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192. Our Favorite Naked Date Night Ideas That Won't (Or Shouldn't) Get You Arrested
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Ideas for Ultimate Intimacy in Relationships
Speaker 1You are listening to the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, where we discuss how to find ultimate intimacy in your relationship. We believe that, no matter how many years you've been married, you can achieve passion, romance, happiness and ultimate intimacy at any stage of your life. Join us as we talk to not only marriage experts, but couples just like yourself and people who are just flat out fun. The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast is for couples who have a good relationship but want to make it even better.
Speaker 2It's our top favorite naked date night. I did come at you on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast. Now, before we jump into these, use these at your own discretion. Like, if you get arrested or get ticketed or get caught, you can't come blame Nick and Amy with the Ultimate Intimacy app. Use your best discretion, we're not responsible for whatever you do. And so, before we dive into it, let's bring in the. Would you rather question?
Speaker 3I hope you guys are using these at night after us, sharing our ideas not our answers, but our ideas of the questions with your spouse at night. They're great connecting questions and.
Speaker 2Talking about the, would you rather?
Speaker 3Yeah, all the questions on the app, but I don't know. I feel like, would you rather, if you hear me and Nick were always like, well, go a little deeper with that. What does that actually mean?
Speaker 2And just it's awesome. Our conversations go a lot deeper than what you hear on the podcast. Sometimes we get talking for like 45 minutes, so we won't worry about that. So would you rather, babe, live in a big city with lots of things to do, or live in a small town or rural area with a lot less things to do?
Speaker 3Oh see, that's a hard question because I have deeper, I have more things to ask about that question.
Speaker 2Oh, all right, let's make it more complicated.
Speaker 3Would the excluded spot with less things to do be in next beach, or would it be up in the mountains or would it be in a desert?
Speaker 2I don't know. Exactly it didn't specify that.
Speaker 3I can't answer that.
Speaker 2Okay I would say well, I've been trying to get Amy to move to like a small Caribbean island. So I would say I would rather be in a rural, small town, away from people. And that's not because I don't like people, like I really like people, I like being around people, but I don't know, there's just something about like just being out in the wilderness or being out kind of away from things. And we I mean we live in a town, I should say a city. Our city is probably 130, 140,000 with the whole county, so it's not like we're in a real big city anyways, but it feels like it's getting too busy.
Speaker 3But see right there, you said in a Caribbean or a beach place.
Speaker 2I did yes.
Speaker 3Not in the middle of the desert, with nothing. Well, no, not in the middle.
Speaker 2No, yeah, Obviously. If you're saying, do you want to be in a wood hut with no toilet paper, no power and a hundred miles from the nearest person, then I would say no, I don't want to be there, I'm going to pick the city because I needed entertainment and you'd be okay just making it all day. Okay, this girl needs entertainment too. Right, you're totally right.
Speaker 3But if you could give me a whole bunch of dogs on a farm somewhere, then that actually might be my bigger choice. It depends how many dogs you're going to give me.
Speaker 2See, these questions just drive a deeper and deeper and deeper conversation. That just keep going and spreading out.
Speaker 3They don't want to hear about this. They want to hear about naked date ideas.
Speaker 2I want to hear about naked date ideas.
Speaker 3We did a post. You might have already saw it. It got like a million hits. People loved it. That's why we're doing this podcast, and now we want to go into them with a little bit deeper, deeper conversation. You want me to start us. Start us out babe Start us out If you haven't done naked stargazing in your backyard. As long as you have a fence and it's private, what are you?
Speaker 1thinking yes.
Speaker 3Lay a blanket outside, cuddle naked, take some treats, talk snuggle.
Speaker 2And, honestly, if it's cold outside, no one's going to care if you're naked. They're not going to see anything if you're a man. So I mean, preferably take some blankets or something out there. But yeah, if it's a cold night, there's really no indecent exposure for your husband's.
Speaker 3I'm not really doing the cold thing, so that's only going to happen if it's nice outside for me, yeah.
Speaker 2Lay a blanket, a trampoline, like we haven't really been able to do this because we got kids.
Speaker 3And neighbors.
Speaker 2And neighbors looking down on us windows from all sorts we got great yard, but we got windows, so that's not, but that's why.
