#247 | Understanding Multiple Infidelities: Essential Insights for the Betrayed Partner

What happens when your partner hasn't just cheated once, but multiple times? 

If you're dealing with serial infidelities, I know you're asking yourself some really painful questions: "What's wrong with me?" "Why do they keep cheating on me?" "Was any part of our relationship even real?" And here's the thing - after decades of working with thousands of couples, I have some answers that might surprise you.

In this episode, you'll discover:

Why multiple infidelities are never about you, the betrayed person - and I mean never, not once in all my years of practice has it been about the betrayed partner

The real reason why people become serial cheaters, and how understanding the "parts" of a person can help you stop personalizing their betrayal

Why the love in your relationship was real, even with all the pain and deception - and how to separate the part of them that acted out from the part that genuinely loved you

How to rebuild your self-worth when it feels completely shattered, starting with learning to "unblend" from your partner's destructive behavior

Why it's completely normal and even admirable that you still love them after everything they've put you through

Look, I know this is incredibly painful territory.

You're probably feeling like your world has been turned upside down, and you're questioning everything you thought you knew about your relationship. But I want you to know that there is hope, and there are real answers. This is the first part of what will be a multiple-part series on dealing with serial infidelity, and I'm going to walk you through this step by step. 

Because at the end of the day, I'm here to help make the world safe for love - and that includes helping you heal from this betrayal.

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Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclass

Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

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