Not Defined By Motherhood, the Podcast
A grounded, honest, and empowering podcast for moms who are tired of the pressure, tired of the noise, and ready to find clarity. Host Melanie O’Reilly-Rogers helps mothers challenge expectations, reconnect with who they are, and take simple steps that create real change - because you are not defined by motherhood.
Not Defined By Motherhood, the Podcast
Not Everyone Is a Holiday Magic Maker (And That’s Okay)
The holidays aren’t exhausting because you’re doing them wrong - they’re exhausting because of the expectations stacked on you.
In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Jamie for an honest, funny, and deeply validating conversation about holiday overwhelm, being the so-called “magic maker,” and why not every family is built for packed calendars, forced traditions, or Pinterest-perfect moments.
We talk about:
- Why “traditions” can turn into pressure instead of joy
- How social media quietly convinces moms they’re falling short
- Choosing peace over performance - without guilt
- What it actually means to make holiday magic for your kids
- Letting go of things that drain you, even if “everyone else” does them
This episode is a permission slip to stop doing what you should do - and start doing what works for your family, your energy, and your nervous system.
If the holidays leave you overstimulated, resentful, or wondering why everyone else seems to enjoy them more than you do… you’re not broken. You’re just human.
Press play and take a breath.