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EP.122 - Mohini Gima - "There Is A Fire In All Of Us"

Kiran McKay Season 1 Episode 122

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In this unapologetically real conversation, I sit down with Mohini, a Holistic Relationship Coach for Ranis, who guides Desi divorcees to reclaim their power and rewrite their relationship stories. After a 14-year marriage, Mohini has come face-to-face with the complexities of cultural expectations, self-worth, and the fear of being alone. She’s now on a mission to help others find freedom and joy on their own terms.

Mohini shares her deeply personal journey, reflecting on how her worth was once tied to her role as a wife, and how she was caged in cultural norms that kept her from fully embracing her true nature. “What is your true nature?” she asks, inviting us to explore what we’re hiding behind out of survival.

We dig into powerful truths like, “There’s a lot of shit to be pissed off about,” and how it’s by design that women aren’t always in spaces where they can make real change. Mohini talks about how multiple truths can be true at one time and how part of nature is change—sometimes, it’s necessary for our own evolution.

“Your life is not over just because you’re a divorced woman,” Mohini reminds us. She urges us to ask, Are you even happy doing that for your entire life? With raw honesty, she challenges us to let go of the fear of being alone, stop living on someone else’s frequency, and realize: You’re worthy of a life beyond suffering.

Join us for a powerful conversation that’s about more than just divorce—it’s about shedding the expectations that hold us back and rediscovering the fire within. "At some point, you’re going to have to let go of how many fucks you give,” says Mohini. So, let’s go on a fucking journey together.

Website:  ranirising.com

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