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AVOIDANT DISMISSIVE OR AVOIDANT FEARFUL?

Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD. Season 3 Episode 23

#Are you avoidant?

#What scares you in a relationship?

#What are the strengths of your relationship?

#What needs changing in the relationship?

#Never try changing the person: change perceptions, expectations and examine what you have in common

#when there is conflict do you prefer shutting down than talking? That’s stonewalling  (sulking).  

When you do that, how is your partner impacted and does that resolve the issue or escalate emotions?

Do you tend to need closeness or distance in the relationship?

Do you feel suffocated by closeness in relationships?

When your relationships end do you downplay or minimize  its importance?

Or When your relationship ends do you fall apart?

Are you always fearful in a relationship; scared that it may end and you may be abandoned,  and because of those fears, do you tend to monitor your partner , become insecure, aggressive, controlling, violent or jealous?

How are your anxieties, controlling or dismissive Behavioural  tendencies affecting the relationship? 

If your partner treated you the way you treat them, will you be happy in the relationship? 

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