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Three Monkeys and a Lesson: Mastering What You See, Hear, and Speak

Joanne Demers Episode 70

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See No Evil- Hear no Evil- Speak no Evil. You have heard & seen this before. Three Monkeys covering their eyes, ears, and mouth.

While its premise seems simple, this phrase  actually holds a powerful lesson. It’s about “mastering” how you move through the world, how you protect your mind, your actions, and your influence  so  you do not become part of what’s wrong with the world, and that’s where self- discipline plays a crucial role.

 See No Evil

The modern  meaning: Don’t look at bad things

The original meaning:  Be mindful of what you allow into your mind.

What you see& consume….All media- gossip & negativity -all of  these shape your thoughts, emotions and assumptions and become mental input. 

YOU and only you are responsible for your mental diet. You don’t have to “absorb” everything you SEE.  

 Hear No Evil

Modern  meaning- Don’t listen to Bad things.

The original meaning- Be selective about what you believe and internalize.

Not Everything you hear deserves your belief- and a seat in your mind.

Opinions, criticism, fear, gossip, they are everywhere.

Just because something is said and you hear it- doesn’t make it true- and definitely doesn’t make it useful.

 Speak No evil- 

The modern meaning- Don’t say bad things

The original meaning- take responsibility for the impact of your words.

This one isn’t about staying quiet.

it’s about being accountable/taking responsibility for what you contribute into the world. – once something leaves your mouth-it doesn’t belong to you anymore-it affects other people.

Before speaking, try and use a simple filter:

Is it true?

Is it necessary?

And is it constructive?

Again, this isn’t about silence. Your output is the one part you fully control. Think before you talk and choose your words carefully- choose words that reflect your values and purpose- meaning-speak in a way that aligns with what you stand for- and aim to use your words to inform, help or build- NOT to harm.

It’s the only part of this you Fully control.

  The Modern Balance

Here is where this gets even more important-  There is criticism about this philosophy, because it is often misunderstood as passive. As if the goal is to: look the other way, stay quiet, and avoid conflict, but that’s not the original intent, that’s avoidance. 

True discipline isn’t avoidance it's:

* the acknowledgement of reality

* Filtering input

*responding intentionally

*And speaking responsibly

You can see, hear and speak with awareness without becoming part of the negativity.

 You can be aware of what’s happening in the world & acknowledge reality, speak up when it matters, and still chose not to absorb or spread what’s harmful. 

Remember:

You don’t control everything you see-

You don’t control everything you hear-

BUT you DO control:

*what you Take in

*what you hold onto

*and you control what you put back out into the world- and that’s where this whole idea lives- not in avoiding, BUT in Awareness, responsibility and choice…that’s where your super power is.

 See clearly

Hear intentionally

Speak responsibly

And don’t let everything you come across become a part of you.


Enjoy!

Joanne Demers

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