Speaker 3I said naked date night ideas, it doesn't mean like we've done them all no, and these are our favorite Wait wait, wait, we have done this. When we first got married, we went camping. We put a mattress in the back of your truck and we, naked, stargazed all night long. Oh, you're right, we did. We have totally done this. It's just been 20 years.
Speaker 2You've got stars in your eyes that I was looking at. Yes, it's just been a long time, and these also include things that, even if we haven't done that, we want to do that are on the bucket list Bucket list, make a bucket list.
Speaker 3You go, use the app.
Speaker 2Yes.
Speaker 3Yes, okay. The next one is I don't know if you would like this one. We haven't done this one. This is on my list.
Speaker 2This is on your list.
Speaker 3Well, the candlelight part is Okay. What about the naked one? Naked part Candlelight dinner Okay, in the nude. Now I don't want to cook naked. Yeah, I was gonna say like to do that. That's kind of weird to me. I I Just like some clothes on.
Speaker 2I was just gonna say use a hair net, and I'm not talking about your head, that's cuz you know. I'm just saying be real. Like we're giving people ideas like if you're gonna cook dinner naked, like let's at least prepare it like sanitary.
Speaker 3I Just don't know how many women out there. I Really enjoy the male nakedness. I'm just being honest.
Speaker 2Yeah, that's true, it'd probably be, see, if you put on some boxer shorts, so we like the top off and if you were, if you're a guy and you're your wife's naked and you're trying to pay attention, cooking, okay, well, your wife's naked, you're probably gonna have some sort of kitchen fire or accident. And don't certainly don't be cooking anything that's like deep-fried or in grease.
Speaker 3I think we kind of got off the candle lit part the pun of that. Okay, maybe do take out that night. Okay, I take out night candlelight Naked dinner is kind of more where we're going with that Next one a hot, romantic, erotic bubble bath for two.
Speaker 2Oh, you're speaking my language, sweetie, you like this one? We do this one often.
Speaker 3I do this one is going to include bubble bath, soft music, maybe candles, intimate Game on the phone or conversations for a few minutes or just a nice wash down in the tub. I mean, I guess you could take this to the shower if you don't have a bathtub. But we're just talking about and maybe this is a name in a date night. Maybe you do this all the time, but if you don't, this could be a real romantic date night. You could spend hours in the bathtub. You just might have to keep going. Hot water.
Speaker 2Yeah, for sure, no, I I love that. That's one of my favorites.
Speaker 3It doesn't mean that you have to make love in the tub.
Speaker 2You literally just you get to, you don't have to sorry, I meant get to yeah, you don't have to do it.
Speaker 3Yeah, get to. You can just really connect for it for a while before you do.
Speaker 2Oh yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3The next one is for all of you talented people out there, or non-talented it's romantic naked Art night, which means I've asked you to paint me naked several times.
Speaker 2You won't do it and you are an artist.
Speaker 3Oh, I went off that one yeah.
Speaker 2Amy is a very good artist. I don't do people?
Creative Ideas for Intimate Couple Activities
Speaker 3Mm-hmm, I don't do people. I can make you abstract, I can make it look like something you don't do people or you don't paint people. I don't paint people.
Speaker 2Okay, amy is a very, very good artist and I know that she could paint a beautiful picture of me to hang up above our fireplace. That would be kind of like if you've seen Seinfeld, kind of like the Kramer picture, but oh my gosh.
Speaker 3No, I'm not sure how many of you would want to hang it up, but what I can say is that for a man, it would be really fun to have his wife just lay there Posing for an hour while the husband paints her. I don't know about the other way around. I don't know, maybe some woman would like to do that.
Speaker 2I would love to paint naked, but my skills, like you, would be like really, that's what I look like. Be like. No, that's not what you look like.
Speaker 3Okay, well, we're gonna. Okay, well, this one's gonna go along with the painting. And if you don't want to paint on a canvas of your spouse's body, you just paint your spouse's body. How about that?
Speaker 2I. We have never done that we've never done that one.
Speaker 3That sounds kind of sensual.
Speaker 2I like it. When are we gonna do it?
Speaker 3paint brush going down your body, you could paint. You could paint him in chocolate.
Speaker 2Well, I like it.
Speaker 3You could paint him in chocolate, which leads. I'm blushing already which leads to the next one, which is blind folded taste testing.
Speaker 2Hmm, naked, naked, naked, taste test naked taste testing.
Speaker 3So we're talking dessert treats chocolate, chocolate syrup, whipped cream.
