The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.
Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 244: When Watchdogs are Volcanoes: Activation below the Surface
Is your child suddenly quiet… but you can feel something bubbling under the surface?
They aren’t yelling, running, or arguing like usual- but you can tell their system is still fired up and on high alert.
Today, we’re talking about that “quiet volcano” version of watchdog energy. It looks calm. Still. Almost possum-like.
But inside? Their nervous system is holding a TON of activation right under the surface.
In this episode, you’ll learn how to tell the difference between true shutdown and contained watchdog energy, why some kids start holding everything inside, and how to help that “stuck” activation soften and move in safe, co-regulated ways.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why watchdog energy can go quiet and look totally still, even though it’s NOT regulated
- How to figure out what’s really going on underneath the “calm” exterior
- What to do when your child is a volcano on the inside, including simple movement-based strategies that help the nervous system come back into rhythm and relational safety
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/volcanoes
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