Conversations from the Heart
A weekly, soul-nourishing podcast offering psychologically grounded, heart-centered reflections on human relationships, inner healing, and compassion-based communication.
Focused on live mini-coaching moments to help callers shift from reactive, domination-based communication to collaborative, heart-centered connection. Listen for new scripts for stuck situations, new ways of responding to old relationship dynamics and guidance on how to approach these situations with empathy, self-awareness, and effective communication strategies. Here, we emphasize understanding both one's own needs and the needs of others, creating safe spaces for vulnerable conversations, and finding ways to express ourselves authentically while respecting others' boundaries.
Conversations from the Heart
#122 - When Correction Feels Like Criticism
What do you do when someone corrects you publicly, and their tone stings more than their words?
In this episode, Tarjia brings a deeply relatable dilemma: how to respond in the moment when someone interrupts, “clarifies,” or subtly shames you, especially when it’s someone in a leadership role. Together, we explore real-time language tools, nervous system regulation strategies, and relational repair practices.
This isn’t just about one group dynamic or one conversation: it’s about how to reclaim your voice when subtle power moves leave you feeling dismissed, small, or confused.
Whether you’ve ever felt stung by someone’s tone, shut down by an interruption, or unsure how to set boundaries without creating more conflict, this episode is for you.
SHOW NOTES
In this episode, we explore:
•What to say in the moment when someone interrupts or corrects you
•How to distinguish between your wise adult self and reactive younger parts
•Why certain tones of voice can feel shaming, even when the content seems neutral
•How to use the It sounds like… is that true? tool to re-center and clarify
•What to do when someone flips your feedback back onto you (that’s your issue)
•How to stay grounded in your dignity even when someone steps into a one-up position
•The emotional cost of always trying to care for others at your own expense
•What it really means to slow down for your most tender parts
Bonus: We also walk through a sample script for initiating a repair conversation without blame, without defensiveness, and without abandoning yourself.
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