243. When You Are the Bottleneck: Overcoming Resistance in Your Consulting Business

Most independent consultants think their business bottlenecks come from systems, tools, or strategy.

But the real bottleneck is often you, and specifically, how you respond to resistance.

In this episode, you’ll learn why resistance shows up, how it slows your growth, and a simple plan to move through it so you can scale faster and with less friction.

Whether it’s overthinking a new offer, delaying a move into advisory work, or hesitating to raise your pricing, that internal friction isn’t a fixed limitation or missing trait. It’s a signal that you’re ready to move beyond your current comfort zone.

Melisa shares a practical framework for noticing, normalizing, and navigating resistance so it doesn’t sabotage your results.

If you want to stop getting in your own way and start taking clean, strategic action, this episode gives you the tools to do it.

What you will learn in this episode:

[03:12] Why you, not your systems, are likely the bottleneck in your consulting business
[07:40] How resistance shows up and what it looks like day to day
[15:26] The two root causes of resistance and how to identify them in your thinking
[20:41] Five methods to work with resistance, not against it
[32:15] How to implement a resistance plan so you can stop circling and start progressing

Tune in to Episode 243 for tangible coaching tools to help you shift from bottleneck to business accelerator.

Mentioned Resources

1) Companion Resource: The Consultant Mindset Audit

2) Full Show Notes: https://shownotes.melisaliberman.com/episode-243/

3) Melisa’s Books, Planners & Journals: https://linktr.ee/melisaliberman

4) Related Podcast Episodes: Episode 237 - Make the Most of Your Business Owner Thinking Time  

5) Mentioned in this Episode: Podcast - Huberman Lab

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