Freedom Is You Podcast
Your place to find the power YOU have in what has been troubling you, so you can move forward in a way that feels really good! I have this saying, when you change the way you feel, it changes the way you look at it and when you change the way you look at it... you interact with it differently - that whatever has been troubling you, interacts with you differently.
Shadow work and Self healing meets motherhood, infertility & everything in between. Each moment we are feeling troubled by something/someone, is simply highlighting a dysfunctional emotional connection we have to whatever is happening. So lets create a healthy emotional connection in it's place!
Here is to raising humans who feel safe, understood, calm so they don't have to heal from their childhood and have thriving relationships and a life they don't feel they need to take a vacation from.
Here is to navigating fertility struggles from a place of feeling inner peace and if you don't, knowing how to find it again so you don't lose yourself in the journey.
Here is to having a healthy relationship with your partner where you feel understood, calm and safe so when there are disagreements they get resolved in a calm manner so you can feel more connected then ever.
Here is to making your mind a place you truly want to be.
Here is to helping you be able to interact with others OUTSIDE the dysfunction, including yourself.
I fell into a depression in my first TTC journey after having two early miscarriages that I had to take a mental health leave from work. I ended up with a fertility diagnosis and cried for a week straight. I dug myself out of my depression and found happiness in my journey again, three short months later I got the pregnancy that stuff. My story doesn't end there. I ended up with a happy healthy baby girl but here was the problem - hearing her cries felt overwhelming that I would curl up into a ball and start crying. The intrusive thoughts where I felt sure I was going to accidently harm her, I remember freaking out in my psychologists office "I'm going to manifest her death! I can't stop worrying about it!" To daily fights with my husband feeling like we weren't a priority, feeling unappreciated - one day I realized, I couldn't keep going on this way. The way I felt every day, it wasn't something I wanted for my daughter - I wanted her to have the foundation to thrive in life. I had all the material things that promised me happy but inside, I was far from happy. I was forever arguing with my husband, felt isolated from friends and more like a nuisance then anything, my thoughts were hard to be with, anxiety. So I dove head first into spirituality, started practicing mediumship and offering readings, started exploring the science behind spirituality, neuroscience, mindset, hypnosis, NLP, trauma and somatics. Now? I use my daughters troubling behavior to heal unresolved emotional wounds, no longer giving her troubling behavior oxygen to breathe that the behavior completely resolves. You better bet I've applied it within every other relationship I've had too - the best part? It works. Every single time.
Freedom Is You Podcast
EP 11: *TRIGGER WARNING: LOSS* “Having to make a choice you know is right even though it may hurt the one you love” with Bobbie (PART ONE)
TRIGGER WARNING: Loss/abortion/miscarriage
Bobbie is an energy healer, medium, aura photographer and incredible Soul who shared a part of her incredible story of what it’s been like to navigate life with a difficult diagnosis - multiple sclerosis. She received some difficult news in recent years about the progression of her MS and what it means for her future. Just over a year ago she received surprising news, it came with a big decision she had to make.
Bobbie gets vulnerable sharing a powerful part of her story that I definitely didn’t see coming, but it is powerful beyond measure in making choices others may not understand but you know in your heart it’s right for you - an ultimate leap of faith in yourself.
She is someone who is naturally inspiring to those she’s around, despite the things she’s had to face in life, she holds such a friendly and optimistic view in life. Bobbie is gifted at observing what is happening rather then immersing herself in it where sometimes it can make it feel personal. She is straight up someone you feel like has lived a thousand years and has so much wisdom about life. Do yourself a favor and play the damn episode already! Maybe grab a tissue or two. And if you want to really be a part of the conversation, we had a glass of champagne, so pop some bubbly with us! Unless you’re driving, then cap that shit.
You can find Bobbie over at IG: @thesoulkissjourney
There were some heavy things discussed in this episode, know that if you are struggling mentally or navigating difficult things in your life, please seek out a licensed professional that can support you.
I’m a huge advocate of Rapid Resolution Therapy and you can find licensed professionals here: Find a Certified RRT Specialist — Rapid Resolution Therapy®
You can also receive free mirco shifts through weekly Solution calls hosted by the founder of Rapid Resolution Therapy here: Solutions! — Rapid Resolution Therapy®
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