The Introverted Influencer
Through a mixture of mental alchemy, spirituality and practical business advice, six-figure blogger, published interior designer, mother and introvert, Erica Van Slyke of Designing Vibes, shares tips on how to achieve success in the world of online influencing without sacrificing mental health or going against one's soul essence. After years of studying energetics and manifestation, this ex SEO consultant has tapped into her true purpose and mastered the art of abundance through ease and feminine flow.- no misery (or social media)required. Whether you are a spiritually curious entrepreneur calling in more passive income or someone simply interested in monetizing a passion, this podcast is for you! Website: https://designingvibes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designingvibes/
Episodes
97 episodes
You Can’t Design Your Dream Life by Staying on the Fence
Whether it’s a room or your next big move, you can’t create anything real without committing to something first. Yet so many of us stay stuck—afraid to make the “wrong” decision, endlessly reworking the mood board of our lives. ...
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Episode 97
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15:06
The Masculine Energy You Actually Need to Uplevel (And It’s Not Hustle)
There’s a certain masculine energy no one talks about- the kind that lets you gracefully hold the uplevels and manifestations you’ve been calling in.This isn’t hustle or grind. It’s the grounded, anchored energy that keeps your ...
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Episode 96
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15:21
Fear, Failure, and the Freedom of Getting Knocked Down
The last few years knocked me flat—algos, setbacks, ego deaths. But instead of proving I was “lucky,” they stretched my capacity and showed me I can rebuild.In this episode, I’m sharing why failure isn’t punishment—it’s initiation. You’l...
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Episode 95
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15:05
Getting Comfortable with Debt and Anger
Two of the biggest “dirty words” for women? Anger and Debt. But here’s the thing : they’re not always bad. In fact, they can be powerful.In this episode, I share why anger can actually be more sacred (and useful) than depre...
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Episode 94
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13:00
The Truth About SEO in the AI Era: How to Show Up in Google, Bing, and ChatGPT
Tired of hearing that “SEO is dead”? Yeah, me too. The truth is, it’s not dead—it’s just getting a fresh coat of snake-oil marketing from fly-by-night companies trying to scare you into buying “AI SEO packages.” In this episode, I break down wh...
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Episode 93
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14:38
For the Mom on the Struggle Bus
If you’ve been in a messy mom season—no meditation, no journaling, no morning ritual to speak of—this episode is your big, exhale-worthy permission slip.Right now, I’m deep in the thick of summer break. My spiritual practices have taken ...
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Episode 92
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15:00
When It Wants to Die—Let It.
What if the thing you’re clinging to isn’t meant to be saved? In this episode, I’m talking about the sacred (and scary) art of letting go—whether it's a version of yourself, a business model, a routine, or a role that no lo...
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Episode 91
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15:23
When Donuts, Netflix & Wine Became My Manifestation Portal
What if your next breakthrough isn’t hiding in your morning routine, content strategy, or shadow work checklist—but in doing nothing at all? In this episode, I share how stepping off the content hamster wheel, letting mysel...
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15:16
The Plot Twist No One Talks About in Manifestation
Ever felt like when trying to manifest love, abundance, or ease—life serves up rejection, scarcity, and chaos instead? This episode unpacks why experiencing the opposite of what you’re calling in is actually a powerful sign of growth. ...
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Episode 89
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15:39
The Power of a Micropivot: How Small Tweaks Create Big Shifts
You don’t need a dramatic rebrand, a new personality, or a 75-step morning routine to change your life. Sometimes, all it takes is a micropivot—a small, intentional shift that moves the needle in your business, your body, or your energy....
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Episode 88
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14:39
Is This Still Fun? Losing Yourself in the Content Machine
What happens when your passion project becomes your paycheck—and suddenly, it feels more like pressure than play? In this episode, I’m getting real about the burnout, the judgment, and the quiet grief of turning your creative outlet into a bran...
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Episode 87
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19:10
When You Hit Rock Bottom—Again—Here’s What You Actually Need
If you’ve already been through a dark night of the soul and now find yourself rock bottoming again—you’re not broken, you’re being initiated. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really feels like to hit...
