E219: When Your Spouse Drinks But You Don't- Navigating Sobriety in a Mixed Household Artwork

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E219: When Your Spouse Drinks But You Don't- Navigating Sobriety in a Mixed Household

March 11, 2025 • Matt J, Steve C • Episode 219

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In this thought-provoking episode of Sober Friends, hosts Matt, and Steve tackle a common challenge in recovery: maintaining sobriety while living with partners who still drink. Steve shares his personal journey of negotiating alcohol in the home with his non-alcoholic wife, offering practical insights on establishing boundaries through honest communication. They discuss various scenarios, from living with moderate drinkers to active alcoholics, emphasizing that recovery is possible in any circumstance with the right support system. Whether you're newly sober or years into recovery, this episode provides valuable strategies for navigating these delicate relationships without compromising your sobriety or creating unnecessary strain on your partnerships.

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