The Missing Piece

Aligning Your Outer World with Your Inner Self

September 07, 2023 Paul Lyngso
The Missing Piece
Aligning Your Outer World with Your Inner Self
Show Notes

Have you ever felt unseen and unnoticed? We all want to be seen and create a space in the world for ourselves. Our desire to be seen is authentic and isn't solely a matter of physique. It's about showcasing our capabilities, competing alongside our peers, and building connections. Human existence revolves around connections, and our quality of life is intertwined with our relationships with others. Building healthy connections starts with knowing who we are and who we want to become and matching our physical presence with our inner world. Remaining grounded in your true self is the compass guiding you through the narrative of your life. Knowing who you are and your values in life will liberate you from the urge to conform or blend in, and you no longer feel compelled to fit into situations that don't align with your authentic self.


In this episode, we discuss how to create an attractive cover and content for your life book to attract the right people to your path. We also explore the profound significance of self-awareness, understanding who you are at your core, the values that drive your existence, as well as tips and strategies for nurturing enduring connections and harmonizing your external world with the essence of your inner self. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and transformation as we uncover the keys to living a purposeful and fulfilling life.


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Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Attention and how we have been programmed to deny our desire to be seen

[02:55] Creating an attractive cover for your life and building connections with people

[05:54] Balancing your pursuit for an attractive cover with the content of your book 

[08:01] How to be magnetic and attract people who are going to value you

[09:08] Practical steps on how to create depth of character 

[12:08] Knowing who you are and creating a sense of belonging within yourself 

[13:16] Matching your physical presence with who you are on the inside

[16:33] Checking in with yourself and creating better content for your life’s book 

[18:32] Wrap-up and end of the show

Notable Quotes 

  • Getting noticed is not about physique; it’s about proving what you are capable of and being able to compete with your peers. - (01:02).
  • Human life is about connections; everything we do and the essence of our existence comes down to our connections with others. Being attractive and being able to bring the right people into your life is very important. - (03:12)
  • The quality of your connections with people will determine the quality of your life. - (07:47)
  • Staying in touch with who you are will go a long way to understanding the content of your book; once you know who you are, it’s easy to express who you are. - (10:31)
  • When you know who you are, you remove the desire to mold yourself into a situation and no longer have to fit in; once you know who you are, you are unwilling to change who you are to fit into a situation. - (12:08).