Speaker 2I like it.
Speaker 3Oh, it's sensual.
Speaker 2I like it yeah.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 2I'm down with that. Yeah, Um miss massage night. Naked massage night.
Speaker 3We do not like.
Speaker 2I know, I was just gonna say that's one of my favorite things for us, but Well, if you're, if you're a guy and your love language is physical touch, being able to massage your wife naked for 45 minutes Like what could be better.
Speaker 3I don't know wife that wouldn't want that. I really don't. If your wife that doesn't like massages, please tell me why, cuz I don't get it.
Speaker 2So we do naked massage nights a couple times a week.
Speaker 3That's not really a date night to us, but that, if you've never done it, that's a great date night. But you gotta like really set the mood right If you're like Nick and you like your strobe light candle, which I hate.
Speaker 2It's not a strobe light, it's just a candle. It feels like a strobe light Because it flickers.
Speaker 3It has three wicks and it's really bright and it's like flick, flick, flick.
Speaker 2Oh, it's so romantic. But because it flickers Amy's like turn that thing off.
Speaker 3It drives me nuts. I'm like babe, I can't.
Speaker 2I can't see you. I can't see the rubbing the oil on your back.
Speaker 3I don't Maybe a one light wick.
Speaker 2We could try that.
Speaker 3Yeah, maybe that would be so strobe, lightish, anyways, set the mood dark light. However, you want Some good massage oils, some soft music maybe I like it Just talking.
Speaker 2I like it. I like it.
Speaker 3Massage nights a must. I like indoor picnic, which is kind of like a candlelight dinner, but maybe not quite so erotic.
Speaker 2What would you have on an indoor picnic? I?
Speaker 3was thinking more like setting up like a really romantic blanket on the and you could do it outside if you have the right spot, Like maybe this is up in the woods or somewhere like totally secluded, It'd be way better outside. But just like a picnic naked, picnic picnic basket, bring in food, sit on a blanket, just the talking. I don't know, I think it's romantic.
Speaker 2I guess I've seen pictures of like Seen pictures of naked pic.
Speaker 3No, no, no, not naked date, no, sorry. Like pictures of, like people making these really cool settings, like up in the mountains or in the hills, of like picnics and food and happy people, and so just take that picture and, like, make a naked.
Speaker 2Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 3Sorry, gotta clarify that. Next one is the favorite.
Speaker 2Oh, naked movie night.
Speaker 3We did an entire podcast on that.
Speaker 2We could talk for hours about the benefits of naked movie night.
Speaker 3Could we?
Speaker 2Absolutely. There's only one non-benefit. What is the non-benefit If?
Speaker 3your wife. If you're into the movie, if you're into the movie, Like sometimes he'll throw on the best freaking movie and he like wants to shut off halfway through and I'm like are you serious?
Speaker 2She's like, she's not even. She doesn't even know I'm naked. She doesn't even know I'm rubbing her legs.
Speaker 3She's been touching me for an hour.
Speaker 2She doesn't even know what's going on, because the movie's happening.
Speaker 3Well, don't turn on a really good movie, then Maybe it's a crappy one. You're going to fall asleep in, so you're like, oh, I'd rather touch you. Maybe that needs to.
Speaker 2Well, the experience for naked movie night is all about the movie. It's the one time that you don't want to pick a great movie. You kind of want to pick like a C or a C plus movie.
Speaker 3But or you could just have the four play last the entire hour and a half.
Speaker 2Well, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3Well, you could pick a really good movie, but you just have to know, as a man, that you have got to just chill it for a little while.
Speaker 2That's true, right, that's true.
Speaker 3So you can go to the movie night to another step and go park somewhere, watch a movie on your phone or iPad or in your car. If you have a little TV in your car I don't know, I don't have one of those but go take it up in the mountains, create a really fun atmosphere in your vehicle.
Speaker 2Naked movie night in a car.
Speaker 3Naked movie night in a car. I love it Like drive in. How fun would that be. That would be Bucket list.
Speaker 2Bucket list Put it on the bucket list.
Speaker 3Bucket list.
Ideas for Intimate Date Nights
Speaker 2Okay, all right, so we're going to do a lot before we do. If you haven't done a naked movie night like, you are missing out. You got a big smile, you're laughing.
Speaker 3You got to keep these like every once in a while because we figured out naked movie night like five years ago and now with like every Friday night. Do you want to do naked movie night? No, it's supposed to be special, not every single week.
