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Embracing Your Child’s True Self with Pam Roy Part 1

• Pearl Mashour • Season 2 • Episode 45

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Welcome to Part 1 of this fabulous interview with Pam Roy!

The pressures on kids today are overwhelming. They’re expected to juggle rigorous academics, volunteer work, leadership roles, internships, and more—all to secure admission to their “dream college.” Despite the sacrifices, countless hours, and endless effort, many end up facing rejection, questioning their self-worth, and wondering which college sweatshirt to wear for their senior photos.  

But amidst all this hard work, an important question arises: Are they truly learning and growing, or are they simply checking boxes to meet arbitrary standards?  

This path often comes with a steep price—sacrificed family time, childhoods lost to unending demands for achievement, and the heavy burden of financial and emotional costs. The result? A growing trend of mental, emotional, and physical burnout.  

Key Takeaways from this episode:

  1. Meaningful Impact: Embrace ideas and tools to live with greater meaning, purpose, and intentionality.
  2. Resources & Stories: Explore Viktor Frankl's philosophies and how they resonate in today's world.
  3. Connections Matter: Discover platforms offering insights into personal growth and societal impact.

My guest today is passionate about redefining this system. She champions honoring children’s individuality, encouraging experiential learning, and offering the freedom to explore beyond the rigid confines of traditional education.  

Our special guest: Pam Roy

Pam Roy is a writer, filmmaker, mentor, and advocate who is on a mission to transform education and redefine success for children and young adults. Through her work, Pam emphasizes community-based support and meaningful learning opportunities that nurture mental health and well-being. Drawing inspiration from the renowned psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, she challenges the outdated, one-size-fits-all education model.  

Her book, Parenting From The Passenger Seat: How Our Children Develop Capabilities, Connections, and Meaningful Lives, offers a fresh perspective on parenting that prioritizes meaningful growth and self-discovery over societal expectations. Pam’s work encourages families to shift away from relentless achievement and embrace a more authentic, purpose-driven approach to raising the next generation. 

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Pearl Mashour is a Master Women Empowerment Coach, Life Coach & Multiple Subject Credentialed Teacher.

Learn more about Pearl Mashour at www.femalefluence.com