Create Love Create Freedom
Guiding you on your journey towards self-healing, self-mastery, personal growth, and transformation so that you can create the life, love, and freedom you desire. Conscious relationship, masculine archetype and feminine archetype teacher Allison Fischer helps you connect deeper to yourself, to each other, and to life.
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Episodes
348 episodes
Living Form A Place Of Scarcity Rather Than Abundance: How To Shift Your Mindset On Your Healing Journey
In this episode, we discuss the aspects of the feminine who feels like she is living in a place of scarcity rather than abundance when she is working through her childhood wounds and trauma, when she is healing from past relationship wounds and...
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1:07:52
Understanding The Dismissive Avoidant Man: Why He Says He Loves You But Doesn't Treat You Like He Does
Romantic involvement with a dismissive‑avoidant (“DA”) partner can feel like a paradox: on one hand there’s warmth, charm, even deep declarations of care; on the other, a stubborn distance that makes you question whether that love is real...
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1:13:48
Healing the Madona-Whore Wound Within the Feminine
In this episode, we continue our discussion of the Madona-Whore Complex and dive into a deep discussion on how the feminine can heal her experiences and psychological trauma related to being labeled the Modona or the Whore in her own life. ...
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1:13:43
Rejecting the Madonna-Whore Dichotomy: The Feminine Who Chooses Autonomy Over Conforming to Patriarchal Roles
As women, we have experienced the Madonna-Whore Complex and have been put into one or both of the categories with different men. In this episode, we discuss the women who choose neither path. We also discuss the correlation of the Madonna-Whore...
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1:01:32
How the Feminine Abandons Herself: The Correlation Between Self-Abandonment, Childhood Wounds, and Insecure Attachment and How the Feminine Can Reclaim Her Self-Identity
Self‑abandonment is the habitual overlooking—or outright suppression—of one’s own needs, feelings, and boundaries in order to maintain connection with another. For a woman socialized into a “feminine” role—encouraged to be nurturing, adaptive, ...
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1:08:11
Male Aggression and Assertiveness as Idealized Traits: How the Feminine Can Live More Harmoniously in a Masculine Dominated Society
In this episode, we discuss male aggression and assertiveness as idealized traits in American society, as well as how our masculine dominated society teaches male agency and selfishness through transgressing boundaries. Americ...
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1:04:27
The Difference Between Being Emotionally Needed Versus Emotionally Loved In A Relationship
In this episode, we discuss the difference between being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved in a relationship, as well as the cost of being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved for a woman in romantic relationships. ...
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Self-Sovereignty, Transformation and the Reclamation of Personal Power
In this episode, we look at the correlations between Persephone and the Shadow Empress feminine archetype and their connection to duality, transformation, and the reclamation of feminine power. Both figures challenge traditional dichotomies, ur...
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57:05
Using the Law of Detachment For Feminine Healing, Decentering Men, and Healing Insecure Attachment to Become Your Highest Self
In this episode, we discuss the law of detachment, the law of attachment, healing inner wounds using detachment, and how the feminine can transform her relationships with men using sacred feminine practices and decentering men. By e...
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1:09:36
The Feminine and Self-Discovery: How to Prioritize and Embody Your Inner World
Prioritizing self-discovery is an ongoing, dynamic process that involves cultivating a deeper understanding of a woman's inner world, values, passions, and goals. For a woman aiming to reclaim her individuality and authenticity, self-discovery ...
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Reclaiming Your Independence When You Have Lost Connection With Yourself In Your Relationship
Reclaiming independence in a relationship or after ending a relationship starts with reconnecting to who the feminine is as an individual, rather than as part of a partnership. In this episode, we dive into how we as women can reclaim the parts...
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48:58
The Secret of Women Who Hold Their Own: How the Feminine Can Cultivate Quiet Power
The idea of soft, quiet feminine power centers on an inner strength that doesn’t rely on volume or overt dominance but on presence, intuition, and a deep sense of self. It’s the subtle art of influencing the world through calm resilience, empat...
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The Difficult Mother Series: Inner Wounds A Daughter Can Experience, How It Affects Her Relationships, and The Correlation to Insecure Attachment
In this episode, we conclude our last episode in the Difficult Mother Series where we discuss the inner wounds we can experience as daughters with difficult mothers, how it affects all of the future relationships we have throughout our life whe...
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52:37
The Difficult Mother Series: Shallow Emotional Expression and Attention Seeking Behavior in the Histrionic Mother and the Impact on Her Daughter
In this episode, we continue our series on being a daughter with a difficult mother. We explore the histrionic mother in this episode - why she has shallow emotional expressions toward others and her daughter, why she constantly seeks attention...
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47:02
The Difficult Mother Series: Emotional Constancy and Splitting in the Borderline Mother and the Impact on Her Daughter
In this episode, we discuss the borderline mother and emotional constancy and splitting and how these behaviors impact her daughter.
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30:31
The Difficult Mother Series: Narcissistic Extension and the Narcissistic Mother and How This Impacts Her Daughter
In this episode, we discuss narcissistic extension in the context of the narcissistic mother and how her narcissistic extension impacts her daughter.
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How the Feminine Uses Dark Psychology to Influence Societal Change, Grow Her Wealth, and Build the Life She Desires
In this episode, we discuss how the feminine can use dark psychology to persuade, influence, and subtly shift the outdated mindsets of others, influence change in society, grow her wealth, and live the life that brings her the most joy and fulf...
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54:47
The Feminine Duality of Accepting Your Fate While Creating the Life You Desire
In this episode, we discuss accepting our fate which involves a deep recognition of what is beyond our control—acknowledging the circumstances, events, or natural rhythms that life presents—while also embracing the power we have to shape our re...
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50:06
Low Vibrational Attachment and It's Correlation to Insecure Attachment Style and the Situationship
In this episode, we discuss low vibrational attachment and how it is not about true love—it’s more about clinging to feelings and patterns that are driven by insecurity and need rather than authenticity and emotional maturity. Recognizing these...
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1:12:18
What Persephone Teaches the Feminine About Periods of Transition in Our Lives
In this episode, we discuss Persephone’s myth - a powerful metaphor for transitions in a woman's life, particularly those that involve cycles of growth, descent, and rebirth. Her journey from maiden (Kore) to Queen of the Underworld mirrors man...
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1:06:18
Quantum Leaping and Quantum Timelines for the Feminine on Her Journey to Wholeness and Growth
In this episode, we discuss the feminine's path to building the life she desires by using quantum leaping and quantum timelines.
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1:02:59
Healthy Delusion vs Unhealthy Delusion: How the Feminine Can Use Healthy Delusion to Create the Life She Desires
In this episode, we discuss the characteristics of healthy delusion and unhealthy delusion and how the feminine can use healthy delusion to create the life she desires.
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1:12:18
The Misguided Beliefs Around Unhealthy Self-Reliance: How Baby Boomers Interact with Their Children and Grandchildren
In this episode, we discuss the misguided beliefs around self-reliance that Baby Boomers had passed on to them from their parents, their lack of healing their wounds and trauma, how this affects their children and grandchildren, causes the youn...
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1:03:44
Baby Boomers and Trauma: Why the Children and Grandchildren of Boomers Struggle to Connect with Their Families of Origin
In this episode, we discuss the trauma that Baby Boomers had passed on to them from their parents, their lack of healing their wounds and trauma, how this affects the younger generations, and how Baby Boomers have contributed to the inequality ...
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