Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
280 episodes
He’s Moving Way Too Fast? Say THIS to Slow Him Down
So many high-achieving women tell me the same story: “He was wonderful… until he started pushing for sex.” If that sounds familiar, I want you to see that moment not as a crisis, but as a powerful filter. In this podcast, I share one simple con...
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7 Brutally Honest Lessons about Dating
Sick of dating advice that coddles you? We're cutting through the fluff with the brutal truths you've been avoiding. Prepare for a no-holds-barred conversation about your dating habits and why you're stuck. If you're ready for real change, this...
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7 Harsh Truths about Why You're Still Single
If you’ve been single for six months or more, it's time to stop blaming bad luck. It's a pattern, and we're here to give a little tough love about it. We're laying out seven reasons you're still single, from self-sabotage to unclear flirting si...
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3 Things to Look for in a Long Term Relationship
Most dating advice is built around short-term outcomes: attraction, chemistry, excitement, momentum. And while those things matter, they’re not what determine whether a relationship lasts—or quietly falls apart a few years in.Long-term l...
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How to Have Deep Conversations on First Dates
Stop dreading dates and start making genuine connections. In this episode we reveal the power of conversation builders, questions that go beyond the surface. Learn the art of sparking meaningful dialogue.Originally Aired: Mar. 08,...
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7 Ways to Spot MAJOR Red Flags Before It's Too Late
Spotting the obvious red flags is easy, it’s the ones they hide that trip us up. Tune in as we reveal 7 powerful strategies for digging deeper, moving past assumptions, and collecting the real data you need to unmask major dating red flags soon...
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5 signs a guy doesn't like you (NEXT!)
In this podcast episode, I walk you through a quiet but powerful shift that ends the cycle of chasing emotionally unavailable men. I share the one feeling you should never ignore, and the exact moment you can safely stop giving him the benefit ...
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12 Simple Tests to See if He's the One
Want to know if your date is really a good person? Words are cheap, actions reveal everything. We're showing you how to observe behavior, not just listen to promises, to truly understand a potential partner. Learn how simple things lik...
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The Dating Secrets I Learned While Coaching Men (That Changed Everything)
I used to believe men were far more confident and calculated in dating than they actually are.What I learned instead reshaped how I approach attraction, timing, and connection.Skip the guesswork and apply for a Love Strategy Sessi...
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6 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Truly Love You (Even If He Says He Does)
When a man says “I love you,” how do you know if he actually means it in the way you need? In this podcast, I share six specific patterns that quietly tell you he is not truly in, no matter how warm his words sound. Ready to shift f...
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How to Attract a Man Who Emotionally Protects You
Beyond butterflies and fireworks, what truly makes a relationship thrive? We're diving deep into the often-overlooked power of emotional protection. Join us to learn what it means, why it matters, and how to cultivate it in your own love life.<...
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Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Men (and How to Stop)
Stop searching for a "high-value" partner, it's vague, shallow, and totally counterproductive!We're revealing the single quality every client wants in a man, and why you need to stop thinking of people as "sale items" and start ...
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Why Moving Slowly Can Help You Find Love Faster
In this podcast episode, I’m sharing a dating shift that tends to feel wildly uncomfortable for high-achieving women at first, and quietly life-changing later. If you’ve ever felt that your love life moves fast, burns bright, and then leaves yo...
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The Science of Attraction: 7 Ways to Find the Spark
In this podcast, Dr. Gary reveals the science behind attraction. Learn the “Golden Rule of Attraction,” whether opposites really do attract, should you play hard to get, and how important is personality (or is it really all physical?) Discover ...
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30:23
Why Dating Your Type is Keeping Your Single
Are you tired of dating the "same guy, different name" with the same disappointing results?Take the free Attraction Archetype assessment and understand your patterns - https://go.lovestra...
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33:51
8 Things Men Find Emotionally Attractive in a Woman
Most people think physical attraction is what keeps a relationship going.In reality, it’s emotional attraction that determines whether things fade out or grow deeper.Apply for Your FREE Love Strategy Session: https://www.loveapply.co...
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5 Sneaky Ways Guys Secretly Lie While Dating
Think he's being honest? Think again. This week's podcast cracks the code on the sneaky linguistic tactics guys use to bend the truth while dating, without technically lying. Learn to identify the subtle red flags and protect yourself from bein...
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How to Deal with a Guy Who Is Too Sexual
Navigating the world of modern dating can be tricky, especially when a new guy gets too sexual too soon. Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.co...
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9 Things Women Wish They Knew About Men Sooner
Most women don’t struggle with dating because they’re doing something wrong. They struggle because they were never taught what actually matters in relationships. If you want a clear, step-by-step strategy to create real commitment, ...
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Attracting the Wrong Men? How To Fix a Broken Picker
Are you tired of falling for the wrong guys? Learn how to break free from the cycle of unhealthy relationships and find a partner who truly values you. In this podcast, we'll explore the reasons why you might be attracted to the wrong people an...
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How to Find Love as a Widow: 7 Things You Need to Know
For many widows, the idea of dating again brings fear, guilt, and uncertainty. Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginFree web...
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Welcome to 2026. The Year You Attract Love.
If dating has felt frustrating or stuck, 2026 can be the year things finally change.Apply for Your Complimentary Love Strategy Session - https://go.lovestrategies.com/beginIn ...
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Are Men Really Turned Off By Successful Women? The Harsh Truth
Have you ever found yourself wondering why your professional success doesn't seem to translate into success in your relationships? It's a confusing and frustrating scenario, leaving you questioning why you seem to excel in one area ...
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