Healing For Love
Healing for Love
A podcast for anyone who wants to heal their schemas, shift their patterns and grow into their most grounded, authentic self in love & life. Hosted by Dr Gemma Gladstone - dating & relationship coach, former clinical psychologist (25+ years), and Advanced Schema Therapists, Trainer/Supervisor. This podcast offers thoughtful, insight-rich episodes to help you understand your patterns, heal from past emotional wounds and start rewriting your Love Template.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in familiar dynamics like seeking approval, fearing abandonment, dating narcissists or losing yourself in relationships, you’re not alone. Healing for Love is a space for self-reflection, emotional insight and practical encouragement. Here, you’ll learn how to reconnect with your worth, trust your inner voice and build relationships that support who you truly are.
This is for the woman who’s ready to feel more secure, more whole and more herself - in love and in life.
Healing For Love
134. My Top 5 Dark Red Flags in Dating (Part 2)
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In Part 2 of this series, I continue unpacking the darker red flags that often show up early in dating – the ones that are easy to dismiss but costly to ignore.
These are not minor quirks. They are patterns that predict future control, manipulation, blame-shifting, entitlement and emotional instability.
In this episode, I explore:
- What I call “future mirroring” – a subtle form of love bombing designed to accelerate closeness
- The chronic victim stance and how trauma dumping can be used as manipulation
- Why repeated stories of being “wrongly accused” deserve careful attention
- Exaggerated reactions to frustration, shame or not getting their way
- How to recognise blame shifting early
- Why high chemistry without character is not compatibility
- How to strengthen your intuitive muscle and trust your internal data
If you’ve ever felt confused, slightly uneasy or pressured in early dating but talked yourself out of it – this episode is for you.
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