The Missing Piece

Style and Masculinity with Tanner Guzy

November 24, 2023 Paul Lyngso
The Missing Piece
Style and Masculinity with Tanner Guzy
Show Notes

Attaining true masculinity goes beyond just physical fitness. It involves harmonizing physical well-being with personal style through dressing. Clothing is not just functional attire but a medium for self-expression and communication. How you dress reflects your identity, values, and aspirations. By neglecting this aspect, you present an incomplete picture of yourself. Fathers and husbands should take pride in their appearance as role models, demonstrating respect and self-esteem, positively impacting their relationships and careers.

Join the conversation with your host, Paul Lyngso, as Tanner Guzy joins us for a candid conversation on style and masculinity. Tanner is a style and image consultant who empowers men to unlock their true potential by dressing well and projecting a confident, authentic image. He believes that in today's world, where first impressions matter more than ever, men must dress strategically to stand out and succeed in their business endeavors. Tanner's approach goes beyond simply picking out the right clothes; he helps men understand the psychology of style and how to use it to their advantage. His clients learn to dress in a way that reflects their unique personalities and aligns with their career goals, achieving a powerful and authentic presence that attracts opportunities and inspires others.


Key Highlights from the Show

[00:01] Introduction to the show with Tanner Guzy

[02:48] How Tanner has mastered appearance psychology

[06:18] Is there room for dignity and self-promotion to co-exist?

[08:32] Dressing as a way of sending the signals of who we are to the environment 

[11:25] Why judging people based on how they look is so true

[15:06] Understanding your fitness and styling sweet spot 

[25:10] How styling is a key ingredient to masculinity 

[36:23] Is it unmanly to care about how you look?

[42:01] Takeaways and why you should take your styling seriously as part of fitness

[48:57] Wrap-up and end of the show


Notable Quotes 

  • When people don’t see the congruence between the person, we advertise ourselves to be and who we really are, they believe us to be dishonest, untrustworthy, and lacking genuineness.- (00:54).
  • When you dress in an aesthetically good way and in a way that represents who you are, you feel better than you ever do in your cargo shorts and graphic t-shirts. -(03:55)
  • It does not entirely mean you should not judge someone by their appearance. Our dressing sends powerful signals of who we are to the environment. - (09:54)
  • Sometimes, we have so much psychological cowardice when we hide who we really are from the people who matter the most to us and, most importantly, how we see ourselves. (23:30)
  • Fathers and husbands have a greater obligation to dress well. - (25:20)
  • The skeleton key to life is discovering yourself and presenting that to the world. Once you project yourself to the world, the right people will catch your signals. - (41:36)



Resources Mentioned

The Appearance of Power: How Masculinity is Expressed Through Aesthetics by Tanner Guzy:  https://www.amazon.com/Appearance-Power-Masculinity-Expressed-Aesthetics/dp/1979138400


Let’s Connect

Tanner Guzy

Website: https://masculine-style.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanner-guzy-0b4a5221/

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