Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel

Episode 11: Getting Inside the Mind of Men who Use Violence

March 15, 2020 Ruth Stearns Mandel & David Mandel
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel
Episode 11: Getting Inside the Mind of Men who Use Violence
Show Notes

In this podcast, David & Ruth get inside the mind of men who use violence and abuse. The Five Elements in the Profile of Abusive Men was developed to guide group interventions with domestic violence perpetrators. This "operational profile," which examines factors that sustain a perpetrator's pattern of coercive control, was developed during David's time with the Non-Violence Alliance and his work with perpetrators.  David and Ruth look at how different forms of 1) Entitlement thinking that justifies coercive control. They examine how the emotional stem in abuse is not anger but may be 2) Avoidance of feelings of fear and powerlessness. They also examine how avoidance of 3) Acceptance of the damage done by abusive behavior keeps the perpetuating the behavior. They also discuss the role of 4) Structural inequalities and cultural forms of inequality in sustaining abuse. And how 5) Substance abuse and mental health issues need to be addressed but not used to excuse away the choices of perpetrators to harm their children, partner and families.  David outlines how practitioners and even family and friends can use this profile to guide their interventions with perpetrators. 

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