Speaker 2It is special For a guy naked movie night like I don't even need to say much.
Speaker 3Sometimes a girl just wants to watch a movie though, so it has to not be all the time. You can't just turn every movie night into naked movie night.
Speaker 2That's why you go to the movies once or twice a year.
Speaker 3Okay.
Speaker 2All right Dance party If you got dance moves, like me. There's nothing good about a dance party going on naked.
Speaker 3Dance party naked dance party. A lot of people would enjoy that.
Speaker 2Actually, if you're talking like slow dancing and like holding each, other.
Speaker 3What were you picturing? Hip hop.
Speaker 2Yeah, I thought you were like, you know, Snoop Dogg or something.
Speaker 3Oh, you were like pole dancing.
Speaker 2No, I would do pole dancing for you as well.
Speaker 3I don't want to see that, but I would do it Okay thanks, I would twirl on the pole he's willing, he's willing.
Speaker 2But when you say a dance party, when I think dance, I think oh, something romantic, like dancing with my wife naked, like slow dancing.
Speaker 3That's what it's talking about.
Speaker 2Okay, dance party. How do we clarify that? Because I'm probably not the only guy that would think my girl wants to put on like something crazy and be just thrown down. A dance party.
Speaker 3For all of you people that are really amazing dancers. That would be super awesome, but we're not so, and Nick won't take ballroom dancing classes with me, even though I've died for 21 years. So dance parties out for us.
Speaker 2Okay, all right. All right, I guess Skinny dipping.
Speaker 3Okay, skinny dipping.
Speaker 2You know, obviously Maybe in your own pool, maybe in your own pool In your own pool, your own hot tub. Preferably pick something where the water is warmer.
Speaker 3Preferably not your neighbor's pool, you know, or light at the hotel or somewhere that you're gonna get caught.
Speaker 2Don't do what Amy did to me, where she wanted me to bear it all in a hotel pool.
Speaker 3They already heard the story. There was nobody around anywhere. Nobody in sight.
Speaker 2I know You're in a town of like 200 people. Well, could have been an animal or something that keeps her down. Nick is uh, yeah, stage fright, anyways, hey, you guys are all laughing and saying why would Nick ever turn down skinny dipping with his wife in a pool? You get in that situation in a public pool and let's see if you're taking it all off.
Speaker 3Yeah, okay, okay. Hopefully we get some emails from this post or podcast. Yeah.
Speaker 2Yeah, we will Photography session. Now, do we get filters on the phone Like, do I get a?
Speaker 3filter.
Speaker 2Yeah, you need a filter. For my body If we're doing a photography session.
Speaker 3Why do you need a filter?
Speaker 2I don't know, just to Like a six pack filter. Yeah, Like to throw a six pack on me, just make me skinnier Hair filter.
Speaker 3You would want your hair fixed, that's the only thing you ever complain about.
Speaker 2Yeah, throw a thick head of hair on me.
Speaker 3Nick's full of it. He's got high self-esteem. Anyways, amy, already did a.
Speaker 2Amy sent me a photo of her.
Speaker 3Okay, that's enough, yeah that's enough, I had stuff on. It wasn't naked. I don't do naked pictures.
Speaker 2No she didn't do a naked. I've never done a naked picture in my life and I never will. So there goes the, there goes the naked photography session.
Speaker 3I just don't know if I I don't trust phones.
Speaker 2It's cool, it's cool.
Speaker 3I don't. These are date night ideas. I'm not saying that we've done them or we push any of these. These are just ideas I would love to do, like a photography sexy session. I would be fine with that, but I don't trust phones and no one else has taken it, so I don't know how to work that.
Speaker 2Honestly, when she sent me a photo of her in her lingerie, my work the next day was about zero 10% capacity, so it absolutely ruined my whole work day. Not in a, it ruined my work day. I love the photo, but my ability to get things done greatly diminished, so I had to delete it from my phone.
Speaker 3I can't believe you did that. I had to. That was like 20 years ago, when I had an awesome body.
Speaker 2You still have an awesome body. What are you talking about?
Speaker 3It's awesome, but and he didn't save that and he's never gonna get it again, so that sucks.
Speaker 2I honestly it was one of those things I couldn't save because I couldn't get anything done. Like my mind, I just wanted to stare at that picture all day long.
