panic as well. So she, her and Tammy have now both vocally said, I hate Valentine's
Speaker 4Day. I know. Yeah. Cammy has told her whole fam her husband. We do not celebrate Valentine's Day <laugh>. So bonding . You've been in this industry since you were 14. What are you , what do you think?
Speaker 3I think when a Valentine's Day is organized, it is a lot of fun. It really can be. And if you have that mindset as far as a shop owner or an employee, I mean, it's stressful for sure. You know, if you get all your ducks in a row so to speak, it can be real exciting because you're really, you think about all of those customers who are , you're making happy. That's what you have to look at. It's like , oh my gosh, be , be so excited.
Speaker 1But Fonda you personally not as a shop owner. No .
Speaker 4You personally,
Speaker 1Are you indifferent? Are you over it?
Speaker 3If I would say anything I said I would be stressed this week waiting for the weather reports to see if our flowers all make it to our members safe and safe . Yeah . That's my big, I I mean truly before I got on this podcast, I was looking at the weather map for the United States to see what was coming in and what was happening and where were the cold spots and how many flower boxes do we have going to those cold spots. And um , with Audrey, Audrey and I are right there just like right
Speaker 4Ellie , I was telling VDA this morning that , um, yesterday around four o'clock I was at my favorite store, trader Joe's. And before I walked in, there was a sign that said, you know, just fyi, we've had some trucks. Didn't make it because of Oh wow . The weather. Um, and I mean it's beautiful in , in the seventies here. So it looked like when I walked in I took video and sent it to my family cuz I was like, it looks like what the, it looked like during Hurricane Harvey. Oh , oh , Harvey Covid. Yes. Both sh the freezer section. There was nothing. Wow . Nothing . They were completely empty. They had maybe like two gallons of some random ice cream that, you know. Anyway, I just thought that, you know, every, we're not really <crosstalk> that's gonna be,
Speaker 1It's still a ripple.
Speaker 4Yeah , it is a ripple effect. And I was, I tried to be so nice to the people working there because there were so many mad people and my heart just went out like this employee.
Speaker 1Yeah , they have ,
Speaker 4He has no control over that
Speaker 3Truck. Yeah . Well and it's funny cuz it is the ripple down because that was the ice storm that happened and everything was stuck in Memphis. Anything coming through fast ? Yes . I mean we had several boxes, remember that never arrived last week. So , you know , it just slowed everything down and people just don't realize how much weather impacts, but food and, you know, supplies all, were all around.
Speaker 4Yeah.
Speaker 1Yep . Ellen ,
Speaker 4What are your memories? Cuz you grew up in the shop on Valentine's Day. Do you remember the celebrating Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1Um, you know, I was always pulled out of school if it fell on a weekday that I would've normally been in school. Um mm-hmm . <affirmative> . So I just remember, you know, a lot of like wrapping of flowers and like doing all the little prep stuff. Um mm-hmm. <affirmative> , I loved it, but I also loved, like, I've just always loved Valentine's Day. Like I loved like the little Valentine's at school. Like yeah , the Valentine's Day fell on a Saturday and we celebrated on Friday. Like I've always loved it. Um, and it's also Tyler and i's anniversary, so it's kind of fun . It's kinda now like two birds with one stone, so it's kind of , it's nice. Um, so yeah, I've always loved it. And also now, you know, after college and now working in this industry, it's pretty selfish, but personally we're not very busy on the 14th . Yeah , yeah. Right. Because everybody's in that mode, so it's kind of like a nice fun day. Yeah . Um , yeah , I feel like a few years ago, you know, Tyler and I would like go out and do things for the day and celebrate for anniversary. So yeah. I'm a , I'm an optimist. A Valentine's Day optimist. Personally,
Speaker 3Isn't that kind of when you got Roma as well?
Speaker 1We did, yeah. We had the flu and that's why Roma's middle name is Valentina <laugh> . Yeah. Valentine's Day's always been pretty positive, so.
Speaker 3Love it.
