Conversations from the Heart

#17 - How Can I Share What I'm Learning Without Being Off-Putting?

Yvette Erasmus Season 1 Episode 17

This week's episode had several questions regarding offering Nonviolent Communication to others.  

It can be very hurtful when we believe we have a method of communication that might help strengthen our connection with others, but our loved ones aren't interested in hearing what we have to say.

A suggestion?  One of the best ways to inspire others to learn NVC is to live it.

Show notes:
[0:00] Intro
[3:40] How can I share NVC?
[8:32] What is the best way to inspire others to learn NVC?
[16:20] The importance of focusing on the process, not the content
[18:22] I want to be seen and known as competent.  What can I do?
[27:30] How to respond to a demand
[35:30] We stay connected to others as far as we can stay connected to ourselves
[42:00] How can I integrate childhood messages that no longer serve me?
[46:00] Addressing the heart of religious trauma
[48:00] How can I skillfully ask for a reflection?
[50:26] Outro


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