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Episode 86
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15:38
Google Loves YouTubers—But What About the Rest of Us?
Google’s playing favorites—and surprise, surprise, it’s YouTubers getting all the love. But where does that leave the rest of us introverts who’d rather write than film our faces? In this episode, I’m breaking down why bloggers who ...
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Episode 85
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16:13
You Never Know When It’s Time—For Goodbye or a Breakthrough
After losing my sweet hound dog Layla without warning, I’ve been sitting with the fragile, unpredictable nature of life. This episode is a tender exploration of how we never really know when it’s someone’s time to go—or when it’s our t...
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Episode 84
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12:32
Thinking of Redesigning Your Site? This Cautionary Tale Could Save You Thousands
Thinking about giving your website a facelift? Maybe you’re itching for a fresh look—or feeling like your site just doesn’t match your vibe anymore. Before you tear it all down and start fresh, there’s something you need to know...In thi...
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Episode 83
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17:09
Burn the Box: Business + Creative Freedom Lessons from Bob Dylan
If you’ve been feeling stuck in one niche, burned out by the algorithm, or like your creativity is suffocating under too much strategy… this one’s for you.In this episode, I’m sharing some unexpected lessons I learned recently from the o...
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Episode 82
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21:06
No Selfies, No Small Talk—How to Show Up on Social Media as an Introvert
Hate showing your face on social media? Same. But guess what? You don’t have to be the life of the (virtual) party to grow massive influence online. In this episode, I’m sharing exactly how I’ve built my brand without
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Episode 81
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17:28
How the Fear of Being Called a Narcissist Is Keeping You Stuck
If you're a woman growing an online business, brace yourself—at some point, someone’s gonna slap the "narcissist" label on you. But is that really a bad thing? In this episode, we unpack the overuse (and misuse) of the word "narciss...
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Episode 80
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16:43
I Was Wrong About Social Media: How AI Changed Everything
So, here's the deal. I used to be that person preaching that social media isn't the secret sauce to scaling your brand. I even said you don’t need it to grow your blog, website, or business. Well, guess what? I’m eating my words. Wi...
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Episode 79
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17:31
Escape the Hamster Wheel of Content Creation
Tired of running in circles, cranking out content just to stay relevant? In this episode, we’re hitting pause on the hamster wheel of endless creation and talking about how to take back control of your creative energy—without the burnout. If yo...
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Episode 78
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15:33
Your Best is Relative: How to Own Your Unique Path
From Pinterest-perfect decor to Insta-worthy family photos, it’s easy to feel like you’re falling short this festive time of year. But here’s the thing: Your '"best life" isn’t the same as anyone else’s. In this episode, I am discussing why we ...
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Episode 77
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17:20
Opportunity Is Calling: Trust That You Have What It Takes
How many times have you turned down an opportunity because you felt unqualified, even though deep down the idea of it lit you TF up?In this episode, I’m diving into the trap we all fall into—undermining our own natural gifts and letting...
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Episode 76
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12:22
Life Lessons I have Learned After Blogging for 9 Years
In this episode, I reflect on my nine-year journey as a blogger and the invaluable lessons I've learned along the way. Whether you’re a blogger, an artist, an entrepreneur, or simply someone chasing your passion, I hope these uniqu...
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Episode 75
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21:10
Feeling Like a Fake? An Unusual Indicator of Growth and How To Navigate It
Whether you are navigating a career shift, starting a new project, or simply pushing your boundaries, imposter syndrome is bound to rear its ugly head at some point in your self-development journey. In this episode, I am sharing my tips...
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Episode 74
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10:14
A Simple Perspective Shift to Thrive Through Anxiety and Adversity
Let’s be real: being a human on this crazy planet is challenging AF right now! With so many tribulations and unsettling future scenarios lurking around the corner, it’s easy for joy and peace to feel like nothing but distant memories. B...
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Episode 73
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17:04