Speaker 1Okay, question number two. Thoughts on the no greens trend in design. And I think they mean just like how, you know, I think we saw, what was it at S a F that mm-hmm . <affirmative> Tom talked about having no green foliage in arrangements. Um, so maybe I, I'm curious too, Rhonda, like what do you think about that? How does that translate to like retail floristry and actually like selling of arrangements, having no greens in the vase ? What do you think?
Speaker 3I think it would be interesting to see how that plays out. Um, personally I think it ends up costing so much more to make a full beautiful arrangement with just flowers and not having any foliage. So I think mm-hmm . <affirmative> perceived value sometimes is, is less because it really does take more stems. But I'm gonna go back, there was this trend back in the eighties in , so I was working at Everetts Flower Shop in Ames, Iowa, and I sent out a face of flowers to a customer with no foliage in it because that was the track . Peggy who was my boss, got a call that said, I don't understand it. I have a VAs of flowers . There's no greenery in this space whatsoever. Mm-hmm . <affirmative> . And I kept thinking, I said to Peggy, that's the trend. We just came back from, you know, market and this is the trend. And, and she's like , it's not gonna work here because customers mm-hmm . Do you need some foliage ? So, yeah . I
Speaker 1Dunno ,
Speaker 3I'm just kinda watching to see, you know.
Speaker 1Right. And now with social driving trends too, I do see it a lot on Instagram , um, which helps educate the consumer faster, but True. I think that's kind of the anomaly. It's not gonna be in every town across America. Right. I think in bigger markets that could work, but Yeah. Interesting. Laurie , do you love it or do you hate it?
Speaker 4You know, it's funny cuz when you said social media, it's all over social media, especially on our Instagram feed. If I'm scrolling through there, there cuz we follow so many p shops, I, I don't love it because I think, again, I am one, I don't know the specifics on every flower in there. So to me, sometimes I look at it and I'm like, it looks very sparse. Mm-hmm . <affirmative> like it needs a little something something um, some accessory, which I always think of the foliage. Yep . However, I do not like when there's too much foliage. Mm-hmm. <affirmative>. I've seen some things on some websites recently, actually not our members, but other places that I'm like, God, that's just so much.
Speaker 1Yeah. It swallows
Speaker 4The flowers. Yes. It swallows the flowers and it makes me think they're cheap.
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 3Mm-hmm .
Speaker 4<affirmative> , I dunno , I I like a little foliage in there. I think it's pretty.
Speaker 1I agree. I've always been, and I think probably just growing up, like I was always taught to not show the lip of the vase. Right? Yes . Like, you can't, you shouldn't see like intuit too much or Yeah . You always wanna hide your mechanics. And so for me, when I see that trend and you can kind of see under the veil , um, yeah , I don't, I don't love it,
Speaker 4But yeah. Hmm . I would agree.
Speaker 1Anyway. Third and final listener question. Okay . What events will you guys be at this year? I wanna see you guys in real life.
Speaker 3Aw . Aw . Hi Houston.
Speaker 4Come to Houston <laugh> .
Speaker 1Okay . I don't know . So let's see. I will be at NextGen live in June.
Speaker 4Mm-hmm. <affirmative>
Speaker 1Vana . You'll be at aif . F d And where is it this year?
Speaker 3Chicago. Chicago. Chicago . Okay . In Chicago. That's the first week of July. So first week of July of in Chicago.
Speaker 1And then we'll be at s a F in mm-hmm . <affirmative> in September. September. Mm-hmm . <affirmative> . And then , um, you and I will be at Pro Flora in Columbia.
Speaker 3Mm-hmm. <affirmative>
Speaker 1In October.
Speaker 3October. Mm-hmm. <affirmative>.
Speaker 1And that's all we have on the books right now.
Speaker 3Well, there's a couple other profit blasts that we're looking to see whether we're gonna be able to make it two . One is in Boston, which is in July. Um, so we're looking at that and Thanks . I think those are the ones for sure that we,
Speaker 4I think if you wanted , if especially our members wanna meet the whole gang, I think s a f is a safe one. Um, yep . I agree . Um, because we'll all be there and we love the convention. I mean, you get a lot out of it. I , I think mm-hmm . <affirmative>
Speaker 3Agreed . But if anybody is in the under 40 age and wants to go to NextGen, you guys Right .
