All About Marriage - Let’s Talk About Sex and Intimacy

We’re closing out our All About Marriage series with a conversation that many couples avoid but desperately need: sex and intimacy.

In this episode, Teresa Haskins joins Larry Vincent to talk candidly about one of the most misunderstood areas of marriage. From common myths about sex drive to the emotional, biological, and relational factors that influence intimacy, this discussion brings clarity, compassion, and practical insight.

If intimacy has felt confusing, disappointing, or difficult in your marriage, you are not alone. This episode will help you reframe expectations, understand the deeper layers of connection, and begin healthier conversations with your spouse.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The biggest myths about sex in marriage
• Why intimacy struggles are rarely just a “low sex drive” issue
• The biological, psychological, and relational factors that impact desire
• The difference between using sex to gain connection versus sex flowing from connection
• What it means to experience body, mind, and spirit alignment in intimacy
• How unrealistic expectations sabotage fulfillment
• Why open, vulnerable conversation is the most important first step
• Encouragement for couples who feel stuck or discouraged

One powerful takeaway: healthy intimacy is not a performance or a formula. It is an overflow of safety, connection, alignment, and ongoing communication.

Resources Mentioned:

• The 40 Forms of Intimacy by Alex Avila
• Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
• Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

If this conversation resonates with you and your spouse, consider taking the next step. The therapists at Care to Change are here to help you move from frustration to connection in a safe and supportive environment.