The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Episodes
466 episodes
463. Husbands! 94% Of The Wives In Our Poll Said They Need this Intimacy Need To Come Before Sexual Intimacy - Understanding Why With Austin
We often talk about the important of both emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy and how they go hand in hand. But which comes first? For many men, they need the physical connection to become more emotionally connected to their wife. And for mo...
462. We Asked 3000 Husbands & Wives What They Wished For More Of In Marriage? Survey Answers
In this episode, Nick and Amy dive into a simple but powerful question: are couples wishing more for a better marriage instead of actually doing the things that build one? After surveying married couples, the answers revealed something surprisi...
461. Marriage Superpowers: "Her Initiating & Him Saying "I've Got It!" WHY These Two Things Change Marriage With Expert Austin
In superhero movies, every hero has something unique that makes them powerful, but they do not discover their strength alone and they do not use it randomly. They learn what their power is, how it works, and how it impacts the people they are t...
460. Is That Dang "Mental Load" Killing Your Intimate Life? We Talk BOTH Sides!
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into a topic that many couples really struggle with in their marriage, but don't know how to handle... the mental load in marriage. Often invisible and rarely discussed openly,...
459. Why Couples End Up In Sexless Marriages (and how to fix it) - With Austin Ellis (LMFT)
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with Austin Ellis, a renowned sex therapist who has helped thousands of couples, to tackle a topic many avoid: the sexless marriage.Many listene...
458. Why Is My Marriage So Much Different From When We First Got Married? - Is This Normal?
Many couples ask us this question: Why doesn’t my marriage feel like it did in the beginning?The truth is, just like each year, our marriage has different seasons where intimacy can feel different. Passion can ebb. Connection so...
457. When To Seek Marriage Therapy - And What Actually Happens In A Therapy Session? - With Austin Ellis LMFT
So many couples see therapy as a last ditch effort and something you turn to when everything is already broken. But think about it… we invest in coaches to improve our golf game, mechanics to keep our cars running smoothly so why do we hesitate...
456. You Want A Better Intimate Life, But Your Spouse Won't Talk About It - What Do You Do?
One of the most common messages we hear from our audience is something like this: “I want a better intimate life… but my spouse wont talk about it and I don't know what to do.”For some, the conversation feels too risky, what if ...
455. Deeper Spirituality Can Create Deeper Sexuality In Your Marriage - With Austin Ellis LMFT
What if the secret to deeper, more passionate intimacy in your marriage isn’t just about technique, but the spiritual connection in your marriage?In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy welcome back Austi...
454. It's OK To Say No To Intimate Time In Marriage - It's How You Do It
What if saying no to sex could actually bring you closer together?In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy challenge a common belief about marriage and reveal why the ability to say no without guilt, fear, or tensio...
453. When Duty Sex Replaces Desire, Addressing A Listeners Question- With Expert Austin LMFT
What happens when intimacy starts to feel like just another item on the to-do list?We recently heard from a listener who opened up about a struggle so many couples quietly face. After a difficult conversation with her husband about sex.....
452. Emotional & Sexual Foreplay Ideas For Your Marriage: Why BOTH Are So Important!
In this engaging episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast with Nick and Amy, the conversation focuses on the importance of both emotional foreplay and sexual foreplay in building a strong, intimate marriage. Nick and Amy break down how intimacy...
451. Emotional & Sexual Intimacy Go Hand In Hand Part 2 - With Expert Austin Ellis
In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy are again joined by therapist Austin Ellis to discuss part 2 of the previous podcast 449: Emotional and sexual intimacy go hand in hand. They discuss why so man...
450. Rejection: 5 Habits That Create A Marriage Where Intimacy Is Wanted, NOT Avoided.
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the sensitive but important topic of rejection in marriage and how emotional connection directly impacts intimacy. They share practical, real-life insights on how couples ...
449. Emotional & Sexual Intimacy Go Hand In Hand: Sex Is Actually More Emotional - With Expert Austin Ellis
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy are joined by Austin Ellis to talk about how emotional and sexual intimacy are deeply connected in marriage. They discuss how feeling emotionally safe, valued, and understood often ...
448. 10 AMAZING Facts You Probably Didn't Know About Orgasms: No More "I Have A Headache" Excuses
In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive deep into one of the most natural yet misunderstood aspects of human health and pleasure — orgasms. Beyond the obvious enjoyment factor, orgasms offer a ...
447. How To Move Forward When You’re Stuck In Conflict — Lessons From A Listener’s Experience
We had a listener write in and share this experience. She and her husband have four kids and a great marriage. They’ve both decided they don’t want any more children. The challenge is that she feels a lot of anxiety around intimacy because she’...
446: The 6 Types Of PASSION You Need In Your Marriage!
The grass is not greener in someone else’s marriage. It is green where you water it. We have learned that firsthand. There have been seasons where our marriage felt easy, connected, and full and other seasons where things felt off, not because ...
445. You Don’t Have Multiple Priorities In Marriage, You Have One... And It Should Be Each Other
What if the key to transforming your marriage isn’t more time, but clearer priorities?In this episode, Nick and Amy are joined by therapist Austin to discuss one foundational truth: your marriage should be your priority. Not work....
444. Are You Just "Too Tired" For Your Marriage?
Is it just us… or is everyone exhausted?In this honest and relatable episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy tackle a question so many couples are asking: Are we too tired for our marriage?Between ...
443. Too Late to Set Boundaries in Your Marriage? Why Boundaries Show Love With Expert Austin
It’s easy to think love in marriage is only shown through romance, gifts, or intimacy. But one of the most powerful ways to show love to your spouse is through healthy boundaries. Boundaries aren’t about control, distance, or keeping your spous...
442. Nobody Ever Teaches You How To Be Married - So Give Your Spouse & Marriage Some Grace
Nobody ever really teaches us how to be married. Most of us walk into marriage full of love and hope, but with very little understanding of what we’re actually stepping into. We come from different families, different upbringings, and different...
441. The Unexpected Side Of Marriage - The Things We Didn't Realize When We Got Married
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we take a fun and honest look at the unexpected side of marriage and the things no one really prepares you for. From those moments when Nick asks, “What’s wrong, sweetie?” and Amy answers...
440. Stop Wingin’ It: This ONE weekly thing will be a game changer for your intimate life!
What if one simple weekly habit could transform your marriage? It certainly has for us!In this important episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we (Nick and Amy) dive into the power of the weekly marriage meeting, and why thriv...
439. HELP! How Can I Forgive My Spouse After There Has Been Betrayal? Can We Truly Recover? - With Austin Ellis LMFT
We recently received a heartfelt message from a listener whose spouse had an affair. They shared a question many couples face after betrayal: Is it truly possible to forgive? While their spouse has expressed deep remorse and appears si...