Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
197 episodes
Men Secretly Fear These 5 Things About Older Women
Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I’m revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you’ll be in the driver’s ...
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How to Believe in Love Again: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy
In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you.And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change h...
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What Does Mature Masculinity Look Like in Dating?
Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally fi...
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5 Trending Dating Principles That Will Change How You Think About Love (With Macy Matarazzo)
Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decod...
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7 Ways You’re Making Your Dating Life Miserable (Without Knowing It)
Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns.
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If A Man Ignores You, Here’s What He’s Thinking
Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).
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#1 Strategy to Attract More Authentic Men (Hint: It's NOT What You Think)
Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate ...
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Should You Take Him Back? 5 Questions to Ask
That "hey" text from your ex just popped up – now what? We're tackling the tricky return of the "zombie ex," helping you decode their motivations and navigate your own mixed emotions. Before you fall back into old patterns, learn our strategic ...
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5 Ways to Tell If He’s Worth Your Time (in 10 Minutes or Less)
Your time is precious, especially when it comes to finding love.And if you've been burned by flaky texters, charming narcissists, or emotionally unavailable men, you're probably tired of wasting it on guys who drain your energy and leav...
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The Year of Deb Pt. 2: Date Like Deb
In this follow-up to the wildly popular Year of Deb, we’re diving into her “little black book” method for dating with clarity, confidence, and zero BS. Discover why calm is the new chemistry, how outcome independence makes you magnetic...
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How to Attract a High-Character Man (It's NOT What You Think)
Tired of feeling like finding a high-character man is an impossible solo mission? We're changing the script on traditional dating advice. Discover the surprising power of community and how your "tribe" can become your greatest asset in attracti...
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Men CHOOSE Women Based on These 5 Emotions
When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.”
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Dating Dangerously: What Draws Women to Rule-Breakers
In this spicy episode, we’re joined by Love Strategies’ very own Macy Matarazzo—Senior Love Advisor and resident truth-teller—to unpack why so many women find themselves drawn to criminals, bad boys, and rule breakers.From dreamy mugshot...
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7 “Nice” Things Guys Do That Are Actually Red Flags
Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fa...
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7 Mindviruses That Sabotage Your Love Life
In this video, I’ll uncover the hidden “mind viruses” that could be sabotaging your chances at real connection. These are common, contagious beliefs that quietly sabotage your dating life—without you even realizing it. And the worst part? They ...
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What Mature Men Find Irresistible in a Woman (5 Key Things)
Ever wonder what emotionally mature, relationship-ready men are really looking for? In this special pod, I peel back the curtain on what men (not boys) find irresistible—and how it’s completely different from what younger guys value (a...
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How to Deal with Politics While Dating? (Can you date someone with a different view?)
Tired of swiping left based on political affiliation? We're diving into the surprisingly complex world of dating across the aisle, challenging the notion that red and blue can't find common ground. Forget the simple advice – we'll equip you wit...
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The Feminine Charm Code: 7 Proven Ways to Be a Magnetic First Date
Are you tired of feeling cursed when it comes to first dates? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you just can't seem to make a connection with someone new? It's a common feeling, but the good news is that there are proven ways to be a cha...
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The Psychology of Body Language: 7 Ways to Capture Men's Attention
Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication...
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If You Invest in Relationships Too Quickly, Here’s 5 Ways to STOP
Have you ever gone on a first date, clicked with someone, and started planning your future together before you even finished dessert? If so, you're not alone. Many women overinvest in a man before seeing if he's worth it. Unfortunately, this ca...
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5 Sneaky Ways Guys Secretly Lie While Dating
Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from bein...
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Is Your Guy Falling Short? One thing you should NEVER do.
He’s not giving you what you need in the relationship and it’s time for some “feedback”. Should you try and fix him or just it go?In today’s podcast, we discuss the one thing you should NEVER do in a relationship.Originally Aired:...
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How to Break Your Bad Boy Habit
Tired of the emotional rollercoaster and predictable heartbreak that comes with dating "bad boys"? This week, we're diving deep into why this pattern persists and, more importantly, how to break free for good. Discover the surprising psychologi...
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