Pure Love

Love isn’t an abstract concept or a spiritual bumper sticker. It’s action. It’s consequence. When you hide behind policy, profit, or doctrine to avoid doing the humane thing, don’t call it love.

If you’re the doctor who sends a sick patient home because they can’t pay, you didn’t just follow protocol. You made a choice. You found every technicality you could to justify it. That patient goes home and dies, and you sleep at night pretending your hands are clean. They aren’t. You knowingly participated in harm. Do you feel good about that when the day ends? Do you ever think about the people left behind or does your concern stop the moment they’re out of sight? Love doesn’t outsource responsibility.

No, love shouldn’t have a price tag but let’s not pretend humans don’t exchange money for pleasure, intimacy, or relief all the time. That’s not the issue. The issue is hypocrisy. Don’t preach morality while practicing cruelty. And definitely don’t act shocked when consequences show up uninvited.

I bring up the Bible because people love to weaponize it. Homosexuality isn't as explicitly condemned as the loudest voices want you to believe. Yes, there are passages that reference marriage in male and female terms. And yes, Romans and Leviticus talk about immoral sexual behavior being an abomination. But those interpretations are soaked in agenda and historical context that gets conveniently ignored.

Paul’s letters to the Romans weren’t written in a vacuum. He had ambition. He wanted influence. Rome was consolidating power under its version of Christianity and anyone who didn’t comply was labeled immoral, disposable, or worse. Jews were targeted. People were killed. And now we’re supposed to accept this as untouched divine instruction instead of a human attempting to control the narrative and secure a seat at the table.

Have we seriously learned nothing in the last 400 years. How many times do small-minded people decide what other humans should be, then demand gratitude for the violence used to enforce it? And let’s not ignore the Catholic Church’s long and well documented history of covering up sexual abuse while pretending to hold moral authority. Somehow that gets swept under the rug while consensual love gets condemned. Make this dumb shit make sense.

Don't base your life on what some rando' human wants God to want. Especially when that interpretation requires control, fear, and bloodshed. We're free people. Honor what comes directly from God. Be suspicious of anything filtered through mass manipulation. That tactic didn’t die with history. It’s alive and thriving.

God doesn't condemn people for acting in love. Full stop. No matter how badly others want to police how that love looks. Loving others despite difference is central and God didn’t appoint anyone to enforce belief through violence. If judgment happens, it happens between God and the individual soul. That’s none of your damn business, hoe.

In the last few years, almost everyone has lost someone they loved. Grief exists because love existed first. You can’t separate the two. You don’t grieve what you didn’t love. And loving deeply guarantees grief at some point. That doesn’t mean love ends or changes form into som