When Helping Others is Hurting You: The Truth About People Pleasing

Let’s keep it real: people-pleasing might sound kind and selfless, but when helping others becomes a constant at your own expense, it’s time for a wake-up call. In this episode, we’re diving into what it looks like when your need to make everyone else happy starts draining your energy, your peace, and your purpose.

Do you ever feel like you’re not okay unless everyone else is okay? Do you find yourself saying yes before checking if it actually fits your life—or your calling? Are you worried about how others perceive you more than how you feel in your own soul?

🚨 Newsflash: If your value is tied to how much you're doing for others… it’s time to pause and check-in.

We’re talking about the signs, the traps, and the truth: sometimes God’s best "yes" for you is a holy “no.” Balance is key. Let’s explore it together.

🎙️ Keepin’ It Real Question:
Is people pleasing something you struggle with? What does that look like for you, and how does it show up in your life?

✨ Quick Reminders from Your Favorite Busy Ladies:

• Kim Haar’s new book Healing From Life’s Deepest Hurts is available now! Get your copy and stay up to date at www.kimberlyhaar.com.
• Don’t miss the RISE Conference coming to Tulsa on September 16th, hosted by The Women’s Fellowship! Join us for a God-infused half-day of powerful speakers, panelists, worship, and connection. Get all the details at www.thewomensfellowship.com under the RISE Conference tab.