The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & Law
Sit down with “The California Divorce Experts”: Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, for a frank and casual conversation about divorce, separation, co-parenting and the difficult decisions real people like you face during these tough times.We know that if you are considering divorce or separation, it can be scary and overwhelming. With combined experience of over 60 years in divorce and conflict management, we are here for you and look forward to helping by sharing our unique ideas, thoughts and perspectives on divorce, separation, and co-parenting. This podcast is for informational purposes only. Every family law case is unique, so no legal, financial or mental health advice is intended during this podcast. If you need help with your specific situation, feel free to schedule a time to speak with one of us for a personal consultation.*Certified Specialist – Family LawThe State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization.
Episodes
60 episodes
Sex and What Place it Has in Divorce
Sexuality powerfully shapes our relationships, often revealing deeper issues when intimacy falters. The Three Wise Men delve into this complex territory lead by Pete Roussos, a licensed sex therapist, to exploring how sexual dysfunction typical...
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Season 6
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Episode 5
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33:51
Divorce Court Myths: Where Does a Judge's Power Fall Short?
Divorce doesn't have to be a battlefield where only the strongest survive. Yet many people approach it with exactly this mindset, fueled by persistent myths about what the family court system can and will do for them.In this candid conv...
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Season 6
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Episode 4
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43:10
Who's to Blame? Examining the No-fault Divorce in Modern Society
Our exploration of fault versus no-fault divorce reveals surprising historical twists and powerful stakes for modern families. Did you know Ronald Reagan—yes, that Ronald Reagan—signed America's first no-fault divorce law? Before that watershed...
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Season 6
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Episode 3
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36:38
Relevant Irrelevant Issues in Divorce
Divorce unfolds in two parallel universes: the cold, mechanical world of legal proceedings and the raw, messy landscape of human emotions. When these worlds collide, many discover that what matters most to them personally holds little to no rel...
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Season 6
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Episode 2
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35:39
Navigating High-Conflict Divorce with Charmaine Panko
Curious about navigating the complexities of high-conflict divorce with more grace and empathy? Discover the transformative power of mediation and Collaborative Practice with our esteemed guest,
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Season 6
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Episode 1
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48:47
Divorce and Politics: Navigating Divorce in a Divided World
In this Presidential Election season, polarization is tearing us apart, but could it also hold the key to understanding and strengthening personal relationships? As the Three Wisemen of Divorce guide us through the charged political landscape o...
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Season 5
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Episode 4
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52:37
Bridging the Gaps of Divorce Miscommunications
Unlock the secrets to effective communication in divorce mediation and transform misunderstandings into mutual understanding. Have you ever wondered why a simple desire, like being a "50-50 dad," can spiral into conflict? We promise to equip yo...
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Season 5
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Episode 3
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34:18
Transforming Anger in Divorce: Insights and Strategies with Dr. James Walton
What if you could transform anger into a tool for growth and understanding? We bring you a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. James Walton, Ph.D., a licensed family therapist and
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Season 5
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Episode 2
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57:40
Why does divorce cost so much and take so long?
Ever wondered why untangling the knot of marriage can feel like braving a labyrinth? In a truth-telling session with financial divorce consultant Mark Hill, therapist Pete Roussos, and attorney Shawn Weber, we uncover the multifaceted journey t...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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46:30
Steering Through Divorce with Mental Health Support
Discover the transformative power of mental health support in the realm of divorce with the Three Wisemen of Divorce. This episode delves into the emotional complexities of separation and the pivotal role therapists play in steering individuals...
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Season 4
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Episode 7
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44:25
Using a Financial Specialist to Unpack Your Divorce Mediation
Discover how to navigate the complexities of divorce with financial savvy and emotional intelligence as we chat with financial divorce consultant Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA, therapist Pete Roussos, MFT, and attorney Shawn Weber. This revealing conver...
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Season 4
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Episode 6
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38:42
The Critical Role of Attorneys in Divorce Mediation
Discover the surprising truth behind the role of attorneys in divorce mediation and why you should never underestimate their value in steering you toward fair outcomes. As we navigate the complexities of legal separation, we shatter the myth th...
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Season 4
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Episode 5
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42:46
The Weather Outside is Frightful: Holiday Co-parenting
Sometimes things are hard with the holidays- especially after a divorce. In fact, the weather outside can be frightful. In this episode, Mark, Shawn and Pete discuss the challenges families face when navigating co-parenting during t...
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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49:09
Types of Mediation
There are more than one type of mediation. Every mediator has his own mediation style. In this episode, The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss four different mediation styles: transformative, facilitative, informational and evaluative...
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Season 4
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Episode 3
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48:54
Divorce During a Financial Crisis
On this episode of The Three Wisemen of Divorce, our experts tackle a difficult but important topic: divorce during a financial crisis. Drawing on their extensive experience working with clients during periods of economic upheaval, the Wisemen ...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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48:59
Navigating the Forensic Custody Evaluation
This week The Three Wisemen of Divorce sit down with forensic psychologist and family consultant in complex family law cases, Robert A. Simon, Ph.D. If you are involved in a divorce with kids, especiall...
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Season 4
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Episode 1
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50:18
"Should Old Acquaintance be forgot": Divorce and the New Year
With the New Year come new resolutions and plans for the upcoming year. But what if your New Year's resolution is to get a divorce? Believe it or not, January is known as "divorce season" in the family law business because so many p...
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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40:10
Surviving the First Holidays After Divorce
The first holidays after a divorce can be tough. We call it the "Year of Firsts." It's the first Christmas, Passover, Birthday, Fourth of July, and even Super Bowl Sunday while separated. Questions abound such as:H...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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34:34
Settlement Readiness
Sometimes a divorce case gets stuck because the professionals or the clients have not taken the time to prepare the case to be ready to settle. Impasse is sometimes nothing more than not having the facts or the emotions ready to find a so...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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29:55
The Most Dangerous Time of the Divorce
In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, M.A., MFT, CST, Psychotherapist; and
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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47:24
How to Tell the Kids About the Divorce (and How NOT to Tell the Kids!)
What should we tell the kids? How much information should we share? How do we have this conversation? In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultan...
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Season 2
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Episode 13
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33:57
"Why can't you be happy for me?": When straying spouses can't understand the pain they cause
We've seen it time and again in divorce cases. When adultery happens, sometimes the adulterer has no clue what kind of pain they are causing. It's almost like folks have blinders. While most states have "no-fault" divorce, the...
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Season 2
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Episode 12
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42:53
I can't believe you asked for that! Reacting to insulting proposals in divorce negotiations
Sometimes during a divorce mediation someone makes a proposal that is so off-base it is insulting. The temptation is to get angry, yell or even storm out of the room. But maybe there is a better approach. In this episode, Divo...
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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42:18
Divorce and Real Estate
The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss the strange COVID influenced real estate market and how it impacts the decisions people in their divorce. Wisemen, financial divorce advisor Mark Hill, CFP, C...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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29:44
Good Remarriage: How not to make the same mistakes you made in your last marriage.
So, you survived the process of divorcing your ex. Now you want to remarry. How do you avoid repeating same mistakes you made the first time around? In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. H...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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36:34
