The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.
Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 250: When Parenting Triggers your Own Trauma Part 1 of 6
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Content note: This episode discusses trauma, parenting stress, and nervous system overwhelm. There are no graphic details, but please take care while listening.
Parenting a child with a vulnerable nervous system can stir up your own trauma in ways that feel surprising, intense, and deeply unsettling. In this episode, we slow everything down and make sense of why this kind of parenting can feel so much harder when you have your own trauma history.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why parenting a dysregulated child uniquely activates trauma for caregivers
- How attachment, memory networks, and a narrowed window of tolerance collide in everyday parenting moments
- Why understanding your nervous system is just as important as understanding your child’s
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- When Parenting is Traumatic Ep 95
- Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Ep. 91 (implicit memory)
- Free Resource Hub
Read the full transcript at:RobynGobbel.com/whenparentingtriggersyourtrauma
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