Speaker 4Yeah . And if you're not under 40, send your under 40 employees. That's right . I mean , that's what was so cool last year is we met so many employees. I was so impressed of the shops that sent their team. Mm-hmm. <affirmative>. Um , I think it's well worth the money. Yep . Uh , because think of all those people that emailed us when we got back going, Hey, I'm telling my boss about this. Can you send me the PowerPoint slide or can you send me this? And like, they totally went back with a new energy. Mm-hmm. <affirmative>.
Speaker 1Okay. So we're gonna wrap it up. I have 10 quick questions for you guys. These are the questions Okay . That I normally ask my next gen people. I can be rapid fire . Okay . Okay . Um, let's just have Lori default goes first in these . Oh , so Lori Vanda . Lori Vanda .
Speaker 3Oh good . Oh good .
Speaker 4Okay .
Speaker 1Jeans or athleisure ?
Speaker 4Athleisure
Speaker 3Jeans .
Speaker 1Early bird or night owl .
Speaker 4Early bird.
Speaker 3Early bird.
Speaker 1Yep . Yep . Yep . What's your coffee order?
Speaker 4Well, mine because of you, I like the blonde . What is it? The cafe, the latte with almond milk.
Speaker 1Okay. With blonde roast espresso.
Speaker 4Yes. That's it. Mm-hmm. <affirmative> . That's it. I have it on my phone and I, every time I have to pull up my note and it's so good
Speaker 3If I , I'm pretty boring. If I'm going to a Starbucks, I just have the, the light roast.
Speaker 1And what do you have afternoon though?
Speaker 4Yes. You have a fancy thing
Speaker 3At home? Oh , my , my , uh, matcha , matcha green tea latte with almond milk. That's my attitude .
Speaker 4Ice . That's good too .
Speaker 3No. Hi .
Speaker 1I know you like it . Hot.
Speaker 4Hot.
Speaker 1Okay . All right . Uh , spicy food or not? No. Spice.
Speaker 4Spice .
Speaker 3No Spice
Speaker 4<laugh>
Speaker 1Texting or talking on the phone?
Speaker 4Gosh, that really depends on the person. Probably texting. It's , it's vonda . I'll just call. But I mean, it depends. Mostly texting.
Speaker 3Yeah, mostly texting too. Because you can get an answer quickly . We
Speaker 4Don't have .
Speaker 1Yeah . Okay . Favorite music or artist ?
Speaker 4Mm . I am gonna say pretty much anything from the late seventies and eighties. That was kind of my,
Speaker 3Yep . Yeah, that's a tough one for me.
Speaker 4Cause
Speaker 1You like sunny radio.
Speaker 3I do, but that's just like a little bit of everything. Yeah . Sunny radio will be fine. I'm like a John Denver, Elton John kind of .
Speaker 4Oh, I love John Denver. Love me some . John Denver.
Speaker 1Favorite number?
Speaker 4Hmm ? Five.
Speaker 3You can't say five. I was gonna say five.
Speaker 4Seriously? <laugh> . Yes . A
Speaker 314 word five was used to be my lucky number. If you , you know, when five ,
Speaker 4What's what ? I was my number . I was
Speaker 1Also used to be my lucky number.
Speaker 4Oh my gosh .
Speaker 1That was what else ? Funny .
Speaker 4Funny .
Speaker 1Okay , so both of you are fives. Um, what did you wanna be when you grew up? <laugh>?
Speaker 4Well, <laugh>, actually I wanted to be a lawyer. Okay . I wanted to go to law school, was one of my dreams. And then I, my sophomore year took my first business law class and was like , Hmm , maybe not <laugh> .
Speaker 1I can't see it as a lawyer.
Speaker 4It was really hard. I wanted to be a child advocate lawyer. That was my
Speaker 3Oh , okay . Oh, I could see that
Speaker 4For kids. Mm-hmm. <affirmative> , um, in the foster care . So that was my whole, that was my passion at the time. But instead I became a teacher.
