The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
508 episodes
505. A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her
What happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the marriage but still feels unwanted, unimportant, and completely alone?In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with marriage therap...
504. Female Pleasure and Orgasm: 15 Things Every Couple Should Know?
Why do some wives struggle to enjoy sex or experience orgasm? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy share 15 important facts about female orgasm and explore the physical, emotional, hormonal, and relational factors that...
503. Part 2 To Episode 501 - How Men Can Harness And Manage Their Strong Sex Drive And How Women Can Awaken Theirs - With Austin
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy continue their discussion from episode 501 with Austin, and discuss one of the most common dynamics in marriage: different levels and patterns of sexual desire.For many husba...
502. He Wants Sex To Feel Connected. She Wants Connection To Want Sex. Why we view it so differently...
Why do two people who deeply love each other sometimes struggle so much in the bedroom?This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the biggest sources of frustration in marriage: men and women ofte...
501. Why Do So Many Issues in Marriage Correlate With Sex, Or The Lack Thereof? Part ONE - With Austin
Why does sexual intimacy seem to be connected to so many other areas of marriage?When couples are struggling with communication, resentment, emotional disconnection, trust, affection, stress, or feeling unappreciated, their sex life ofte...
500. Why Feeling Pressured For Sex Is A Desire Killer For Wives (And How To Fix It)
Why Feeling Pressured for Sex Is a Turn-Off for WivesWhat if the very thing you're doing to get more sex is actually the thing making your spouse want less sex?This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy tackle a topi...
499. Why Does the Pursuit Stop After Marriage? with Therapist Austin
Why do we put so much effort into winning our spouse’s heart while dating, only to slowly stop doing those same things once we’re married?In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with marriage therapist Aus...
498. Does More Respect Equal Better Sex In Marriage?
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the critical connection between mutual respect and sexual intimacy in marriage. While it is common for husbands to seek greater physical connection and wives to crave emot...
497. Want to Feel Closer, More Connected & More Desired? Start Here - With Therapist Austin
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick & Amy sit down with therapist Austin to unpack Stephen Covey’s classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—but with a marriage twist!We take all ...
496. Why The Best Sexual Intimacy Might Start With This Weekly Marriage Meeting
What if 20 simple questions could help you reconnect, reduce resentment, improve communication, strengthen emotional intimacy, and even improve your sex life?In this fun, relaxed Tuesday episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with N...
495. The Respect Your Marriage Is Missing (And You May Not Even Realize It) - With Therapist Austin
What does respect really look like in marriage? It’s so much more than simply being polite or avoiding arguments. Respect is shown in the way we speak to our spouse, the way we respond when we disagree, the way we treat them when we’re frustrat...
494. Is This OK? The Marriage Bed Questions Couples Are Asking... And Our Honest Answers
Sex can be one of the most powerful ways a husband and wife connect. When intimacy is approached in a healthy way, it can deepen emotional connection, build trust, increase affection, and strengthen your marriage in incredible ways.But t...
493. The #1 Marriage Mistake: If You Want Healthy, Happy Kids Stop Putting Them Before Your Spouse - Therapist Austin Interview
Should Your Spouse Really Come First?It's one of the most controversial messages we share, and every time we talk about it, the comments explode.Should your spouse come before your children? Before your career? Before your ...
492. Answering The Most Common Questions People Ask About Us - Some Of Them Might Surprise You
Get to know Nick & Amy like never before!In this fun, honest, and personal episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're pulling back the curtain and answering some of the questions we get asked most often about our o...
491. Are You Having Sex, But Still Feel Lonely, Disconnected And Unseen? - With Austin
Have you ever felt like something is missing in your marriage, but you just can't put your finger on it? Maybe your communication isn't terrible, your intimacy isn't nonexistent, and you still love each other... yet something feels off.W...
490. The Myths About Sex That Keep You From Having The Intimate Life You Desire
Most couples never realize they've been believing lies about sex for years.They compare their marriage to Hollywood, social media, or unrealistic expectations and then wonder why intimacy feels disappointing, frustrating, or disconnected...
489. EVERYTHING In Your Marriage Comes Down To Your Spouse Feeling Safe With You - But What Does That Even Look Like? - With Austin
In episode 433 with Austin Ellis, we talked about how a man can be a better husband and father and discussed safety in marriage. If your wife doesn't feel safe in your marriage, nothing else really matters. She needs to feel safe sexually, safe...
488. 11 Things Every Wife Should Know (Survey answers from the husbands)
A few weeks ago, we did a podcast titled: 11 Things Every Husband Should Know (But Somehow Missed The Memo). Now it's time for the flip side. In this fun and honest episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy reveal 11...
487. Why Do We Keep Having The Same Fights And Issues Over And Over Again? How Can We Actually Change? - With Austin
Many couples tell us, and we’ve seen it in our own marriage too, that they keep running into the same arguments over and over again. Even after trying counseling, things might improve for a short time… but before long, they slip right back into...
486. How To Become An Expert At Having Intimate Conversations - For A Better Intimate Life
For most couple's, talking about sex is a very difficult thing to do. It often times turns into an argument and can cause even more of a disconnect in the relationship. If you are one of these couples, you are not alone and will see from our po...
485. The Hidden Marriage Killer: Obligatory Sex - With Austin Part 2
In this powerful follow-up episode, we continue our conversation with therapist Austin about one of the most misunderstood topics in marriage: obligatory sex. If you haven't listened to Part 1 (Episode 483), we highly recommend starting there f...
484. 11 Golden Marriage Rules For A Passionate and Healthy Marriage Relationship
We are getting close to 500 episodes of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, and after all this time, we’ve talked about almost every marriage topic imaginable — communication, connection, intimacy, conflict, trust, romance, and everything in ...
483. The Hidden Marriage Killer: Obligatory Sex - With Austin Part 1
Obligatory sex is when one spouse engages in sexual activity not because they feel desire, but because they feel pressured, obligated, or afraid of disappointing their spouse. We hear this all the time where the lower desire spouse ...
482. 11 Things Every Husband Should Know (But Somehow Missed the Memo)
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy explore the 10 things wives wish their husbands truly understood. Drawing from conversations with thousands of women, personal experiences, and years of helping couples stren...
481. What Does It Mean To Be United And "One" In Marriage - With LMFT Austin
If you're a regular listener of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, you've probably heard Austin talk about the importance of becoming "one" in marriage. But what does that really mean, and why is it so important for creating a thriving relationship...