Speaker 3Okay, so I have sent a picture in lingerie. Nick loved it. If you've ever done that, ladies probably make your husband's day, but I don't. I don't know how I feel about. You can use the app because it's a safe place. Like we've said, the intimate chat is very safe.
Speaker 2It's all encrypted and decrypted. It's all encrypted and decrypted. No one but the two of you with the code can see it.
Speaker 3Nobody can see it. Thank goodness for that, but I guess that would be I still. You still have to take it on your phone to get it onto the app, so I still don't want it up on my phone. That's my thing, but there's a lot of people that love doing photography sessions with each other and I'm totally for that.
Speaker 2Like whatever you feel comfortable with, I'm not saying it's not good, I'm just saying whatever you feel comfortable with.
Speaker 3I think it's a great. I think it's a fun idea. I think you could have a lot of fun with that together.
Speaker 2For sure, Don't you think? Absolutely. I would love Like.
Speaker 3I would probably be down with that if I had like an old school camera where I could develop my own film, right. Like I don't know, I just got weird security things, like I don't trust phones, anyways.
Speaker 2And I'm like I don't care if someone sees my body. If you want to sneak a peek at my body, that's fine, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 3You got a great body, babe, great body. A naked spa night as a couple.
Speaker 2I would like that.
Speaker 3Um well, what kind of treatment, like what kind of spa treatments, would a man want?
Speaker 2Because, I don't, because like a woman.
Speaker 3It's like oh, I would love to go get a facial or a foot massage or all that kind of stuff done. But like what do you guys like? Like what would that mean to you Be saying? I mean you would just think of massage right.
Speaker 2You could get, you could wax.
Speaker 3Oh dear.
Speaker 2No, I'm just teasing. I don't know, I've never thought of that. Actually, I'm kind of put on spot. A spa day Just, I guess, just being naked with you, that doesn't really matter.
Speaker 3Next, like I, don't care what part you touch, what you put on me, I don't care, I'm in for it.
Speaker 2You want to make me a hairless person. You want to just de-hair me. Whatever you you know.
Speaker 3All right, moving to the next one, you can use your imagination. On naked spa day I already did sensual dessert tasting Erotic truth or dare.
Speaker 2I like that.
Speaker 3That one's a given. I like that we designed that on the app for a reason right emotionally connecting and sexually connecting.
Naked Activities and Relationship Excitement
Speaker 2Yeah, love that love that. This next one, like, would be one of my favorites probably.
Speaker 3What's this next one?
Speaker 2Um hot tub or sauna.
Speaker 3Well, that's like naked skinny dipping.
Speaker 2Well, yeah, but I would love to be naked with you in the sauna.
Speaker 3Maybe that'd be hot and sweaty.
Speaker 2Well, yeah, who cares? I mean that's men don't care about that. They want to see their wife hot and sweaty.
Speaker 3Okay, that's sexy.
Speaker 2Plus every you know when you say let's get it hot in here, like let's heat it up, you're already in the sauna, like can heat it up even more.
Speaker 3It's already hot, it started hot, it started hot.
Speaker 2It started hot. It's just gonna get hotter.
Speaker 3Okay, I have to end on our favorite one from 21 years ago, from the day we got married. Do you know what I'm gonna say? Um no, I don't.
Speaker 2From the day we got married 21 years ago. What did we do the day we got married?
Speaker 3Not the day we got married, but I'm just saying we've been doing this for 21 years.
Speaker 2Oh, we've been doing it for 21 years.
Speaker 3We've been doing this date night for 21, not like 21 years straight, I'm just saying sporadically for 21 years.
Speaker 2Oh, absolutely like game night. Yes, game night, yeah where we where we bet and we play games and the winner gets something.
Speaker 3Okay so we're talking like naked board game, naked card game, naked video game, like you can run your imagination wild with this one right.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 3So we used to play we probably shared this already. We used to play rum a cube together, and I mean you can even make it like strip game night, like you lose, you take off a layer or you lose, you know what I mean and then we would always have whoever wins the game, picks the position or picks a massage, you have some kind of like awesome price at the end. Right, yes, yes, yes, I love that.
Speaker 2Naked game night is just about equal with the naked movie night.
Speaker 3Is it?
Speaker 2Oh, it's right up there, yeah yeah but we have kids now, so we can't.