Speaker 3I would have to say that there was one point in my life that I, and this was when I was like in junior high and I didn't even know what a nun was, but I wanted to be a Nu
Speaker 4<laugh> .
Speaker 3I don't even know why wasn't Catholic nothing. It was
Speaker 1Oh my gosh .
Speaker 3That I just still wanted to be a forest .
Speaker 4Yeah . That's hilarious. You'd probably have been a good one if you put your mind to it.
Speaker 3<laugh> .
Speaker 1Okay . What is your biggest pet peeve?
Speaker 3Ooh .
Speaker 4Hmm . Okay. This is one of them that is been a pet peeve for a while . And it might make the two of you mad, but we're just gonna throw it out there. One of my pet peeves is when we have a meeting scheduled and like two minutes after it's so supposed to start, I get slack. Oh, we're not doing it today . <laugh> .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 4Cause my brain ha , i , it , it just, it that whole hour where that meeting's supposed to happen, it kind of, I am
Speaker 1Like , well , yeah , you're lost.
Speaker 4That's what I'm supposed to do. And I think it's just a little a d d of me. I can't, I hyper fixate on here's gonna be the meeting and then when it gets canceled I'm like, ah , I've, I've mentally prepared to be at this meeting. Now what do I do? <laugh>. So
Speaker 1That's good that you, you you brought that up .
Speaker 4I know . And I've got , I need to share this with everyone because we are all guilty. We've all done them last minute, but I'm like, why does this stress me out so much? It's, it's, I don't think it bothers anybody else. It's just me mentally I can't switch back.
Speaker 1Mm-hmm . <affirmative> . Yeah . I
Speaker 4Don't , I don't , I don't know . I don't know
Speaker 3What the problem is , but yeah , that's it . I don't know whether I have a pet peeve. Maybe you , nothing
Speaker 1Bothers you.
Speaker 4Oh
Speaker 3Yeah. Just when, yeah , just when people don't put things away. Maybe that's it.
Speaker 1People don't put things away.
Speaker 3Like you drop something and you leave it there on the counter. It's like, just put it , just put it where it goes. Just put it where down .
Speaker 1Oh , okay . Put put away. Don't put down.
Speaker 4Don't put down, put away.
Speaker 3Remember that's Oh I like that. There you go. That
Speaker 4Helps . Means I learned it on TikTok . Don't put down, put away.
Speaker 3Well and somebody in my house never puts things away. Not to name names . You're not gonna
Speaker 4Name any names cause that would be rude. <laugh>.
Speaker 1Okay , last question. What's your death row meal?
Speaker 4Ooh . I'm not sure what my main meal would be, but my dessert will be the tris trace leche cake. Ooh hun . And maybe that I'm gonna have two, maybe I have one for dinner and one for dessert. Um, cause it makes me so dang happy when I eat it.
Speaker 3There you go. And then
Speaker 4A little bit . Cause I can't stop. <laugh>
Speaker 3Mine's easy. Pizza salad and , uh, Creole for dessert. I know it doesn't go together, but those are good
Speaker 4Ones too .
Speaker 1That's great.
Speaker 4Good one. Love
Speaker 3It . How about your last meal? Ellie ? We're gonna throw that one back at you . Oh
Speaker 1Boy. Ah , man. I mean, probably like a pasta now. Salad. Pasta and pizza and tiramisu . Sue or , um, chocolate chip cookies maybe.
Speaker 4Oh , like good
Speaker 1Chocolate chip. Yeah, like good one. Hot out of the oven. Yes . Yes.
Speaker 3Yu
Speaker 1Okay ladies, that is all I have. We'll wrap this up. Um, hopefully everybody has a very good pre Valentine's Day week ahead. We're wishing them all the success.
Speaker 4And, and remember to breathe. Just breathe. Breathe through it as my neighbor Marybel Thomas used to tell me this too . Shall pass.
Speaker 1That's right.
Speaker 4<laugh> .
Speaker 1Everyth breathing's. Temporary.
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