say YES to yourself! | Midlife Reinvention: Real Stories, Bold Moves
Say YES to Yourself! is a top midlife podcast for women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond who are reinventing their lives and navigating major life transitions.
This podcast is for you if you're asking:
1. Why do I feel lost as a woman in midlife?
2. Who am I now that my kids are grown and I have an empty nest?
3. Is it too late to reinvent myself in my 40s or 50s?
4. How do I rebuild after a divorce or a major life change?
5. Why do I feel guilty for wanting more for myself in midlife?
6. How do I stop people-pleasing and start putting myself first?
7. How do women reinvent themselves after caregiving or burnout?
8. How do I rebuild confidence and trust myself again in midlife?
9. How do I navigate a midlife transition without losing myself?
10. How do I make a career pivot in midlife that actually feels aligned?
Each week, host Wendy Harrop interviews inspiring women who are reinventing their lives in midlife. From career changes and creative pursuits to empty nest transitions and personal breakthroughs, you'll hear real stories of midlife transformation, courage, and joy.
Topics include: midlife reinvention, starting over after 40, second chapter living, empty nest syndrome, midlife career change, women's empowerment, personal growth for women over 50, midlife transitions, rebuilding after divorce, and finding yourself again in midlife.
Say YES to Yourself! is for midlife women ready to shed outdated expectations, rewrite their stories, and put themselves first—without guilt or apology.
Your best chapter starts now.
say YES to yourself! | Midlife Reinvention: Real Stories, Bold Moves
Trusting Your Yes and Living Fully Abroad | Alex Lalak
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What happens when you stop overthinking and simply say yes to the life that’s calling you? In this episode, Wendy is joined by travel writer and Francophile Alex Lalak, who shares how a series of bold, intuitive yesses led her from Sydney to New York, London, Paris—and now, a quiet village in Provence. Together, they explore what it means to trust your inner knowing, frame your life in chapters, and let go of the “shoulds” in pursuit of what’s real and resonant. From navigating motherhood abroad to choosing rest in a culture of hustle, Alex invites us to embrace presence, possibility, and permission to enjoy the moment you’re in. If you’ve ever wondered what your life might look like if you said yes more often, this episode is for you.
About Alex:
Alex Lalak is an Australian travel writer, Francophile, and storyteller with a passion for saying yes to adventure. Now based in the south of France, she’s spent the past decade living and working around the world—from Broadway and bustling newsrooms to remote writer’s retreats and charming European villages. A regular contributor to Escape, Australia’s largest travel media brand, Alex is currently writing a book about food and travel in the Mediterranean.
Connect with Alex:
On Instagram @alex_lalak
Referenced in this Episode:
Episode 178: Saying Yes to Following Your Heart Without a Roadmap with Jessica Hickman-Woolcott
The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
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