Speaker 3You can play naked games in your bedroom. There's no excuse for having kids. Okay, shut the door. There's no excuse.
Speaker 2We should be playing naked game night in our room and and the ultimate intimacy app falls under naked game night.
Speaker 3Well, the reason we created the app was to put games for couples, because couples won't get off their stupid phones, right? So if you're not going to go pick up a board game or a card game or a video game because you're like I need to stare and scroll on my phone, then at least use the ultimate intimacy game.
Speaker 2I guess, yeah so if there are things we're missing on this list, like you know, if you're saying, oh, you should do naked horseback riding, oh gosh, or I mean I'm not saying I would want to do that, but like you know if I don't know.
Speaker 3No, that is.
Speaker 2It'd be itchy, it'd be very itchy.
Speaker 3Naked hiking. Naked hiking yeah, but now you get bit by mosquitoes or somebody would see you.
Speaker 2Yeah, we just we don't want to do things. We didn't throw anything out. That's like going to get you arrested and you can come back and say, hey, we got these ideas from Naked Amy on the ultimate intimacy podcast and then all of a sudden you know we're getting in trouble Again. Use your discretion. Don't do anything silly or crazy.
Speaker 3I can't believe we even have to throw that out there, but we probably do in this stage.
Speaker 2Yeah you probably do, probably do.
Speaker 3Be smart, but have fun with each other. The entire point of this podcast is that marriage gets boring if you let it, and it's not supposed to be like I don't care if Nick's almost 50. Well, I just don't.
Speaker 2Not almost 50, I'm 47.
Speaker 3He's got a couple years.
Speaker 2Yeah, almost would be like if I was a couple months away from 50.
Speaker 340 men and a half. Yeah, exactly, I just thought you like rounded up.
Speaker 1Oh.
Speaker 3Nick could be on the senior tour soon, so I'm just thinking like 50 in my mind. Yeah, yeah. So no matter what your age, if you feel like you're old and married and boring your relationship stale, you have no excitement. This entire bucket list was for you, yeah try just a couple of them.
Speaker 2I'm telling you like even just a couple of them are going to make things fun and exciting and you know, you might drive your wife crazy, because every week I'm like naked movie night tonight.
Speaker 3Naked movie night tonight, it's true, it's true. So maybe, like, twice a month wouldn't be too much, you think? I think it's fine to do one of these once a week, maybe just switch it up, though, so it's not always the same thing, because I like variety.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 3Sometimes for dates.
Speaker 2So for sure.
Speaker 3Anyways, variety and fun.
Speaker 2So let us know what you think, let us know if we missed anything on the list, go ahead and email us at ultimateintimacycom and anything else before we close out this podcast.
Speaker 3Actually, yes, I would like to say thank you for all of you that downloaded and supported our challenge this month. It was the sexy September or after September it will be called the room relationship recharge challenge, because it really is a recharge for the sparks in your marriage, like we're trying to help you have an easier plan to create that Intention and effort back into your marriage. And so if you didn't already hear the bonus episode on that, go back a few episodes. You can start the challenge at any time. It's literally a laid well it's customizable, but a laid-out plan for you to just be more intentional, intentional For 30 days in your marriage.
Speaker 2Mm-hmm. And kind of covers all the areas of intimacy and, like you said, if you missed it for September you can do it anytime.
Speaker 3It doesn't have to be September, anytime you want on any day of the month, any month that you want to, but you just download it. You can pick or choose whatever activity works with your schedule that day. There's plenty of variety. There's romance, there's sexual intimacy, emotional connection all different things. There's some initiating cards. So if you didn't get a chance to grab that challenge, grab it.
Speaker 3You can find it on the app right under coupon's and intervals, but also find it in the shop for really cheap, because we wanted everybody to have it and and I'm initiating more- you are, you've been, amazing. I'm initiating more. I'm doing better with that. You're super romantic.
Speaker 2Haven't you seen how big of a smile I always have on my face?
Speaker 3Oh, I haven't seen a difference, but you already had one you haven't cool oh.
Speaker 2Okay, well, I'm always smiling. I'm like the happiest guy in the world.
Speaker 3Yeah, he's pretty well taken care of so.
Speaker 2Amy, amy's amazing.
Speaker 3But yes, if you need a little jumpstart in your relationship, go check it out. That's all I have to say.
Speaker 2All right, well, until we See each other next time. We hope you find ultimate intimacy in your relationship.